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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Well, as it always does, being single is getting easier with time, despite the fact that I miss being his and miss him being mine yada yada.
Always open to suggestion.
-coughs-
-looks around-
 
Ok so im single .It took me 15 fucking minutes to work out how long i've been single for....give or take a week ....3 years 4 months and 1 week . Dont think I've been happier all my life .coincidence?? :) ...and all I wanted was a little ME time who would have thought it would take over three years to do so :) .I think the more single friends you have the better .They know where its @ .Your single friends will be the people who make life pretty fucking exciting .And all your couple friends sure do look all cute and lovey dovey when you see them ....but isnt life much cooler and user friendly when you don't have to check in with your other half ,ask if its ok to do something ,go somewhere or buy something for yourself ,even go out with friends .Just having to consider someone else is something im not up for at the moment .been there!. I'll know miss right when I meet her .There is no rush and I think everyone has several ms or mr rights that will come by so dont be too concerned if things don't work out .Their will be others .Get amongst it :)
 
Being single is like eating fruit salad, people say its nice while theyre eating it, but most of them would rather be eating chocolate. ;)
 
pe@k-a-tronic i must say i totally agree with you...
I've been single for around 3 years too.. yes on the odd occasion you do feel a bit lonely but then there is the huge bonus of being able to do what YOU want to do whenever YOU want to do it....
It may be hard to give up that freedom/independence after such a long time but who knows.... Like you said, there will be someone but there's no rush :) :)
 
i'm sick of waiting 4 some1 2 turn up on my door step, i've recently stopped sleeping with my fuck buddy simon (well he doesn't know it yet but its been a month, & i'm a VERY HORNY woman)
i don't want 2 be in a fuck buddy relationship cos its very hard on the emotions 2 stay away from where they are not wanted ... i want a guy i can be myself 2 & have an absolute ball with, rather than sitting there knowing i can't cuddle with him on the couch knowing he might think i want a relationship ... its very hard, & i'm sick of it
OK I'VE HAD MY NAG & WHINGE, I FEEL BETTER, BUT I NEED SEX DAMMIT (sorry 2 much information 4 u)
TC
 
Yknow its possible to find someone to fuck and cuddle who doesnt want a realtionship :P and if youre THAT horny its never too hard to find a guy to help you out, specialy on bluelight :P
 
Hey Tars, howcome there is no BL couples thread, i feel kinda left out that i cant post here :( Actually point of making one, it would prolly just turn out as pathetic as this one (sorry guys :\ didn't really mean that.)
[ 11 April 2002: Message edited by: Boppychick ]
 
I wanna fuck buddy, but then I want a relationship, but then I want a fuck buddy cos of no hassles, but then I wanna bf cos all my mates are getting married and I feel left out...
Im indecisive, tell me something I dont no.
 
BoppyChick: There was a couple's thread, but the latest part is gone... Here's the original Bluelight Couples thread ...Feel free to start a part 2 again if you want, I'm not going to until I'm actually in a couple...
TC: No sex for a whole month? Jeez, you must be horny... :8 ;) :p~
 
well im at the point where i honestly couldnt give a rats ass. i woulD LOVE to get a relationship but im so sick of looking around etc and im so damn picky it makes things a whole lot harder. i see men walking down the street and i think man i could so see myself in a good relationship with him, but why dont i ever meet them?
 
Because the percentage of males who are actually good in a relationship is much smaller then the percentage of males who look like they'd be good in a relationship.
 
Tali: If you saw him walking down the street, then you could have met him... It takes a bit of courage, but if you can really just look at someone and think you could be in a relationship with them, well go do something about it...
I don't know how you can look at someone and decide they're relationship material though...
 
Thanks Tars, but i dont think ill start one coz id feel silly. Already do that my bf is a BLer for some silly reason (guess its coz now i know people that are BLers i get scared if i ever write personal stuff about me that they will read it and get cross or woteva!!!)
Anyways in my opinion from someone who has been there, fuck buddies do not work, fullstop. Sometimes it may seem like they do, but it is usually one sided. Like it works for one but not the other. Usually it ends in a mess and i have yet to be proven wrong.
Neways i dont belong here so i should stop intruding and writing this crap, hey.
Sorry!!!
 
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