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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

C'mon peoples... Get the bullshit out of this thread, and into Main Social :X
Anyway, to get back on topic...
I've realised that singleness really isn't that bad at all... for me at least. I'm not saying that this applies for everyone.
And I'm also not saying that I want to stay single, not at all. But it's really not that horrible a time... Sure the closeness, and having someone that you know is caring for you would be great.
But don't forget about your friends people... True friends are the greatest! They'll (nearly) always be there for you, and they are one of the biggest resources you have available... Don't forget about them. :)
 
If I have the rug pulled out from under me one more fucking time I swear I'm going to snap.
Early bird catches the worm I guess...
This thread and the depression one are linking up quite well all of a sudden... :(
 
Pleo: Im single and depressed. But not entirely sure the two are linked :(
Im forever going to be single. I mean my moods are up and down and most guys dont understand that too well and the fact ive been on prozac a few times says it all
 
Oh, they're only linked for me at the moment cos that's all I've got to be depressed about really... it'll pass in a couple of days I assume... when I realise that's nothings actually changed and I was all optimistic for no reason...
Reality checks are good sometimes...
 
Pleo I know exactly what you are talking about.
Being Single only becomes something that makes me upset when i have the time to worry about it cause everything else in my life is going well. It's good to think about it sometimes tho, you can come up with some interesting conclusions... as long as you dont dwell on it.
RRC: Not all boys are "dumb and stoopid" just me and a few select others ;) ... If u stay single forever you are never going to know if your statement is true... :)
 
pleo: theres someone out there for u, u just have to find them..patience is a virtue, but in the mean time go out and enjoy life you'll met someone soon enough :)
 
sydkiwi...I know you're just trying to be nice and helpful and all that but if one more person says that (or a version of that) to me one more time I think I'll do very violent things that I wouldn't be very proud of.
[ 05 April 2002: Message edited by: miss apple ]
 
miss apple: Couldn't agree more, it's a total piece of bullshit line, only said to help try to cheer you up :X
NO MORE!
 
In sydkiwi's defence... she's repeating something that she said in an IRC chat we had after I posted my comments yesterday...
And yeah, it was just to try and cheer me up. I know it's just a line, but backed up with the discussion we had too it does kinda help - and her heart is in the right place by saying it.
I see your points however, because I hate it when people make general statements like that directed to everyone... :)
 
*Self Edited*
Tarsy, you're right. I was feeling like crap a month ago, and I suppose with fairly good reason. To everyone who's feeling crap, well, go outside, look up at the sky (night or day) take a huge deep breath, close your eyes, open them, breathe out, and look at how damn beautiful the world is. You're fucking lucky to be here, single or not.
Also *Bulk fucking huggles to all* You deserve them.
-plaz out-
[ 06 April 2002: Message edited by: plazma ]
 
Think back a month or so to how you were feeling plaz, then think about the lack of respect you're showing with that comment...
Sure your situation was different, but you too were upset, and I'm sure your reasons for being upset were as valid to yourself as the reasons of the people posting here...
To all those feeling morose, I can sympathise, just read some of my previous posts... But I'm sure you know the depression won't last, its hard to fight it off completely, but it can be reduced to an acceptable level... As Sybarite said, think about things, but don't dwell, put your time and effort towards more worthwhile persuits (but keep your eyes open)
 
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