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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Fetish Jester...in my experience, you broke up for a reason (even if you don't really know what that reason is) and getting back together will probably only mean you'll break up again...for the same reason you did the first time.
Without trying to be harsh, my guess is that she was lonely and feeling horrible after breaking up with her boyfriend and was texting you to make herself feel better.
This is from someone who only hears from my ex's when they've broken up with people (most recent ex rang me at 2.30am to tell me that he wasn't going out with his girl anymore, then I never heard from him again. Then a couple of weeks after telling another ex that I only ever hear from him when he's broken up with someone, he sends me an email today saying "you know how you said I only email you when I'm single....well guess what?". SEE WHAT I MEAN???? grr)
Anyway....My advice is to try and move on and forget about the ex. Ex's are nothing but nightmares :(
 
another single bluelighter here.. been that way since september last year.. not really looking too hard, but not not looking either :) im kind of enjoying it... sometimes.. last girl was a headfuck and a half, so yeah...
oh well.. time for my 'workout' ha. :)
 
i dont understand how we have so many singles wanting to be couples
i am single, but not from a matter of trying, to dam scared i am...
i think im to big a heart to lay online, my motto
just dance . . . feeling blue . . . just dance
if its going to happen it will, im looking, think i might need some glasses or something cause i never see the signs
 
Im single but not really looking....the only reason Im replying here is to say YEAH!!!! to corch, its about time I saw tool lyrics on here that are put up by someone other than me :)
I am too conected to you
to slip away, fade away
days away I still feel you
touching me changing me
considerately killing me
 
haha... i can think of some rather ugly Tool lyrics on the subject of break-ups-
"crawled away from me
slipped awy from me
tried to keep ahold
but there was nothin i could say
"what u tryin ta say
that u dont wanna play
well what u want n what u need
dont mean that much to me
i can see your back is turnin'
and if i could i'd stick the knife iiiiiinnn!!!"
dark or wot?!
 
Thanks Apollo.. having a buttload of friends here will help corch and having a whole new country to experience will help me... we all get over these things but damn, I'm not looking forward to sitting in that transit lounge waiting to get on that plane :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
 
God why can some guys be such arseholes????
My flatmate was kinda seeing a guy while she was in London (well, shagging him :) ) and he's been calling and emailing ever since she left. He was here at new Years and they were together then and they got on so well he decided to come back to Sydney to visit her. He's travelling other places but the only reason he has come to Sydney was to see her.
All well and good...until he gets here. Fine for the first couple of days...he's staying at our place, staying in her bed, going out to parties etc. Then after a few days he cancels on a dinner with her friends (said he forgot about it), says he'll meet her after work for an hour instead, but texts to say he missed the bus and can't make it, goes out with his friends instead. He was originally staying for this weekend but he's got tickets to the first Union match in Canberra so he's leaving tomorrow morning. So she expresses her disappointment and he gets completely shirty...won't sleep with her, left early from DJ Rush last night (after like half an hour) and then has the nerve to tell her that he isn't her boyfriend and that he feels trapped!!
HELLO! You're staying in her bed!! You can to Sydney to be with her!! WTF do you mean 'trapped'????
Fucking hell...boys and their fucking commitment phobia....thinking girls want boyfriends etc. She only wanted to get on with him for the week he was here and he couldn't do that!!!
Ah whatever. She and I are going to enjoy our singleness together. Who needs 'em.
 
Can't say i'm a veteran of relationships. gots to say i associate quite heavily with what Addikal and Dante had to say on the first page, the whole permanently single situation and the ability to act from an objective standpoint suits me to a t.
In all honesty there's alot worse to be out there than single.. I just recently saw the relationship between my parents fall apart and in every way it was for the better.. To see my ma having her life controlled and restricted by my father for the good portion of 25 years sorta disillusioned me on the whole relationship tip.. Peeps want to be free, to do wat they want to do, and 'love' isn't gonna change that in the slightest, the last thing i'd want to do is to hold someone else back due to my own selfishness.
While i'm on a rant i gots to say i'm tired of the whole 'the one' idea.. no-one is perfect and to believe in the presence of this ultimate match is almost pointless. if ur standards are too high u can never be satisfied.. like with parties, if ur aim is to have a good time, chances are u will, if ur too concerned with the event disappointing then ur more inclined to notice the faults and let them get to u.
Personally i don't mind being single, i mean its not like i kno any better, but i gots to say that i get tired of coming home after a nite out to an empty house and an empty bed, but thats more cos i think i get fewer huggles than i'd like to..
 
mmm I may be saying my goodbyes to being single...after what happen last nite...my fucken god, weird but wonderful!
mmm what to do, things to consider b4 starting a relationship with some1 new,
-Do I want to say goodbye to my fantastic singleness??? :(
-If we start something, how long will it last?
mmm decisions decisions????
Well thats all I can think of now
:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
 
*stands in bucket & pours cement over feet*
i'm staying right here!! being single is so much easier than forking out money 4 ur 'new' loved one .. give me a break all this loving doving bull shit is over rated .. just go out & have fun & fuck whom ever u like (with protection of course)
i may have a fuck buddy but i don't need him being there every waking moment of the day, unless it involves sex of course .. opps thats the nympho talking :D :D :D :D :D
u don't need to be going out 2 be committed 2 each other, as long as u know they are coming home to u its fine, unless u have the desiring feeling that u need to call each other your b/f or g/f
sorry i'm jaded when it comes to relationships cos they never work out for me :( nobody loves me!! nobody wants me!!! blah blah blah
sorry i'm having 1 of those i'm fat, ugly & worthless days
TC
 
Looks at trancechyck and gives her a BIG friendly hug!!!! :) Its all good babe...I know how u feel...I had one of those days yesturday, I called it "the I want **** day" :( ...but then I thought fuck this Im going out tonite and having a good time...ended up making out with a guy I went to high school with etc...etc.. now all is good and could be the start of something really amazing, or it could of just been a one off thing...but the point is go out and have fun, and stick with ur sex-buddy if that makes u feel happy!!! :)
Just one last note... to sum up what I just said...basicly for every bad day you have, there is always a good day to make up for it-that gose to all singles who are feeling the LOW :(
 
As someone who is in a relationship I have to say it is awesome, absoloutely increbible. But its not that its unreal its not a fantasy its real we are both just normal everyday people who love each other. Im happy, because I acknowledge how lucky I am to be with her. My point is life is, exactly what you choose it to be.
Relationships both have their pros and cons, and a relationship is a big deal for most guys because we have a built in phobia of commitment.
As the saying goes
higgamous hoggamous women are monogomous
hoggamous higgamous men are polygomous
no matter which situation you are in, you can choose to be either happy or sad. I choose to enjoy the pros of the relationship im in, its not perfect sure, but you have to focus on the positives that you have not the negatives.
Being single doesnt mean you are any better or worse, but there is no use being unhappy about your situation, it doesnt change anything. Look at the positives of whatever situation you are in.
There is no use looking to get committed if you are single. Because that is the fundamental flaw of most couples, they are together because they want SOMEONE, if you are single have fun enjoy yourself, and if you meet SOMEONE SPECIAL then think about having a relationship. As my girlfriend will tell you (phoenixwoman) when we first met, I was trying to evade a relationship, just because of fear of commitment, but as I got to know her I realised that I liked the idea of her being my one and only.
Look to enjoy life, in whatever situation you are in, and learn to enjoy what you have. Because if you're jaded single, you could very well become part of a jaded relationship, you'll be so negative that you'll miss that special person. Anyway thats my advice
Corch: Man I soooooo feel for you. I dont really know what to say. Other to enjoy the time you have know to re-assess your life, everything around you. To take on a whole new understanding of life that can only be achieved when you are alone.
Hijinx: I hope you love England. I hope that this trip not only brings you fulfilment in your career aspirations, but as a person as well. I hope you grow and get to know yourself more. Think of this is a pilgrimage of the soul. Sorry, that was a bit pretentious sounding, but its the only way I know how to express what Im trying to say.
here are some lyrics dedicated to the two of you...
I will come to you at night time,
I will raise you from your sleep,
I will kiss you in four places,
I will go running along your street,
I will squeeze the life out of you,
You will make me laugh and make me cry
And we will never forget it
And you ll make me call your name
And Ill shout to the blue summer sky
And we may never meet again,
so shed your skin lets get started
And you will throw your arms around me.
 
*huggles trancechyck*
You're certainly neither fat nor ugly nor worthless... Quite the opposite on all counts... :D
*jumps back away from the cement 'cos he doesn't wanna be stuck in singles land forever (even if it were next to TC ;p~)*
...Still happy enjoying my life with all my friends without much need for a girlfriend... Besides, I wouldn't wanna disappoint all the girls by having to pick just one... ;)
 
ok, i'm not single, however... my boyfriend is in the army and at tthe moment he's in townsville for 1 month, then is back in syd for 1 month then goes to east timor for 6 MONTHS!!! We've been together for 3 1/2 months and only recently (after a 1 week break up) we got back together as he realised he loved me :)
So we had 2 weeks of bliss together being the most in love people, gag material to the max.
He's only been gone a week. i guess i'm handling it ok. All good until last night at transmission, i had an awesome night, but just seeing other couples... hugging, playing, kissing... u know what it's like. it really makes u sad.
The easiest solution - don't put myself in a position where i will see it. Yeah , but, as if!!!
Clubbing is my second fav. thing in the whole world. So, i have a difficult year ahead of me. In some ways, it can be worse then being single. But i guess the wait is worth it, cause i know that he's out there loving me and we will be reunited... eventually.
 
Smil-E....all the advice sounds great and all but you're in a relationship. it's easy to give advice when you're happy and in a fantastic wonderful loving relationship
*blech*
My point is life is, exactly what you choose it to be.
Oh OK then...I choose to be in a loving relationship. Oh it didn't happen. Well shit.
It'd be interesting to see if you give the same advice when you're single...
*disclaimer....it's comedown Tuesday. probably shouldn't have read this thread today.*
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Originally posted by Tarsarlan:

...Still happy enjoying my life with all my friends without much need for a girlfriend... Besides, I wouldn't wanna disappoint all the girls by having to pick just one... ;)
Yeah Tars, ya wouldn't want to do that. They would be shattered.
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Tars I could start ranting about how it completely shits me hearing the smug little comments that people in relationships make to single people giving their smug advice about how 'you'll meet someone when you least expect it' or 'you can't have a happy relationship till you're happy being single' or 'you won't find anyone if you look too hard' and that people in relationships shouldn't even be posting in this thread cause they're not single and their happiness makes me retch but I'm going to hold my tongue considering the mood I'm in....
And if anyone asks me about my love life or when I'm getting married or whether I'm bothered that I'm 28 and don't have a boyfriend at my cousin's wedding in two weeks I'm seriously going to hit them.
 
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