thanks stars for being the only person to read my last post. Im out of here this place is for the depressing. Everyone seems to be breaking up. And besides Ive given up on men. Dont ever go out with the guy u met while on drugs ESPECIALLY THE BIKKIES.
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plazma
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Big ups RobertRollie, that's so fucking true.
IMHO if you're attempting to show off how superior to the singles you are, you're a vastly superior cockroach.
If you're part of a couple, I'm really happy for you, if you're trying to make me feel inferior because I don't know where my next fuck is coming from you can kiss my arse!
-political incorrection out-
IMHO if you're attempting to show off how superior to the singles you are, you're a vastly superior cockroach.
If you're part of a couple, I'm really happy for you, if you're trying to make me feel inferior because I don't know where my next fuck is coming from you can kiss my arse!
-political incorrection out-
Not to start a singles vs. couples flame war *but* ... notice how the singles thread is always near the top of the threads list but where's the couples thread? Uh Oh! Just like all the couples out there, it seems to have disappeared into LaLa land, or as some call it; that boring place where people spend their Friday nights watching movies and drinking wine.
I'm a die hard advocate of the fact that being single shouldn't be viewed as a burden but an alternative lifestyle choice. I could piss a lot of people off by stating how boring my couple friends have become and how selfish they are towards their other friends and how completely tied down, stagnant and dead to new experiences they are... but I won't.
Last weekend I had a date Friday night with a girl I met recently, then I spent Saturday in between the beach and a motel room with a different girl I met a couple of weeks back and this Friday I have a date with yet another girl. No, the point isn't to brag (LOL.. yes it is hahahahaha), but to say...
Hey, I'm single and I'm living it up. It's ALL GOOD. When I'm ready to be boring and grow old and sit around watching DVD's and eating pizza on Saturday nights, hey, I'll see you couples then. Until then, hang on to your batteries, you'll probably have much more need for them once having sex with the same person day in day out starts getting stale. :D
I'm a die hard advocate of the fact that being single shouldn't be viewed as a burden but an alternative lifestyle choice. I could piss a lot of people off by stating how boring my couple friends have become and how selfish they are towards their other friends and how completely tied down, stagnant and dead to new experiences they are... but I won't.
Last weekend I had a date Friday night with a girl I met recently, then I spent Saturday in between the beach and a motel room with a different girl I met a couple of weeks back and this Friday I have a date with yet another girl. No, the point isn't to brag (LOL.. yes it is hahahahaha), but to say...
Hey, I'm single and I'm living it up. It's ALL GOOD. When I'm ready to be boring and grow old and sit around watching DVD's and eating pizza on Saturday nights, hey, I'll see you couples then. Until then, hang on to your batteries, you'll probably have much more need for them once having sex with the same person day in day out starts getting stale. :D
anna!
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RobertRollie
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Originally posted by anna!:
-hugs RobertRollie-
I'm not rubbing my coupleness in your face, dearest.
Thats ok hon, being that i take alot of credit for the fact that you are with your current, im pleased to have yoru happiness rubbed in my face
anna!
Bluelight Crew
Originally posted by RobertRollie:
Thats ok hon, being that i take alot of credit for the fact that you are with your current, im pleased to have yoru happiness rubbed in my face
I'm sure it had nothing to do with the fact that I am sensationally wonderful and he couldn't resist my feminine charms
On topic, though, couples always gave me the complete shits. Hell, the boy and I give me the complete shits because I know we're giving other people the complete shits. The last thing I wanted to see when I was feeling single and ordinary was people flaunting the fact that they were ohsoinlove. Obviously, there's a significant number of people who either choose to be single or are happy being single, but for those who aren't, it just doesn't seem right to go parading the fact that you aren't.
Particularly when, as in my case, your best friend of 7 years is terminally single and miserable about it.
I try to keep it under wraps
Originally posted by RobertRollie:
Thats ok hon, being that i take alot of credit for the fact that you are with your current, im pleased to have yoru happiness rubbed in my face
Well I didn't fucking help the cause did I?.. LMFAO! :D oh the memories... Glad everything worked out for the best though..
anna!
Bluelight Crew
^^ haha!
Aw, I kinda miss being single and being able to snog people whenever I liked.
Sorry, I'll stop poisoning this thread
Aw, I kinda miss being single and being able to snog people whenever I liked.
Sorry, I'll stop poisoning this thread
DazedAndConfused
Bluelighter
Originally posted by Mr. Horse:
argh... the perfect woman :D
powder by day, pounding by night. Couldn't think of anything better!!
Soooooo....Wanna come to Japan and make movies?
DazedAndConfused
Bluelighter
Originally posted by hoptis:
Hey, I'm single and I'm living it up. It's ALL GOOD. When I'm ready to be boring and grow old and sit around watching DVD's and eating pizza on Saturday nights, hey, I'll see you couples then. Until then, hang on to your batteries, you'll probably have much more need for them once having sex with the same person day in day out starts getting stale. :D
Dude, you sit around and watch DVDs on Saturday nights with significant others? How much must your life suck!?!
Oh yeah. I'm over the whole 'variety is the spice of life' thing at the moment, sex with randoms gets really boring and emotionally unsatisfying after a while. But hey, I'm a girl, it's expected that we're going to be yearning for eternal love! :D
More seriously though - Are there actually any guys out there who have even some semblance of respect for women anymore? Just wondering. Cuz I sure as hell don't know any of them
vurtomatic
Bluelight Crew
Originally posted by DazedAndConfused:
Soooooo....Wanna come to Japan and make movies?
i have a friend in japan who edits porn :D
Tarsarlan
Bluelighter
Originally posted by: DazedAndConfused
More seriously though - Are there actually any guys out there who have even some semblance of respect for women anymore? Just wondering. Cuz I sure as hell don't know any of them
Ok that's not entirely true, there's plenty of guys who respect women, I'm good friends with a few... They all have women who they have a lot of respect for...
I know they'd respect you too DAC if you showed you deserved it, but they're taken, so that doesn't help you...
NULL_Ptr
Bluelighter
DazedAndConfused: That is simply a generalisation reflecting _your_ current view of the world. It's definetely not true.
Just like there are really bad people out there, there is a whole lot of really good people and a lot that fall in between.
This is true for many other things not just say "guys that truly respect women".
I know I am one of the guys that does have respect for opposite sex and I know others, and I'm quite sure that a few people here can back up my claims.
Sorry, I think you have been meeting guys that are mostly from the wrong side of the spectrum so to speak.
[ 17 September 2002: Message edited by: NULL_Ptr ]
Just like there are really bad people out there, there is a whole lot of really good people and a lot that fall in between.
This is true for many other things not just say "guys that truly respect women".
I know I am one of the guys that does have respect for opposite sex and I know others, and I'm quite sure that a few people here can back up my claims.
Sorry, I think you have been meeting guys that are mostly from the wrong side of the spectrum so to speak.
[ 17 September 2002: Message edited by: NULL_Ptr ]
miss apple
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Chaos Butterfly
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beer and kebabs would be fantastic...
and someone to intimately share beer and kebabs with would be fantastic as well... just think of the hommus and the garlic sauce...
anyway, i am still single and only quasi looking... just thought i would add a few cents to the thread...
and someone to intimately share beer and kebabs with would be fantastic as well... just think of the hommus and the garlic sauce...
anyway, i am still single and only quasi looking... just thought i would add a few cents to the thread...
Wiretrippa
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Just wanted to say hello and give everyone who's feeling lonely a cuddle.
*big hugs for all the singles*
Wire.
*big hugs for all the singles*
Wire.
THCPuffNStuff
Bluelighter
DAC: I am aware this point was brought up in another thread where you probed again about the apparent lacking of males with raaspekt.. You're 17! Shite, I'm only 18 myself, but seriously I am doubtful of the presence of many level-minded males or females at this age that have it all together, sexually, emotionally, financially etc.
I myself am a fucking mess, and was for a long time through being screwed around as the wallpapered nice guy, by girls who didn't have a goddamn clue what was good even if it was under their noses. It comes down to the whole confidence situation in many ways I believe.. 'Nice guys' so to speak tend to be those who lie back and develop friendships etc, often not having the balls to do anything about it, which is where I lay for a damn long time.
Considering SELF-CONFIDENCE is essentially one of the most attractive traits for either sex, girls are obviously more inclined to go for those withing the male gender with SELF-CONFIDENCE, which unfortunately is often mistaken for ARROGANCE. And since an arrogant individual is far too taken up in themselves, they're certainly not about to worry about the needs of any Significant other too greatly.
Fortunately many of these 'nice guys' should eventually come to the conclusion they may be individuals of worth, stop blaming themselves and actually develop a spine.. In which case you probably should swoop in fast, otherwise another girl will and won't let go for a long long time.. (Like mine has )
Alternatively look at the types of people you're attracted to, and attract.. Its unfortunate that many females are pathologically attracted to assholes, or attract wankers. Also u mentioned the whole sex with randoms thing, its a fairly simple lesson there, fail to respect your own body and how can you expect anyone else to. I got no problem with casual sex, but if you expect to find respect from the randoms met down that path, you're only kidding yourself.
Anyhoo thats my 5c, and if it weren't for the damn bacterial goodies I musta picked up from lending my water bottle out on the weekend (FOKUS rocked btw) I'd be down for some phat Kebab action too...
I myself am a fucking mess, and was for a long time through being screwed around as the wallpapered nice guy, by girls who didn't have a goddamn clue what was good even if it was under their noses. It comes down to the whole confidence situation in many ways I believe.. 'Nice guys' so to speak tend to be those who lie back and develop friendships etc, often not having the balls to do anything about it, which is where I lay for a damn long time.
Considering SELF-CONFIDENCE is essentially one of the most attractive traits for either sex, girls are obviously more inclined to go for those withing the male gender with SELF-CONFIDENCE, which unfortunately is often mistaken for ARROGANCE. And since an arrogant individual is far too taken up in themselves, they're certainly not about to worry about the needs of any Significant other too greatly.
Fortunately many of these 'nice guys' should eventually come to the conclusion they may be individuals of worth, stop blaming themselves and actually develop a spine.. In which case you probably should swoop in fast, otherwise another girl will and won't let go for a long long time.. (Like mine has
) Alternatively look at the types of people you're attracted to, and attract.. Its unfortunate that many females are pathologically attracted to assholes, or attract wankers. Also u mentioned the whole sex with randoms thing, its a fairly simple lesson there, fail to respect your own body and how can you expect anyone else to. I got no problem with casual sex, but if you expect to find respect from the randoms met down that path, you're only kidding yourself.
Anyhoo thats my 5c, and if it weren't for the damn bacterial goodies I musta picked up from lending my water bottle out on the weekend (FOKUS rocked btw) I'd be down for some phat Kebab action too...