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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Dante: i had a similar problem with a guy I was seeing back in NZ we were on and off again for like a year. His friends didnt like me and I didnt like them. He kept listening to wot they said about me and it didnt last.
I bumped into him again begining of this year. He told me hes not friends with them anymore and they had a huge falling out. He also said he regretted the way he treated me and wished we didnt break up. He went back home and I havent heard or seen from him since (he was on holiday). I cant tell someone its me or them its not my nature.
 
There really does seem to be something in the water, maybe the onset of spring? Who knows. Last night two of my closest friends broke up, having been living together, lovers and best friends for over five years. They're both pretty young still and just decided their lives were heading in different directions, even though they are still very fond of each other. They really are one of "those" couples everyone looks at and expects will end in marriage sooner or later so it's very very sad to see.
The worst part is how hard it's going to be for both of them to pick their lives up and rebuild alone.
 
Hey Genasirus I didn't know we were going out. Jokes people, and a bad one at that.
Yeah I'm still here.
Drags in the grand stand, tent, microwave, beers, and big box of microwave popcorn.
 
Well everyone seems to be coming back to the land of singles at the moment, but i am leaving :) And i still think i am the luckiest girl ever :)
Bye bye for the meantime, and good luck.
 
all the people in the 'single or taken' thread on ITM are breaking up as well!! how bizarre.
All I can say is that I'm just as happy as I was last week, the week before, and the week before that. My emotional state has stayed the same for ages...instead of being up and down like a rollercoaster due to some boy. Single life definitely has it's advantages.
 
I thought it was the othe way round Tars! I thought Winter was the season for relationships because people want someone to snuggle up with when they get cold, and summer is the season of flings and fun?
Maybe that would explain why as the weather heats up, the couples break up..... ;)
I don't really know how to describe my current situation - other then the fact it makes me happy. I can't ask for any more then that. :)
 
i am still single, but really who gives a fuck??
i have learnt to deal with all that bullshit, yeah it still gets me down or pisses me off, but i look it in the way that i cant really do anything about it, and when the time is right and all circumstances permit an opportunity will present itself.
this is my favourite motto and i will stick by it
"Shit happens"
[ 05 September 2002: Message edited by: doon ]
 
LOL @ Doon.
Doon you da man! The fact that there's guys like you single, just proves to me that there's a fair lot of dumb girls out there who are absofuckinglutely clueless as to what they're missing.
The fact that people like me are single, proves that there's a lot of smart girls out there who know exactly what they're missing.
;)
-plaz out-
 
hehe thanks plaz
yeah well i guess all those girls who have passed up the opportunity will realise one day that they missed out on a good thing
*doon goes to deflate head*
 
Am I Co-Dependent?
No, seriously, I'm interested in people's thoughts on this particular issue. About two years ago I was labelled as being so by my then-boyfriend's "Internet girlfriend", simply because I got upset about the fact that he'd been telling her he loved her while he was (physically) with me, blahdy blah.
I did get to thinking about it, though, and I realised that if I'm alone, a lot of the time I feel like I'm not all there. Not just that I feel a bit lonely, but that I feel as though something is missing, and I get upset a lot. Does this boil down to the fact that some self-esteem issues have meant that I don't deem myself worthy of being in a relationship, and it makes me miserable, or is it because I have an actual mental issue that causes me to NEED to be with someone else?
Has anyone here ever delved into the notion that they might medically need someone else to be in their lives for them to feel complete and happy?
The relationship that I'm in now ... Lord, it's glorious. And I don't feel any kind of fear of what will happen when it's over, because I truly believe that it never will be. But if I do think about the consquences of it ending, if it were to, it's the same old stuff ... clinging, stalking, being miserable and suicidal and JUST NOT FEELING QUITE RIGHT.
How do you FEEL when you're single? Whether you're happy or sad, do you feel as though there needs to be something else there for you to be a whole person? Or are you truly living for yourself?
Sadly, I don't think I'm truly living for myself at all.
 
*resists urge to make big post about her recent experiences*
sometimes i think i should though...hehe, maybe we need a "BlueLight Community Service Announcements" thread where we can post about the truly scummy, evil, vile ppl we've had the misfortune to fall for, so others will be warey and won't make the mistake of fallin for the same scum.....
i just wonder if anybody out there is ever really honest these days.....
it's just so awful when u know the truth about somebody and what a lying, manipulative creep they are, but other people just can't see it cos this person is such a conartist.....
ah well, i'm very happy to have all my love and emotions back so i can give them to the ppl in my life who deserve them :)
 
Yeah what she said.
Some people never get a uni degree, some people never have freckles. I don't think I'll ever find someone.
I would like to finish my sentiments witha quote of one of this times greatest men.
"Shit Happens"
-Doon 2002
 
Beemer, why don't you just get someone to pay you, then you can be the worlds first professional victim.
Seriously, examine your own behaviour (As someone with a psych degree you should know this) and note that there are very few things that you consider to be your own fault. Don't blame everyone else, see if you can alter your behaviour etc.
-plaz out-
 
u'll learn to ignore him...hehehe
i take full responsibility for my role in things that screw up in my life....and believe me, i'm well aware of the fact that i closed my eyes to certain signs and gave sumbody the benefit of the doubt.....hell, sumtimes u do that when u love sumbody..it's what makes us human *shrugs* but, no matter what, there are some things that people do to others that weren't caused mostly by the "victim" - some people truly are just assholes and enjoy hurting others.....it's not always a matter of us letting them hurt us - sumtimes they do it simply cos they're a terrible person - not because we gave them the opportunity.....
even tho we have a hand in most events that happen in our lives, some things simply just are not our faults!!!!
 
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