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Ooops! I wasn't specifically aiming those questions at you, miss apple, I was just throwing them out there. ;) But it is good that you answered. You seem pretty level about things and I agree with some of what you say.
As far as meeting people, let's say I am in the library photocopying something. A girl might come and use the machine next to me, and while we are both copying stuff, I might strike up a conversation with her for 10 minutes. If she seems decent and we have some pleasant banter, I'll ask for her phone number so I can give her a call.
If I don't ask her right then, odds are I will never see her again. So I will give her a chance. But as the date is ending, I will really think if I want to see her again. Usually not, because I have high standards and most girls don't meet my expectations. :\ I haven't been dating for 30 months, which means I might see a girl and talk to her, but I don't make an effort to ask her out.
My question to you is that if you don't date, do you just reject any guy who asks for your phone number? How is he supposed to get in touch with you? That's all I mean. Otherwise a guy would have to work in the same office as you, or be in the same church/synagogue as you....something where he sees you on a routine basis. It would be so hard to meet new people that way. I don't mean you need to go idly stand about waiting for elegible men to approach, but if you run into a guy in the grocery store, do you give him a chance?
 
*loads shotgun*
Why oh why do I keep on bouncing in and out of this thread?
Due to some misinfomation about a person I was going to attempt to woo,(I.E Someone told me she didn't have a bf when she did. Thank god she mentioned it off handedly.) I've dragged my sorry arse back into this thread to lurk again. The good thing is I didn't make a fool of myself so at least I escaped with my dignity. HA!
As far as meeting people, let's say I am in the library photocopying something. A girl might come and use the machine next to me, and while we are both copying stuff, I might strike up a conversation with her for 10 minutes. If she seems decent and we have some pleasant banter, I'll ask for her phone number so I can give her a call.
Catch 22, my hat goes off to you. I've gotta scope out a person for quite some time before I even THINK about any move pulling.
Oh well, off to write angsty ballads about love and love lost.
*stumbles away, leaving the loaded shotgun*
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Yes! I heard tarsy scored twice!! He must be doing something right :) Nah, best of luck, have a wonderful weekend tarsy, the perfect couple ;)
Longlive the Melbourne shuffle :) :D
 
^^^that's right... I merely have a split personality... as does Tarsy *grin*... does that mean we scored 4 times?? *boggle*
How did I get in the singles thread again?? *grabs Tarsy and runs off*
 
Grr, you two are doing what Tarsy was trying to stop at one stage :\
Stay out you happy happy people, this is only for people full of hatred and angst...
 
Well I promise no such thing...
What I had previously tried to stop was couples ceaselessly posting about how its not that bad being single and to keep your chin up and all that crap... What I hadn't tried to stop was couples addressing strange comments made towards them by other posters in this thread, nor a few lighthearted posts made somewhat in the third person as long as its not overused...
And just for the record, I've never been full of hatred and angst, and I've been the major contributor to this thread for a long time...
PS: A little angst yes, but only a teensy bit! ;) And no hate! None I tell you! *glares* ... *giggles* ;)
 
It's not like we're not happy for you guys or anything. It fantastic that you've met each other and it's all going really well. But surely you guys of all people should understand how frustrating it is to see happy lovey dovey newly formed couples coming in here and posting lovey dovey stuff when we haven't had the same fortune.
I don't blame you for wanting to tell the world. But there are small parts of the world that don't need it in their faces all the time. :\
now I feel bad for acting like a killjoy. but I'm just telling you my opinion.
[ 03 June 2002: Message edited by: miss apple ]
 
i've actually come 2 terms w/ me being single i realised that there r lots & lots of boys out there 4 me 2 play w/ :) :) but i wont cos i'm so innocent *look of innocence but it doesn't work*
READY OR NOT HERE I COME
TC
 
There's just nothing more to say. And in the end all of the posts can be put in two categories: Those bitching about their singleness, or those saying we should appreciate being single because of the freedom etc.
Personally I would be much happier if it was how Renton off Trainspotting guessed it would be in the future, with no men or women, only wankers.
It would make the world so much easier.
 
Of but of course Tars...that goes without saying ;)
(BTW I really only posted this because i wanted to be post number 100. *sigh* I am so sad....)
Seriously though....this whole wanker theory, I swear to god its already in operation. Every day I wake up and meet a new wanker. Only time will tell ...
 
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