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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

YAY i love being single!!!!!! Its the best.
I am even "Seeing" someone at the moment who absolutly rocks, and would make a great boyfriend, but I dont want to be tied down.
It's like "Come back in 2 years please Im having too much fun at the moment!"
*hi 5's Schizo and all the singledons*
Independence rockz
 
^^^ you are too much like me when it comes to the opposite sex bliss .... u will be saying the EXACT same thing 2 years from now! i know i was saying that a few years back and i havent changed! eek.
lol and i realise why i was so philosophical and happy the other day when i wrote what i wrote up ^^^
id just gotten home from the movie Spiderman and i had left the cinema with a sense of belonging and independence cuz its like if he can be independent and not need love why should i? hehe.. anyways *wanders out again*
 
If you're happy with your life, keep it like it is.
If you're not happy with your life, change it so you are.
Remember one thing though, being a liar so that people think your happy is only defeating one person, you. So go on, and think, are you happy? Or are you not? It's not that hard to change. :)
Its that simple babes.
*grins @ all*
-plaz out-
 
As strange as it seems....I often can't work out whether I'm truly happy or not. Sounds really simple knowing whether you're happy or sad...content or restless....but sometimes its not as clear as all that.
There's only one black and there's only one white...but there's oh so many greys.
 
Originally posted by Boppychick:
If you come across all the time as wanting someone and looking for someone and needing someone- or wanting someone anyways you are more likely to scare people off or look desperate or something, if you are looking for something to fullfill you your life and make you happy, such as a partner, then atm it is obvious you are not to happy with yourself because a happy person can be happy alone as well as happy in a relationship, not JUST happy in a relationship. And noone wants to be with someone who is not happy with themself. You have to be able to come to terms with being single and be happy being single before getting into a relaitonship. And seriously if you do stop worrying about it and thinking about it , it wont bother you... and then you will have nothing to worry about, you will be happy... The more you think about how lonely you are or whatever the more you will want a partner and the more lonely you will feel. If you stop thinking about it time will pass quicker in this respect and when you "find" someone it will feel like it has taken no time.
Ok so the above does not really make much sense in the aspect of drawing conclusions, if people could just not give a shit about their relationship status and be happy as themself and not necessarily as a couple or single then they are more likely to be able to find someone who is compatable with them.
And anyways it is unlikely you will find the RIGHT one by looking, sure you may find someone and then you wont be single no more, but is it the RIGHT person, i seem to find that people that are looking for love go all the wrong places to find it, dont know what they are looking for and ultimately settle for something worse than they could really get.

I havent read Aus Social in a few weeks, and i just come across this and it really got me thinking and has changed my perspective on the whole being single thing, Great advice :)
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*looks around*
Seems as tho i may be leaving here pretty soon :)
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i'll see you people later.....(like in a week:p)
 
LMFAO @ goldie ... that reminds me i need 2 change mine :) :D :0 :D :) :D
i'm cool w/ the idea but please spell my name right hehehe i haven't met 1 person who can say name right when they 1st meet me
if u boys r game 2 have me !! then by all means i'm up 4 a good play time session ... but be warned i am flexible hehehehe
TC
 
ROFL @ *goldie*
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Here U Go trancechyck ;)
 
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