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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

im single..... and im really cool!!! choose me.... nothing happening in love at the moment.... sigh..... girls girls girls...
 
I can't understand the concept of love without it being requited. I can't love someone that doesn't love me back. Fair enough, I might really enjoy their company, and want to spend a lot of time with them, 'cause I feel happy around 'em, but I can't say that it's love. I'd be fooling myself if I did.
But that doesn't mean I wouldn't jump at the chance to cultivate it into something more.

*sigh* I always end up having to repair issues to get anywhere goddamn it. No use complaining about it though, 'cause it makes me feel good when I help. :|
 
Don't think i can legitimately really post here much anymore hehe... :):) Met a really really sweet guy a few weeks ago... and finally last night hooked up yay. seems to me, the beginning of something special, not just another one of my boys that eventuates to nothing, or have fucked me over.

Man i LOVE cuddles...i love sleeping so close to someone without wanting to be anywhere but... *sigh* :)
 
Taliana said:
Don't think i can legitimately really post here much anymore hehe... :):) Met a really really sweet guy a few weeks ago... and finally last night hooked up yay. seems to me, the beginning of something special, not just another one of my boys that eventuates to nothing, or have fucked me over.
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cool :) all the best with that.

damn it! i'm feeling so out of it today... so out of place.

i don't really understand the concept of "not looking" for a significant other. how can't i not be looking? how can it work that if i stop looking i'll find it? if i stop looking then i won't find it because i won't care. for me to stop looking is for me to believe it will never happen. i don't want to believe that.

its just i'm in the situation where when i meet a girl who i have the "feeling" for, they are either taken (therefore out of the question), physically too far away or not wanting more than a friendship.

its a bad feeling, i feel like im sinking back into my old self. and it might be true that happiness comes from within, but there is nothing in the world that makes me happier than the thought that just once i mite have met the person for me. it is from within, but it is triggered externally.

anyways, enuff of my thoughts.

Cohaa.
 
Cohaagon- i think people mean when you dont look for it it happens... meaning, dont dwell over it all the time. just be happy doing your own thing, of course u can always be on the lookout, just dont try too hard in looking because if u just try to find girls for the sake of it, its obvious.

its sad to say, but girls like it when they have to work for the guys attention. its not attractive when a guy is just so completely into things at the beginning... its more of a challenge. maybe thats just me, but yeah.
 
Taliana said:
Cohaagon- i think people mean when you dont look for it it happens... meaning, dont dwell over it all the time. just be happy doing your own thing, of course u can always be on the lookout, just dont try too hard in looking because if u just try to find girls for the sake of it, its obvious.

its sad to say, but girls like it when they have to work for the guys attention. its not attractive when a guy is just so completely into things at the beginning... its more of a challenge. maybe thats just me, but yeah.
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w0rd.

If a guy is too full on to begin with I run.

its hmmm.... when

he wants to move in together after a month

its oh dear

when they give a rather too generous birthday pressie and you've only known them for like a week.
 
Cohaagen said:
i don't really understand the concept of "not looking" for a significant other. how can't i not be looking? how can it work that if i stop looking i'll find it? if i stop looking then i won't find it because i won't care. for me to stop looking is for me to believe it will never happen. i don't want to believe that.Cohaa.
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The moment I gave up on it,
was the moment I got more than I could handle..
the moment I stepped off of it,
was the moment I touched down.

Alanis Morrisette (believe it or not), 'Thank-You'.
 
i dont agree with u 100% sydkiwi.
mainly cos my guy showers me with gifts and we've only been together less than 2 months. plus, we're gonna get a flat together in another 2.

anyone who didnt know us would think thats moving way too fast. but all that we went through to get together and what we're going through now, i just want to spend every day with him asap.

yep, he's in melb and i'm in hobart. we met here at a crappy rave. it was the smallest window of opportunity to meet someone and we didnt get together for another 8 months.

so my point is, u cant make a generalisation about what u said cos what if something similar happened to u? BUT this is not a diss and i will agree that in most cases, if a guys like "lets get married" as soon as u meet him, then its a hell turn-off.

meh, enough of a rant. i just wanted to reminisce and me and Sllip. teehee!!!
 
Thought id just bump my status.

nothing really happening here... haha met this girl last week and within 10 mins had invited me into the female toilet block. Oh well she must have read my tribute thread and wanted a piece of the pie. errrghh hehe not cool... but anyway yes single

Bump my health status... Quit smoking :P
 
I didnt make a generalisation

I just saying how I find it.

We're all entitled to differance of opinion.

nothing wrong with getting gifts but $100 cash and only known the guy a week. is kinda scary.
 
Oooh, well look at me........single for one of the few times in my entire life.

I feel as if right now, I have to love for myself, and learn that I am acually a worthwhile person because I am me.
It is so easy to beleive that and *pretend* to see it when you are attatched to a pillar of strength who tells you repeatadly.

I calculated, scarilly, that I have been single for a total of no more than 3 months, in the past 5 years of my life.

Time for some me time, me thinks. :)
 
you know what's scary? when a guy you have been dating comes home after only 7mths with your name tattooed across his chest (over his heart) ....thats freaky

Tal...anyone i know already? ;)
 
Smell ya later dud0rs and dudettes! The poonani fairy has been kind to me for the last month, and here's hoping i will no longer need to post in this thread for quite sum time :)
Zoidberg Hoooraaayyyyy!
 
regarding the moving in thing, i don't necessarily agree or disagree with an early move in... i think it is highly dependant on the people and situations involved...

For example, i have been out with people, with whom i would NEVER have considered moving in with, yet here i am with a man with whom i could see my self living in the future... despite the fact i have only known him for four months...

I think sometimes your instinct just tells you. ANd sometimes you have to learn to trust that instinct. I know that i would rather regret something i did, than something i didn't do... it's better to know these things than to be left eternally wondering, I believe...

That said, i councur 100% with the marriage thing. If i met someone who asked me to marry them 2 months later i doubt that i would ever say yes - just for the simple thought that 2 months isn't enough time to know someone. I wouldn't be scared off completely though - who knows what kind of things you could be missing out on??? 8(
 
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