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One day after I post a pic of my fiancee' and myself....
20 months 13 days after our first kiss, in the rain, both of us
drenched and hugging after talking all night on a wharf by a
beautiful river... early morning sun poking holes through the clouds.

She has called off our engagement.

I am so heartbroken I don't know what to do.
She has agoraphobia and massive depression/anxiety
and has been admitted to hospital numerous times.
She is on Luvox, Respidel, Xanax, Valium.
I have ALWAYS been there for her.
I have ALWAYS showered her with praise, gifts and love.

She wants freedom, she 'wants to be friends'.
She was a virgin until I met her, I was not not, and she wants
to experience other people, yet she claims she's still in love with me.

I can't believe this is happening.

I join the single ranks.
:( :( :( :(

Do I rush out and try and fill the hole with mindless sex?
Do I curl up in a ball and die?
I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
This is SO FUCKED!
 
:/
seems to be a bad week for relationships. i guess its one of the few times i can be glad im never in one
 
Thankyou Stace.
Any advice makes me feel like someone out there cares.
She has been the absolute centre of my life for what seems like
forever, and I've been totally devoted to her without smothering.
Not only have I lost my lover and fiancee', but my soulmate and
best friend, too. It's rippin' me to shreads.
I hope that your friends are supporting you -
I think I'm gonna need mine.

[hugs]
 
The Dead Planet

(Mars, planetary god of War, closest he's been to Earth in 60,000 years
fuckin' up everyones polarity and balance. Fuck you Mars, you Red Relationship Fucker. The amount of people I know who have had what seemed like stable relationships go to hell over the last month has been phenomenal. Barren, hostile, cold, rocky bastard. You're only half the size of Earth anyway. Think you're so big. GO FUCK YOURSELF. Take your craggety-arsed pock-featured surface and fuck back off into space.)

If anyone else has another scapegoat, please send it this way.
Until then, Mars it is.
 
UnSquare, ooh... interesting. *shakes her fist at Mars*

so.... anyways.... *checks out the people in the room* who's free tonight? ;)

The future is bright.. The old me is BACK!

stace.
 
She was a virgin until I met her, I was not not, and she wants
to experience other people, yet she claims she's still in love with me.

I can't believe this is happening.
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I totally understand that. I have seen a lot of relationships of friends break up in the way. Sometimes they get back together, sometimes they don't. This is the precise reason why I let my girlfriend know, if she feels sexually attracted to anyone, she is free to have to sex with them. I have seen too many times a couple together from an early age, 5-7 years later, the girl breaks up so she can experience other people. It seems to happen a lot, well what I have noticed. The best thing I can offer, just be her friend at moement. Try not to tear yourself apart from the inside with anguish. Can't do too much else because I don't personally know you but hurting yourself (mentally/physically) does no one a favour, especially yourself. Just try to forget about the break, you never know. You will either forget about the relationship and be happy or you two could be back together.

Best of luck with whatever you do. I'll be thinking good thoughts for you. :)
 
Thanks Wazza.
I like that song
"you can always depend on the kindness of strangers."
Sorrow-drownin' time....
Peace.
Ben :)
 
I'd just like to say that I have some of the best friends in the world.. and I hope that all of you are as lucky as I am.

*huge massive hugs to them all*

stace. - (somewhat drunken atm)
 
Unsquare, it sounds like you are going through what my boy-o went through with his previous girl... right down to the engagement and the extremely lengthy relationship. Damn, at such a young age, to be able to have such a solid relationship is increadible...

... but you know what, i am glad that they broke up. It means that i was fortunate enough to meet someone increadibly special and share some of my life with them. You never know what is waiting around the corner for you, so once you've had some grieving time, get yourself back out there!

"Try not to frown - you never know who is falling in love with your smile..." :)

Cheer up dude - things can only get better. :)
 
great to see u being positive and not wallowing in self pity stace....or even if u r, then not showing it. tough chikkie!!
 
Mission to Mars

On a side note, Mars is comin' even closer next Wednesday.
Has anyone got a large telescope, trampoline and a Winchester I can borrow?
 
No problem UnSquare - sometimes it's good to have things shown from a new perspective. :)

Oh, and regarding the mars request, i believe i know of a tramampoline you can almost definately borrow... ;)

PS - my PM box is clear again ;)
 
hey everyone... :)

still here, still alive

lots of firsts still happening for me. for the first time in my life i told a girl i liked her, but found out she only wants to be friends and isn't ready for a relationship right now in her life. that's cool, it was a liberating feeling.

my outlook on life and relationships has changed lots recently tho, much for the better.

i have learned the following :

1. true happiness comes from within
2. i am nowhere near as "picky" as i thought from a sexual perspective
3. i am very picky when it comes to relationships

also, a weird sorta situation. it appears the girls who i meet recently who i would love to go out with in a relationship, all either just want to be friends or have boyfriends. this is a bit frustrating.

anyways... hope everybody is having fun. :)

Cohaa.
 
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