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my bf called me almost exactly a week after we met. but i think i was at work so i rang him back. i think it was better than an sms (more personal).....
aah the memories, me thinking "if he doesnt call before a week is up, nothings gonna happen" and yaaay! now i am so silly in love with him!
 
Go the SMS, definitely. I met my boy at a "rave", didn't get his phone number but asked one of his friends for their phone number (weird.), then SMS'ed the friend to ask for Michael's mobile number so I could SMS him. We had SMS conversations for about 3 days before I got the nerve to call him. I might never have called if it weren't for the beauty of text messaging :P
 
^^ hehe thats so cute seeing your post, and then looking at your avatar. WHAT a cute present that sms brought you :):):)
 
PsychoKitten said:
...if you look around at your life you’ll see you’ve committed to many things already. Perhaps it’s a fear of labels? You don’t want to be boxed into the idea of someone’s “girlfriend” rather than you don’t want to commit yourself.
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pretty much hit the nail on the head... :) ive been sitting here tryin to explain it to myself and other people...

i think my problem is i dont wana feel 'boxed' as previouslly put and the word committment puts me into a frame. im not scared of committment to someone...not neccessarily wedding bells..but general faithfullness...not scared in the slightest...but to me the feeling of being committed to someone puts me into a box and i feel trapped...so to speak...

i dont know...

ive been tryin to figure it out myself for a bit now...
 
I don't know, to me, the commitment that i have made to my boy-o is one of the most liberating things to have happened to me this year...

Let me explain...

Since i have met him, i worry less about my weight/appearance and have a lot more fun. I'm more contented to just spend a quiet night at home, and my social circle has increased twofold. I worry less about my uni work, but it still gets done. What's more i have someone to go home to, which makes the day have a sence of purpose, because at the end of it all, i have something to look forward to when i get home.
A lot of people seem to see commitment as a binding restrictive thing, but to me, the only thing it says is that (in my case) i will not sleep with anyone else. To make such a dedication of myself makes me feel liberated because i have gained so much else as a result...
and quite frankly i wouldn't want anyone else anyway... ;)
 
Taliana said:
^^ hehe thats so cute seeing your post, and then looking at your avatar. WHAT a cute present that sms brought you :):):)
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hehe. It's kinda weird, isn't it? "Oh, if it weren't for SMS, I wouldn't have my baby!" 8(
 
i totally agree Cosmic Mist. i'm a little paranoid by nature and i dont have much faith in ppl outside of my family and now that i'm with someone i love, i dont worry so much about what ppl think of me and all the other things like work and uni. yaay!
 
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