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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Originally posted by katmeow:
how much heed do you take of your friend's advice/opinions relating to people you date/have a r'ship with??
I'd like to say I'm my own person and I make my own decisions but truth be told, it's really hard to maintain a successful relationship when your friends don't like your partner. My friends are an integral part of my life and I wouldn't be willing to seperate them from my time with my significant other. If my friends don't like the man I'm dating, there's normally a good reason for it. They are smart people, and can often give an objective viewpoint when I'm 'blinded by lust/infatuation.'
That being said, I wouldn't dump someone just because my friends didn't like him. I would listen to their opinions but if after their advice I still liked him, then there's no way I would get rid of him. In the end, you're the one in the relationship with this person and you're the only one who can decide what's best for you.
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Wow, first time posting in here in ages...
First of all is to give huge *hugs* to the lovely plurple :)
Then there aint much else to say other than still single, and still think being single is a good thing so all is good for me :D
Wait till im down for Pharmacy plurple and we can run around and torment the boys... hmmm this is looking to be fun!!!
 
Now the question is, who's actually willing to chip in for a plane ticket, one way, to the USA so that Miss Apple & Catch 22 can get laid?!?!?
*sits and steams in a puddle of ice water*
*sighs*
*yawns*
*curls up and goes to sleep*
I have to say, Alcohol rules this thread.
And plurple*, as for saturday night, yeah sure you meant it but *psssst* you were FUUUUUCKED! ;)
I have the right to believe that I am not good looking if I choose to!!! ;) But actually, bah, I don't care either way, the point is, I think, that I'm me, and what I look like doesn't matter. Usually its the personality that shits people off, as opposed to the looks anyway. :D
Time for more alcohol and world domination.
-plaz out-
 
"If only I didn't have hope I could live with all this."
Damn fuxoring straight. I live in the hope that circumstance will change, but for the present, I'm alone with my hand and a sometime fuck buddy.
Dang it all to heck.
 
Spinnin round like that record?
Whoa, well i've been single since... err november last yr which was the end of my 1st real relationship and since then theres been some emotionally tugging things that have happened within that time.
This Adikkal cat is still pretty unstable and I gotta say, though i do enjoy singularity it's not like im partaking in the whole 'swingin singles' type of lifestyle, unfortunately.
It kinda comes down to your persona i think. I find it hard to go out to 'pick up' for the sole purpose of physical gratification unless im largely inebriated with tha alcomohol.
Which kinda annoys me, cos it would be pretty cheerin and i'm sure i could if i wanted to, but I dunno...
Feel like, i'm using em or somethin... damn these blasted morals! Makes me end up with heaps of chick friends and then arising confusion as im not sure which one i want, if any?
OK, so this was a very random, incoherent addition to this thread, but bleh, its my first.
We can all expect plaz to give good replies, hes damn experienced ;)
Word to ya buddy :)
Ohh and plurple* and boppychick, you both fine ;)
Woot!
Adikkal
 
U know what I hate about being single?- Hangovers.
No wait, that's alcoholism. Heh, I always get those two mixed up!!
Yeh, still in here, sittin on my ass in some dark corner of this old thread, waiting for the miracle...
 
Originally posted by Boppychick:
Wait till im down for Pharmacy plurple and we can run around and torment the boys...
Umm... haha... yeah... dream on girls. ;) This is one boi no girl torments :p Okay, maybe one girl... but she pays for the pleasure of tieing me up and calling me BEEEEYYYAAAATTCH.
Just realised two pages of singles thread went by and I haven't posted anything so I thought I'd just pop my head up and say hi.
Been partying hard... last Thursday Teriyaki, Friday Honkytonks, Saturday Prince, Sunday morning kicking on at Revolver... twas a big weekend... met many, many nice boys and girls and had a wicked bad time. So naughty I could use a spanking... which I'll probably get at RedRaw on Australia Day long weekend. :D Don't suppose any other BL'ers will be there? Haha... doubt it...
Hope everyone is having an awesome new year and meeting lots of nice people out in partyland and remember: don't do anyone I wouldn't do! :)
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I think you all need to practice your "meditation" since everyone seems a little cranky. I know if I don't finish I get a little cranky.
 
Okay I think its high time for a constructive post here, or something resembling it (haha I got yo fooled!).
Now, because you ALL know I'm the king of short lived, disastrous drugfucked relationships, here's something I thought that I might be able to contribute that has value.
Plazma's guide to drugfucked relationships:
The warning signs:
* When someone says they love you within the first week of meeting you.
* The phrase "I've never met anyone like you before in my life"
* When a kiss is like incitement to committment.
* When you really don't have much in common in the 'real world' but you feel like you have a great vibe, and have potential to be together.
* When the only time you can put up with each other is when drugs are consumed.
* When the only time you spend with each other is illicitly influenced.
* The phrase "I'd say the same thing even if I wasn't peaking".
If the above ring a bell, you're in the process of graduating from the school of drugfucked disasters, and you'll soon have a diploma in emotional brusing, with a certificate in feeling pretty fucking stupid in hindsight.
I've made a bit of a decision recently, in the light of events in my life, that I'm most DEFINATELY not going to go for the whole drugfucked relationship thing again. Being a fussy asshole is much more fulfilling.
Arrogant, blasphemous, twisted bluelighter seeks soulmate, must be between 5'4 and 6' and be between a 'B' and 'C' cup. Good figure and fine featured face essential. "will fuck for drugs" attitude a must. Twisted and sick attitude is also essential. Reply to... ;)
*laughs*
Anyway, that's me out, its Friday, and I'm off to have a glass of wine and bum around.
-plaz out-
[ 17 January 2003: Message edited by: plazma ]
 
*cringes at the thought of 'drug-fucked relationships'*
well im not a big fan of the dreaded drug-fucked relationships...but hey you learn from them at least ;)
*curls up in corner with mad monkey*
 
So naughty I could use a spanking... which I'll probably get at RedRaw on Australia Day long weekend. Don't suppose any other BL'ers will be there? Haha... doubt it...
I actually thought I was the only one here who would even be remotely intrested in going....looks like I was wrong!
Hehehe I was going to go, but now seeing as though I'm broke it doesn't look like I'll be attending that fine event. :( DAMN!!
Sorry please carry on. ;)
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I relate to what you're saying 100% Addical... in the year that i've been single i've hooked up with a few different people for the purpose of pleasure, but it hasn't been anywhere near as satisfying as i had initially hoped, and i think it all just comes down to the person that i am and the experiences i've lived. I know what i want, and most of the time a one-nighter just isn't it. :\
On the topic of fuck-buddies, do you people think it's possible that having a long term fuck-buddy might skew your view of relationships somewhat? What i mean is simply that after a while you become accustomed to the life style you are leading, and when i comes to finding someone "special" and "right for you," you find it difficult to commit to them on the level of "serious relationship" because you're still in a "casual sex" mind set...
Thoughts anyone?
 
Originally posted by Cosmic Mist:
On the topic of fuck-buddies, do you people think it's possible that having a long term fuck-buddy might skew your view of relationships somewhat? What i mean is simply that after a while you become accustomed to the life style you are leading, and when i comes to finding someone "special" and "right for you," you find it difficult to commit to them on the level of "serious relationship" because you're still in a "casual sex" mind set...
From what I've seen, most fuckbuddy relationships don't last long enough for this to be a problem. It takes a LOT, and I mean a *LOT* of effort to develop a real, working, genuine LONG-TERM physical relationship and to be quite frank, most fuckbuddies don't have it.
Most people don't have the communication skills to make this work long term because let's face it, sex is fucking emotional, it's raw, it's in your face, fan-fucking-tastic, whoop-dee-doo with bells on... and people get confused, feelings don't get aired, jealousy, bitterness, neglect and then BOOM. One or both people get hurt.
Anyway I'm just coming down and was about to launch into a long lecture about fuckbuddy's and why all my friends physical relationships don't work but mine does. Haha... umm... what was the question?
Yeah, no it doesn't skew you view of real relationships if you keep in mind all along what it is you're actually looking for. The sex is just a distraction... having regular sex when you're single makes it very easy, cushy and comfortable but I don't think it makes you value a "real" relationship any less, in fact, because you have the sex, you don't push yourself into relationships out of desperation or horniness (which we all get, guys and girls).
I might go and have a nap now.
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Originally posted by pekkie:
I actually thought I was the only one here who would even be remotely intrested in going....looks like I was wrong!
Hehehe I was going to go, but now seeing as though I'm broke it doesn't look like I'll be attending that fine event. :( DAMN!!
I could just see a Bluelight meetup at RedRaw.
"We'll meet next to the pile of condoms outside the boy's toilets, I'll be wearing my leather bondage gear with the crotchless panties. Come and say hi or give me a shake if you see me!"
It's funny you should mention not being able to to afford going to RedRaw, a friend of mine found the following in a gay classified site. It's pretty funny:
http://members.optushome.com.au/rng/redraw.jpg
That's not me btw...
...alright it is, so who wants to play? Haha
Cheers
Blu
PS. I like at the bottom of the ad how he says "Into leather look", like it wasn't obvious. Hahaha...
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stace- you do it then ;)
WARNING WARNING TO ALL SINGLES: IT IS SAFER TO STAY IN YOUR HOMES (with your computer).
[the only true happiness comes from solitude and fishing]
[ 19 January 2003: Message edited by: belisimo ]
 
So last night I go out drinking, the first time in about 6 months, maybe more. I meet this nice girl, a friend of a friend. Things are going well all night. Talking and fooling about, the usual courting situation. We head back to a friends place at about 4am (ish), on the way she invites me to stay at hers for the remainder of the night. Of course I agree. We arrive at our destination and wait for some friends to show up. Some party supplies are consumed and the bong gets a workout. The time comes for us to leave.
So what do I do? I change my mind and decide to stay at my friends place and watch the Jurrasic 5 dvd..
I realise now that I am a fucking idiot. I put in the effort and gave up right before the finish line.
So now the critical self analysis comes into play. I think that I am too nice for my own good. It would have just been sex, and I thought thats what I wanted. But now I'm not too sure.
Perhaps I just need a good kick in the nuts. Self realisation in its most brutal form.
Anyway, I thought I would share a little of my messed up single life. Thanks for reading and keep out of the cookie jar.
:)
 
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