• LAVA Moderator: Shinji Ikari

BLR's on FB

This. I could see myself adding several mods though, as long as they swear not to mention BL in any way on my page :P

It's not that I'm ashamed of what I write here but I do worry that some of it might affect my husband's career (since a lot of it is based on what others think whether we like it or not). I keep it no secret that I was very bad on drugs for quite a while so anyone who knows me well knows about it, but STILL...

Sometimes I even think about going through BL and deleting any posts I've made that are too personal regarding drug use and whatnot, even when I've been sober for three years (what a pain in the ass that would be though!). It's a romantic notion to think that people would be able to understand that I'm a different person now but people are judgmental idiots so yeah, this is something that definitely makes me paranoid =/

I also think about deleting my personal photos from time to time but I truly enjoy putting faces to names so... Who knows.

You missed my wink ;)

I also follow the NDTOFB policy and don't mention the board by name

:D
 
Why you no add me :(

Because man!

You gotta like, add him man

understand man

you gotta add him before he adds you

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ferrealz I'm too cool to add people. I even occasionally delete all of the Bluelighters off my list and make them re-add me again just for shits and giggles.

D's has been waiting for me to approve his friend request for like 4 months now. ;)
 
I always forget about my requests, as in I will see them and think, "I'll do this later," only to not look at them again for a while. People probably take this personally, come to think of it. Ah well.
 
I feel like there is an unspoken code to leave peoples walls alone. You can say nice things on them, but I've even noticed that simple jokes can be taken the wrong way.

Instead of writing 'happy birthday man'! I might use a 'you are okay sometimes', or better yet, 'nobody really likes you'. Too me, its obvious its a joke.

:\ Even my gf has different fb rules than me, shit is weird. If this fb shit keeps getting more and more serious I'll probably just dip.
 
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