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blowjobs and swallowing

^ true that.

As for me, I generally don't swallow until I'm comfortable with the person the cum is coming from, lol. And by comfortable I mean that I know the person pretty well and/or care about them to a certain degree.

Plus I think this somehow makes the guy feel special in that I'm not just going to swallow any old cum that comes around, again lol! I think it adds a little more intimacy to oral sex, which IMO can be a very intimate act on its own.

As for the taste...not good IMO. Sometimes when I'm getting used to the guy's cum, I sometimes gag a bit when it's going down. As I get used to it, this usually goes away. With my current S/O we like tasting each other after giving oral.

BOTTOM LINE: To each, his(or her) own (cum preference).
 
I think giving head is in its own way even more intimate than intercourse. One can have intercourse and be somewhat passive, plus it's a biological act between two bodies. But giving a man an orgasm via ones mouth involves more creativity and the use of ones tongue. In turn, the man is vulnerable in that you could in theory bite his dick off with your teeth so he's trusting you as his 'guest'. I also think that if you love the guy, that swallowing his creamy come is part of the lovemaking... it's part of accepting the most personal part of him. His come is his essence as far as I'm concerned...
 
Knowing that the girl doesn't enjoy the end of a blowjob does take a lot of the fun out of it. Few people think "you know what would make this sex really hot? If one person wasn't enjoying themselves".
 
Ratherbewater, you're being intellectually dishonest. You make banal statements along the "everyone's entitled to their opinions" theme, but surround such innocuous statements with moral judgments, implying that if someone doesn't agree with your opinion, they are somehow morally suspect. You say "..the point is, men should be happy that a woman that they find attractive, etc. enough to want to be involved with sexually wants the same in return, and is willing to give them a blowjob." How can you make such a statement? People are happy with what they are happy with. If a guy decides that he wants to break up with a girl for not swallowing, who are you to pass judgment or to say he is cruel? Because he makes the girl feel bad? That's a bit paternalistic, don't you think? I would hope that the girl would be secure in herself to feel that a guy who insists on her doing something she doesn't like is not worthy of her in the first place. Would it be any more acceptable if a guy breaks up with a girl because the girl doesn't give blowjobs? Or is that morally acceptable because giving blowjobs is deemed more integral to a sexually healthy relationship? If the latter, who are you to judge what an individual deems as constituting sexually healthy behaviour? Only a couple can decide what's sexually acceptable and not acceptable between them. And though you seem to agree with this basic principle, I can't swallow the moral superiority bullshit you seemingly spew in your comments.
 
A friend and I were talking tonight about how lots of heterosexuals of both genders, seem to think that it's perfectly 100% safe to swallow semen, from just anyone.

Maybe lots of people think that they are immune to certain STDs, because of sexual orientation/race/gender/sexual practises/social class, or they are just ignorant, but part of that could be because of Abstinence based sex ed programs that are rampant in America.

Not to get off topic but I've seen (at least with people my age, I'm in my early 20s) that some people can be a bit paranoid about diseases to the point where friends of mine have thought that you can get HIV from kissing/french kissing.
Or that condoms (if used correctly) won't prevent the spread of HIV/other STDs.

I think that people watch too much porn and think, hey it's in porn so it must be ok/safe. Or perhaps they think that they're invincible and get careless as some people can.


Anyone else notice this/agree?
 
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Well I've noticed about the same percentage of homosexuals assume swallowing is safe, or at least several orders of magnitude safer than say, unprotected anal. The statistics don't back that up, but the idea seems very common. A lot of people assume bad info both ways, I've heard oral is "completely safe from everything" and "anal is instant HIV even if neither person is infected" (from morons). The misinformation is all over the spectrum.

Condoms are often regarded as magical wonder toys that make you invincible. These people are surpised when they suddenly find bumps in the area the condom doesn't cover. They're also rather surprised when they find out while condom effectiveness vs pregnancy averages around 98%, prevention of STD transfer is around 70-80%. Still a far cry better than nothing, but not the impenetrable force field many assume it is when they go out and screw anything on two legs because "It's all ok as long as I'm protected".
 
Yeah, there's plenty of misinformed people out there, which should be corrected, but you know, there are plenty of informed people out there as well, who still swallow semen. We know the risks, we're as careful as we want to be. We do it because we like it, not because we're arrogant or ignorant. I feel confident in my sexual health, niether invincible nor overly-vulnerable.
 
B-U-M-P ... just boredom :)

I you wanna swallow the fair play if you don't then don't but the idea that the GUY was annoyed/upset ... whatever becasue she didn't want to ... is fucked up!

Personally I don't like the taste of spunk so would rather not let go in her mouth then again if she really enjoyed it (which would confuse no end) then sure I would ... and then take my time kissing her again .. hehe
 
The Anti-Man said:
We do it because we like it, not because we're arrogant or ignorant. I feel confident in my sexual health, niether invincible nor overly-vulnerable.
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Word.

If I like the guy, I'm into him, I think he's hot - I'll swallow. Chances are my mouth is in that region because I think he is all those things anyway.
 
I swallow, but im not sure if its such a good idea anymore.
i read that its been linked to throat cancer.... eep!
 
thatjesschick said:

I swallow, but im not sure if its such a good idea anymore.

i read that its been linked to throat cancer.... eep!
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I'll concede that this is just anecdotal evidence, but I've been cumming in women's mouths all my life, and my throat feels fine.
 
Meh, i don't get head with my current S/O haha! But she prefers me to bust inbetween her other lips
<3 pill <3
 
Guys: would YOU swallow a tablespoon of cum? If not, then shut up and stop trying to pressure girls into doing things they might not want to do, just because it makes you happy. If they want to, great! But it's up to them! For gods sake, have some respect....
 
^Sif... Pressure away...

women constantly nag us to come meet them in the city or whatever.. even when you dont want to, least the woman can do is swallow a load ;)

Don't you think its a bit rude to spit?

It's like spitting in someones face after they just gave you a gift. Semen is a gift, and women should respect it as such. for there are many men who cant blow at all...

LOL
 
Immortal Teknique said:
but eating out a girl isnt the most fun excercise in the world either.

If you dont like it, or its too hard, or it hurts, or its tiring, DONT DO IT! Its as simple as that. We dont need a trillion word essay on how hard giving head is. We are all human beings who can make decisions. It is so simple. Why rant on about how shit it is when all it takes is a "no" or "cant be fucked" to end all your pain and suffering???
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Uh, plenty of guys love eating pussy and I think there is a lot of girls out there who actually love giving head. Even if they arn't being actively stimulated giving your partner that kind of pleasure is arousing on it's own, I know if i'm going down on a girl and she gets to squirming and breathing heavy it makes me fucking rock hard. I don't see why it wouldn't be the same type of situation for women.

The taste, I guess I can understand why some girls wouldn't want to swallow but it also seems like some of them would genuinly enjoy it. If you don't like giving head, then don't do it. Certainly don't just go down there out of obligation. I'm sure there is plenty of other fun stuff to do to make up for it. :)
 
UMMM.....I love sucking dick....Ill give my man head anytime he wants and swallow or let him come where ever he wants

I dont understand how some girls dont like doing it.
Maybe its because I love to get my pussy licked and I wouldnt dream of asking my man to do that without returning the favor.

But really thats not it, Ill suck him off without anything in return. Sometimes I rather suck him off than have sex.

I think it is one of the sexiest things ever.
I get so turned on giving blow-jobs.
I love em.
 
^If there's concern over safety, using a condom would be best. Barring that, keeping the ejaculate out of your mouth in the first place would be a better option than swallowing.
 
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