drug_wench
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L O V E L I F E said:
LMAO! well of course first i cut them into pieces and chewed them up
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LMAO! well of course first i cut them into pieces and chewed them up
*burp* 
The Anti-Man
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^ So you get all your vitamins, too!
stephaniesomewhere
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swallow, come all over me, come in me....so long as I am happy he can do what he likes...preferably all of them in the one session!
Jabberwocky
Frumious Bandersnatch
if she dont swallow dump her
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Bluelighter
There's nothing better than shooting a steaming load of baby gravy all over a willing girl's face! 
At least, that's what porn has taught me.
At least, that's what porn has taught me.
Asenath
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Tylerdurden said:
Sorry to jizz on your parade, but I suspect that most broads who guzzle cum do so for a reason more or less like this one: They want to be seen as sexy and desirable, and cum-guzzlin' is relentlessly promoted as "sexy" by today's standard-issue uncreative, repetitive hetero porn.
Massive social conditioning as engineered by porn clearly plays more than a passive role in the creation of the tastes of women who truly find sperm-swallowing "hot."
In that case, I'm perfectly happy as an artificial woman.
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Asenath
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8(mista_200 said:
And you're probably one of those dudes who would react with revulsion to the idea of performing oral sex on a menstruating woman.
NEWSFLASH: Sperm is nastier than blood! It smells nastier, tastes nastier, looks nastier, and even feels nastier than blood.
Sperm is the most vile of bodily fluids (a fact so certain that odds are there's a mathematical formula to prove it
). Only our society's carefully constructed and unnecessary collective sperm fetish stands in the way of this knowledge.If pro-sperm fetish socialization didn't exist, spermophilia would be considered as deviant as coprophilia currently is. pro-sperm fetish socialization does exist, and sperm fetishes in females are instead considered "teh haWtness."
ratherbewater
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it "offends" him? oh, please. i wonder how much he'd enjoy getting something the consistency of watery elmer's glue with a distinctively salty tang fired water-pistol style into the back of his throat after spending however long bobbing up and down. (let me tell you, fellas -- we do it because we love you, but don't bitch about your tongue being tired because at least you don't have to unhinge your jaw and somehow cover both your bottom *and* top teeth with your tongue to give a guy head, and we deserve some kind of plaque or trophy or something for that shit.)
but seriously, some girls don't give head at all, so he should consider himself lucky enough that he didn't end up with one of those girls. although i'll swallow now, since i've been with my boyfriend for two years and i guess i love the little bastard enough to take a shot in the mouth once in a while, it's not exactly the most pleasant thing, especially if you have a gag reflex like i do. there's another award we deserve -- for being able to maneuver our tongues into a position that makes you guys fire under our tongue instead of directly onto our gag reflex. men should appreciate the gesture; we do tongue gymnastics to assure that we don't promptly hurl all over your schlong after a hummer.
like you said, my boyfriend just said, "a blowjob's a blowjob... if you get off, who the hell cares if it's in her mouth or not?" i concur. keep it off of my face, beyond that, i'm flexible. but this dude needs to realize that a girlfriend's job description does not include "must give oral sex and consume resulting mess". it doesn't even include the "must give oral sex" part, but we're nice enough to do it even though it's not like we're getting anything out of breaking our jaws while trying not to scrape our teeth along a big ol' meat popsicle.
my last boyfriend flat out would not go down on chicks, ever, at all. that was fucking horrible. i can't believe i managed to stay with him so long. but at least he never expected a blowjob in return for him refusing to stick his face in between a girl's thighs (which i don't get; i rather like putting my face there). he was weird, though; he didn't like blowjobs. he liked them as foreplay, but never as a full act. i don't think i've ever met another man in my life who didn't like blowjobs -- i've met plenty that preferred sex, but never one that straight up didn't *want* to get sucked off.
and what? he doesn't close his eyes because that might make him fantasize about men... but he's homophobic? does he realize that by proxy that makes him scared of himself?
heh. this was quite an amusing thread to post on. thanks for making me laugh tonight.
but seriously, some girls don't give head at all, so he should consider himself lucky enough that he didn't end up with one of those girls. although i'll swallow now, since i've been with my boyfriend for two years and i guess i love the little bastard enough to take a shot in the mouth once in a while, it's not exactly the most pleasant thing, especially if you have a gag reflex like i do. there's another award we deserve -- for being able to maneuver our tongues into a position that makes you guys fire under our tongue instead of directly onto our gag reflex. men should appreciate the gesture; we do tongue gymnastics to assure that we don't promptly hurl all over your schlong after a hummer.
like you said, my boyfriend just said, "a blowjob's a blowjob... if you get off, who the hell cares if it's in her mouth or not?" i concur. keep it off of my face, beyond that, i'm flexible. but this dude needs to realize that a girlfriend's job description does not include "must give oral sex and consume resulting mess". it doesn't even include the "must give oral sex" part, but we're nice enough to do it even though it's not like we're getting anything out of breaking our jaws while trying not to scrape our teeth along a big ol' meat popsicle.
my last boyfriend flat out would not go down on chicks, ever, at all. that was fucking horrible. i can't believe i managed to stay with him so long. but at least he never expected a blowjob in return for him refusing to stick his face in between a girl's thighs (which i don't get; i rather like putting my face there). he was weird, though; he didn't like blowjobs. he liked them as foreplay, but never as a full act. i don't think i've ever met another man in my life who didn't like blowjobs -- i've met plenty that preferred sex, but never one that straight up didn't *want* to get sucked off.
and what? he doesn't close his eyes because that might make him fantasize about men... but he's homophobic? does he realize that by proxy that makes him scared of himself?
heh. this was quite an amusing thread to post on. thanks for making me laugh tonight.
drug_wench
Bluelight Crew
i applaud u ratherbethewater - those r my thoughts on the matter exactly
sucking a cock is a skillful art in itself
why cant they just b GRATEFUL!!!!!!? 8)
sucking a cock is a skillful art in itself
why cant they just b GRATEFUL!!!!!!? 8)
ratherbewater
Bluelighter
drug wench (awesome name by the way), thank you. guys -- well to be fair i'll say MOST guys, there are some good ones out there -- seem to think that women suck dick with the greatest of ease, and that we could merrily and comfortably do so for hours on end, all while looking utterly gorgeous and bending ourselves into positions that contortionists can't quite understand (because you knoooow the guy's gonna want to get all comfy and lie down so you have to half-ass straddle him and tilt your head all stupid to keep from choking on your hair AND his dick, meanwhile all your weight's resting on one hand that's quickly going numb and at least one joint and one major muscle are screaming in pain and your jaw is about to fall off of your head, but we STILL get the job done and we STILL look good doing it, so someone PLEASE send all men the memo that sucking wang isn't a goddamed walk in the park, so show us some serious appreciation for being willing to suffer actual injury if necessary all to do something that isn't doing jack shit for us).
i actually made a couple of my boyfriends take two of their fingers, wrap their mouths around them with their lips covering their teeth, and suck vigorously for five straight minutes. after that i tell them they need to imagine what it'd be like to do that while bent in a position that will probably result in your spinal column coming right out of your body, and having it end with a nice big squirt of salty, snotty stuff that aims directly for your gag reflex -- oh, and i remind them that they still have to keep going and looking good even though your wad is all over your uvula and you think some went into your lungs because god forbid you stop before they're done. i've found that making guys do this honestly gives them at least SOME appreciation for what you're doing for them, because it's tiring on their mouth to suck off their fingers, but they don't have to worry about things like accidental teeth scraping or having a double-thick hot dog shoved down their throat or moving at the wrong time only to end up with spooge in your hair, and you know they're probably too busy basking in the glory of having spilled their seed in your face to grab a towel for you.
don't get me wrong; i like pleasing my man, and i don't mind going down on him, but men in general really need to be taught just how much work we're actually doing down there while all they have to do is lie back, feel good, and more than likely pretend we're carmen electra. and if they're the type of macho dickweasel who won't kiss me afterwards because god forbid a tiny sperm sample gets near their mouth and turns them gay somehow, well, their first blowjob from me will also be their last. i'm so thankful to have a guy who never ever asks for head (which is exactly why he gets it), is courteous enough to give me lots of advance warning so that i don't choke to death, and who will return the favor for as long as it takes -- and who's not afraid to touch his own semen. most guys recoil from the stuff like it's some kind of deadly nerve toxin, and i'm like, you're bitching about that drop on your stomach when i just ATE thousands of LIVING LITTLE TADPOLE-Y THINGS just to make you feel really good for like six seconds? i don't think so.
beamers,
that's a ridiculous comparison. most women don't have orgasms that involve several bursts of thick snotty stuff into the back of your throat, and we don't know if it's going to taste bad until it's too late -- if we taste bad, you get to find out right away and stop. and frankly, i don't have one single female friend who would be offended if you chose to use listerine to get the smell of pussy out of your mouth -- obviously it's no insult to us if you did the job. just because we don't want to swallow doesn't mean we didn't work hard to make you feel good; some of us don't swallow because we have sensitive gag reflexes. it's usually got NOTHING to do with you or your specific semen. we are not "rejecting" you. rejection doesn't involve an orgasm of any kind, in or out of our mouths. we just don't want to eat that stuff, and to call that "rejection" is taking it way too personally. be grateful we go down on you in the first place, and try to bear in mind that if our unwillingness to swallow was a rejection aimed at you, we would have rejected you long before mr. happy ever got near our lips. i don't think there's ANYTHING to complain about when i prefer to have my boyfriend shoot on my tits or whatever as opposed to in my mouth, and most women don't expect you to have a cup handy to shoot in so that your sperm doesn't get on them. they just don't want to eat it. but if a girl works her ass off to make you squirt, the word "rejection" shouldn't even be in your vocabulary, and if you sincerely feel a sense of rejection because a woman chooses to not swallow something that comes out of the same hole you piss from, you've got some kind of weird insecurity issues that you might want to work on. either that or just remind yourself hey, i'm GETTING A BLOWJOB! i should probably not complain lest i end up with a girlfriend who won't suck it at all.
"it's already in your mouth."
um, not necessarily. if i let a guy come in my mouth, i swallow (spitting definitely does make it worse). otherwise, he gets to finish on my tits or wherever else he feels like it barring my face. i don't take a wad in the mouth and then try to act sexy about getting up to spit it out. some women don't want men to come in their mouths, and that's perfectly understandable. but speaking for me personally -- well, me and just about every chick i know -- it's either all the way (shoot and swallow), or it's out of my mouth beforehand and aimed at some other part of my body. i don't wait to taste it like wine to see if i want to eat it or not; i'll either be nice and let you shoot in my mouth or i'll be nice and let you shoot on my tits, but either way, you're getting the orgasm out of the deal, so seriously, you don't have much room to complain without looking bad here. isn't it enough that we do it in the first place? YOU stick something the size of your cock practically down your throat and suck on it for twenty minutes without moving your lips and then let someone squirt some jizz directly at your gag reflex and tell me how much you like it.
and as for that last bit, which i only just read and got a hearty laugh out of -- but nowhere near as hearty as the chuckle my boyfriend is still having, though he just managed to sputter out "my god, he has no idea" -- i'm not shy about my sex life so allow me to retort. i have had sex in every conceivable position known to man, and do so on a regular basis. i've had sex on camera, sex outside, sex in public. i've had ex-boyfriends who i'm still friends with actually ask me to teach their girlfriends how to give good head. i will happily prance around in a french maid or school girl outfit just to tickle someone's fantasy, i have no complaints about doing nearly if not all the work almost every time just so that he gets pleasure because his pleasure is far more important than mine, and i know exactly what a man wants whispered breathily into his ear at just the right moment. i don't mind rug burns from fucking on a pool table, i get a charge out of giving road head, and he really likes it when the mood for some girl action strikes me and he gets to watch and/or join in. all that and i'm tighter than a virgin.
i don't know what you consider "fun", but where i come from, most men would kill for a chick who did all that and wouldn't think twice about the times she didn't feel like swallowing.
(by the way, i'm actually a very nice girl, but i do so love a silly argument, and it was really silly of you to insinuate that because i respect women who don't swallow that must mean i'm boring in bed. i haven't had sex missionary-style since... hmm. well, i don't know since when, because my sexual appetite makes my boyfriend say he needs a break. i adore sex and not always wanting to swallow is indicative of nothing except the fact that i don't always want to swallow, so please in the future, don't try a cheap shot at me without knowing anything about me. if there's one thing i'm sure of, it's that i'm sure as hell not boring in bed. or on the kitchen table. or on the living room floor. or on the desk in the office. or in a moving car. i'm strictly monogamous -- except for nights when we add a girl into the mix -- but for that one man, i am quite happy to be his personal little whore, and frankly, most women would probably call me a trashy skank for everything i just said, but i'm just making sure we understand each other: i'm quite comfortable discussing my sexuality, i'm quite comfortable pushing every boundary of my sexuality, and you can choose to believe all that or not, but the very satisfied man sitting in our bed right now is really the only one who i need to impress, which i've done. repeatedly. in closing, a -- no hard feelings, i'm just fucking around here, and b -- todd says to tell you that i didn't exaggerate at all, and that he doesn't know about you, but he'd gladly never get a blowjob again if it meant he could keep doing everything else i've just described, and that he highly doubts many men would disagree.)
i actually made a couple of my boyfriends take two of their fingers, wrap their mouths around them with their lips covering their teeth, and suck vigorously for five straight minutes. after that i tell them they need to imagine what it'd be like to do that while bent in a position that will probably result in your spinal column coming right out of your body, and having it end with a nice big squirt of salty, snotty stuff that aims directly for your gag reflex -- oh, and i remind them that they still have to keep going and looking good even though your wad is all over your uvula and you think some went into your lungs because god forbid you stop before they're done. i've found that making guys do this honestly gives them at least SOME appreciation for what you're doing for them, because it's tiring on their mouth to suck off their fingers, but they don't have to worry about things like accidental teeth scraping or having a double-thick hot dog shoved down their throat or moving at the wrong time only to end up with spooge in your hair, and you know they're probably too busy basking in the glory of having spilled their seed in your face to grab a towel for you.
don't get me wrong; i like pleasing my man, and i don't mind going down on him, but men in general really need to be taught just how much work we're actually doing down there while all they have to do is lie back, feel good, and more than likely pretend we're carmen electra. and if they're the type of macho dickweasel who won't kiss me afterwards because god forbid a tiny sperm sample gets near their mouth and turns them gay somehow, well, their first blowjob from me will also be their last. i'm so thankful to have a guy who never ever asks for head (which is exactly why he gets it), is courteous enough to give me lots of advance warning so that i don't choke to death, and who will return the favor for as long as it takes -- and who's not afraid to touch his own semen. most guys recoil from the stuff like it's some kind of deadly nerve toxin, and i'm like, you're bitching about that drop on your stomach when i just ATE thousands of LIVING LITTLE TADPOLE-Y THINGS just to make you feel really good for like six seconds? i don't think so.
beamers,
that's a ridiculous comparison. most women don't have orgasms that involve several bursts of thick snotty stuff into the back of your throat, and we don't know if it's going to taste bad until it's too late -- if we taste bad, you get to find out right away and stop. and frankly, i don't have one single female friend who would be offended if you chose to use listerine to get the smell of pussy out of your mouth -- obviously it's no insult to us if you did the job. just because we don't want to swallow doesn't mean we didn't work hard to make you feel good; some of us don't swallow because we have sensitive gag reflexes. it's usually got NOTHING to do with you or your specific semen. we are not "rejecting" you. rejection doesn't involve an orgasm of any kind, in or out of our mouths. we just don't want to eat that stuff, and to call that "rejection" is taking it way too personally. be grateful we go down on you in the first place, and try to bear in mind that if our unwillingness to swallow was a rejection aimed at you, we would have rejected you long before mr. happy ever got near our lips. i don't think there's ANYTHING to complain about when i prefer to have my boyfriend shoot on my tits or whatever as opposed to in my mouth, and most women don't expect you to have a cup handy to shoot in so that your sperm doesn't get on them. they just don't want to eat it. but if a girl works her ass off to make you squirt, the word "rejection" shouldn't even be in your vocabulary, and if you sincerely feel a sense of rejection because a woman chooses to not swallow something that comes out of the same hole you piss from, you've got some kind of weird insecurity issues that you might want to work on. either that or just remind yourself hey, i'm GETTING A BLOWJOB! i should probably not complain lest i end up with a girlfriend who won't suck it at all.
"it's already in your mouth."
um, not necessarily. if i let a guy come in my mouth, i swallow (spitting definitely does make it worse). otherwise, he gets to finish on my tits or wherever else he feels like it barring my face. i don't take a wad in the mouth and then try to act sexy about getting up to spit it out. some women don't want men to come in their mouths, and that's perfectly understandable. but speaking for me personally -- well, me and just about every chick i know -- it's either all the way (shoot and swallow), or it's out of my mouth beforehand and aimed at some other part of my body. i don't wait to taste it like wine to see if i want to eat it or not; i'll either be nice and let you shoot in my mouth or i'll be nice and let you shoot on my tits, but either way, you're getting the orgasm out of the deal, so seriously, you don't have much room to complain without looking bad here. isn't it enough that we do it in the first place? YOU stick something the size of your cock practically down your throat and suck on it for twenty minutes without moving your lips and then let someone squirt some jizz directly at your gag reflex and tell me how much you like it.
and as for that last bit, which i only just read and got a hearty laugh out of -- but nowhere near as hearty as the chuckle my boyfriend is still having, though he just managed to sputter out "my god, he has no idea" -- i'm not shy about my sex life so allow me to retort. i have had sex in every conceivable position known to man, and do so on a regular basis. i've had sex on camera, sex outside, sex in public. i've had ex-boyfriends who i'm still friends with actually ask me to teach their girlfriends how to give good head. i will happily prance around in a french maid or school girl outfit just to tickle someone's fantasy, i have no complaints about doing nearly if not all the work almost every time just so that he gets pleasure because his pleasure is far more important than mine, and i know exactly what a man wants whispered breathily into his ear at just the right moment. i don't mind rug burns from fucking on a pool table, i get a charge out of giving road head, and he really likes it when the mood for some girl action strikes me and he gets to watch and/or join in. all that and i'm tighter than a virgin.
i don't know what you consider "fun", but where i come from, most men would kill for a chick who did all that and wouldn't think twice about the times she didn't feel like swallowing.
(by the way, i'm actually a very nice girl, but i do so love a silly argument, and it was really silly of you to insinuate that because i respect women who don't swallow that must mean i'm boring in bed. i haven't had sex missionary-style since... hmm. well, i don't know since when, because my sexual appetite makes my boyfriend say he needs a break. i adore sex and not always wanting to swallow is indicative of nothing except the fact that i don't always want to swallow, so please in the future, don't try a cheap shot at me without knowing anything about me. if there's one thing i'm sure of, it's that i'm sure as hell not boring in bed. or on the kitchen table. or on the living room floor. or on the desk in the office. or in a moving car. i'm strictly monogamous -- except for nights when we add a girl into the mix -- but for that one man, i am quite happy to be his personal little whore, and frankly, most women would probably call me a trashy skank for everything i just said, but i'm just making sure we understand each other: i'm quite comfortable discussing my sexuality, i'm quite comfortable pushing every boundary of my sexuality, and you can choose to believe all that or not, but the very satisfied man sitting in our bed right now is really the only one who i need to impress, which i've done. repeatedly. in closing, a -- no hard feelings, i'm just fucking around here, and b -- todd says to tell you that i didn't exaggerate at all, and that he doesn't know about you, but he'd gladly never get a blowjob again if it meant he could keep doing everything else i've just described, and that he highly doubts many men would disagree.)
Immortal Teknique
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Ok, now that you have got the 450 million word essay off your chest, i will offer my opinion.
From my perspective, you are making it "sound" like giving head is worse than getting shot in the foot. On numerous occassions you make it sound like the most utterly disgusting, excruciating and painful excercise known to man. Im not sure whether you have had lesbian encounters but eating out a girl isnt the most fun excercise in the world either.
If you dont like it, or its too hard, or it hurts, or its tiring, DONT DO IT! Its as simple as that. We dont need a trillion word essay on how hard giving head is. We are all human beings who can make decisions. It is so simple. Why rant on about how shit it is when all it takes is a "no" or "cant be fucked" to end all your pain and suffering???
From my perspective, you are making it "sound" like giving head is worse than getting shot in the foot. On numerous occassions you make it sound like the most utterly disgusting, excruciating and painful excercise known to man. Im not sure whether you have had lesbian encounters
but eating out a girl isnt the most fun excercise in the world either.If you dont like it, or its too hard, or it hurts, or its tiring, DONT DO IT! Its as simple as that. We dont need a trillion word essay on how hard giving head is. We are all human beings who can make decisions. It is so simple. Why rant on about how shit it is when all it takes is a "no" or "cant be fucked" to end all your pain and suffering???
Jabberwocky
Frumious Bandersnatch
Asenath, to be honest i havent thought about going down on a girl on her wrags..... but the idea doesnt disgust me. nothing "disgusts" me, i just can't comment on something i havent done ...yet.
And my point is that i like girls to swallow, if they don't bad luck. But if they don't then they probably arn't going to satisfy my sexual desire anyway.....so i say goodbye! i dont like frigid girls.
And my point is that i like girls to swallow, if they don't bad luck. But if they don't then they probably arn't going to satisfy my sexual desire anyway.....so i say goodbye! i dont like frigid girls.
ratherbewater
Bluelighter
i'm a writer, i type 85-90wpm, and i'm verbose... sorry for my lengthy posts, feel free to skip them if they're annoyingly long.
i'm sorry, but you're misinterpreting me entirely. i actually quite enjoy giving my boyfriend head -- i mean, i wouldn't call it a hobby, but i enjoy giving him pleasure and that's a tried-and-true method that i happen to think i'm pretty good at. i give him head on a pretty regular basis, and i never shoot myself in the foot, so you do the math. i have absolutely no qualms about giving head; however, certain things bother me about certain men. i don't think it's right for men to complain if a woman doesn't want to swallow; that's her choice, and after all, she did just give you head, which she didn't have to do either. it's not the nicest feeling in the world to work hard to give someone pleasure and then have them complain about it instead of appreciating the fact that you did it. maybe i'm just sexually polite, but when a guy goes down on me, no matter what happens up to and including me not getting anywhere near getting off, i am appreciative and don't complain, and i think it's perfectly within reason to expect your partner to show the same courtesy, especially when he got to have an orgasm. i mean, it's one thing to be asked beforehand if i'll swallow, or if it's brought up at a later time, but directly after i get someone off it's pretty inconsiderate of them to be annoyed that i didn't feel like having them shoot in my mouth that particular time. when my boyfriend asks me to swallow beforehand, i almost always do, and when i don't swallow, he's never once complained... he's sitting here reading this in disbelief that ANY man would complain about that detail after just getting a blowjob, some girls don't give them at all and he's got a girlfriend who does it whenever he wants (and then some) and he says it's something he'd never risk having me stop doing just because i don't always want to swallow. do you think it's somehow wrong for a woman to decide that she doesn't want to swallow? and i do hope i've corrected you on my feelings regarding giving head; i love my boyfriend very much and pleasuring him makes me happy, so i enjoy giving him head. that hardly sounds like someone who would prefer a shot in the foot... i just sometimes don't want a shot in the mouth, and respect other women who don't, and believe that men should be happy for the blowjob and let it go at that. some men make women feel like we've failed or done them wrong when we don't swallow, and that's unfair and completely wrong. we don't have to do anything sexual at all, but when we choose to give oral sex, i think it's ridiculous that some guys get pissy even though i just spent half an hour giving them the best blowjob i could. i've been with guys like that, and it sucks and it hurts your feelings when you really try hard to make it good and then find out he's unhappy because he didn't get to shoot in my mouth instead of on my tits. i really think that's just an awful way for men to behave.
yes, i have had lesbian encounters; i'm bisexual. getting a woman off is often no easy feat, but if i like the girl, i enjoy giving her pleasure just as i enjoy giving my boyfriend pleasure. i am equally willing to give either gender (well, certain members of either gender, anyway) head; i'm just exercising my right to bitch when a guy acts like i just completely erased that entire period of pleasure by having him come on me instead of down my throat. now don't get me wrong, i swallow, i just don't always swallow. if there's something in what i'm saying that still sounds like i don't give head, don't enjoy giving head, or am being unreasonable in expecting men to just flat out appreciate getting head at all, please let me know.
it does hurt sometimes. your jaw gets tired and your lips tend to snag on your teeth. you get crampy from whatever weird-ass position you've somehow ended up in to do it. and it is tiring, just as giving a woman head is tiring, albeit in a different way. however, my job makes me incredibly tired, it sometimes ends up with me getting hurt, and i often complain about things regarding it, but i love my job, and i love pleasuring my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend, for that matter, and he loves me, but that doesn't mean we don't complain to/about each other. i'm sorry you think that i feel a certain way about giving head, but i'm now clearing things up for you: i have NO problem giving head, i enjoy giving head sometimes, i swallow sometimes, i complain but that doesn't mean it bothers me to the point where i don't want to do it, and i don't think the way certain men treat the entire act is appropriate. honestly, i see nothing wrong with any of that.
as for my "essay", i again remind you that no one here is under any obligation to read anything i say or respond to it. you chose to do so of your own accord, so bitching about its length just sounds ridiculous. if it's so tediously long and annoying and all that, hey, it's so simple - don't read it! i've got a right to talk just as much as you do; no one made you read or respond to what i said, but you chose to do it anyway, so i'm sorry it was too long for you, but in the future if it's too long, just skip it, because i'm a verbose person and if someone can't be arsed to read a few extra paragraphs, hey, no skin off of my back.
if you read the conversation it was all very light-hearted and meant to be funny in the beginning; nothing got mean-spirited until i was basically told i must be a shitty lay. however, let me reiterate yet again that I DO LIKE TO GIVE HEAD, i'm sorry for the miscommunication, thank you for letting me know that i can just not give head if i don't want to in case i didn't get that memo about free will, but i think i'll continue giving head and enjoying it if it's all the same to you. i'm sorry that you can't seem to get a chuckle out of my posts and that you took them so seriously, and i'm truly not sure why you read my too-long post or why you took the time to bitch about its length while berating me about how i don't like giving head, but hopefully we've cleared things up now. i'm not here to make enemies; i admit i write lengthy comments, i do not demand nor expect anyone to read or respond to them unless they choose to, so let's just move on and in the future you can read my posts or not, reply to them or not, but just so we have this head issue settled.
mista_200, look up the term "frigid" in a medical dictionary; you're clearly completely confused as to what it means. frigid women do not have sex, they do not give head. also, i thought you should know, since clearly no one told you... women are not sperm receptacles. we are not here to meet your every sexual demand, that's what hookes are for. if you would actually dump a girlfriend over something as simple as her not swallowing, one has to wonder if you've ever had a relationship with emotional attachment or substance, or if you just want some chick to spend her days and nights sucking your cock, swallowing your load, and being a good little bitch. if it's the latter, do all womankind a favor and get a mail-order bride, because no self-respecting woman would be with a man who would actually end a relationship because she doesn't like eating sperm. i do swallow quite often, and i don't mind it at all because i'm in love with my boyfriend and love to please him, but contrary to your belief system, women aren't here to do a job that you can do with a tissue. if you consider not wanting to have a big ball of jizz in your mouth to be "frigid", you're in for a long line of disappointments, because frigidity has fuck-all to do with swalowing, and some of the most sexually adventurous and talented women just happen to not like eating semen, not to mention some of the prettiest, smartest, kindest, funniest women -- are they frigid and disposable because they're not your personal reproductive garbage disposal, or do you perhaps like a girl to maybe have other sexual talents and a personality?
i'm sorry, but you're misinterpreting me entirely. i actually quite enjoy giving my boyfriend head -- i mean, i wouldn't call it a hobby, but i enjoy giving him pleasure and that's a tried-and-true method that i happen to think i'm pretty good at. i give him head on a pretty regular basis, and i never shoot myself in the foot, so you do the math. i have absolutely no qualms about giving head; however, certain things bother me about certain men. i don't think it's right for men to complain if a woman doesn't want to swallow; that's her choice, and after all, she did just give you head, which she didn't have to do either. it's not the nicest feeling in the world to work hard to give someone pleasure and then have them complain about it instead of appreciating the fact that you did it. maybe i'm just sexually polite, but when a guy goes down on me, no matter what happens up to and including me not getting anywhere near getting off, i am appreciative and don't complain, and i think it's perfectly within reason to expect your partner to show the same courtesy, especially when he got to have an orgasm. i mean, it's one thing to be asked beforehand if i'll swallow, or if it's brought up at a later time, but directly after i get someone off it's pretty inconsiderate of them to be annoyed that i didn't feel like having them shoot in my mouth that particular time. when my boyfriend asks me to swallow beforehand, i almost always do, and when i don't swallow, he's never once complained... he's sitting here reading this in disbelief that ANY man would complain about that detail after just getting a blowjob, some girls don't give them at all and he's got a girlfriend who does it whenever he wants (and then some) and he says it's something he'd never risk having me stop doing just because i don't always want to swallow. do you think it's somehow wrong for a woman to decide that she doesn't want to swallow? and i do hope i've corrected you on my feelings regarding giving head; i love my boyfriend very much and pleasuring him makes me happy, so i enjoy giving him head. that hardly sounds like someone who would prefer a shot in the foot... i just sometimes don't want a shot in the mouth, and respect other women who don't, and believe that men should be happy for the blowjob and let it go at that. some men make women feel like we've failed or done them wrong when we don't swallow, and that's unfair and completely wrong. we don't have to do anything sexual at all, but when we choose to give oral sex, i think it's ridiculous that some guys get pissy even though i just spent half an hour giving them the best blowjob i could. i've been with guys like that, and it sucks and it hurts your feelings when you really try hard to make it good and then find out he's unhappy because he didn't get to shoot in my mouth instead of on my tits. i really think that's just an awful way for men to behave.
yes, i have had lesbian encounters; i'm bisexual. getting a woman off is often no easy feat, but if i like the girl, i enjoy giving her pleasure just as i enjoy giving my boyfriend pleasure. i am equally willing to give either gender (well, certain members of either gender, anyway) head; i'm just exercising my right to bitch when a guy acts like i just completely erased that entire period of pleasure by having him come on me instead of down my throat. now don't get me wrong, i swallow, i just don't always swallow. if there's something in what i'm saying that still sounds like i don't give head, don't enjoy giving head, or am being unreasonable in expecting men to just flat out appreciate getting head at all, please let me know.
it does hurt sometimes. your jaw gets tired and your lips tend to snag on your teeth. you get crampy from whatever weird-ass position you've somehow ended up in to do it. and it is tiring, just as giving a woman head is tiring, albeit in a different way. however, my job makes me incredibly tired, it sometimes ends up with me getting hurt, and i often complain about things regarding it, but i love my job, and i love pleasuring my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend, for that matter, and he loves me, but that doesn't mean we don't complain to/about each other. i'm sorry you think that i feel a certain way about giving head, but i'm now clearing things up for you: i have NO problem giving head, i enjoy giving head sometimes, i swallow sometimes, i complain but that doesn't mean it bothers me to the point where i don't want to do it, and i don't think the way certain men treat the entire act is appropriate. honestly, i see nothing wrong with any of that.
as for my "essay", i again remind you that no one here is under any obligation to read anything i say or respond to it. you chose to do so of your own accord, so bitching about its length just sounds ridiculous. if it's so tediously long and annoying and all that, hey, it's so simple - don't read it! i've got a right to talk just as much as you do; no one made you read or respond to what i said, but you chose to do it anyway, so i'm sorry it was too long for you, but in the future if it's too long, just skip it, because i'm a verbose person and if someone can't be arsed to read a few extra paragraphs, hey, no skin off of my back.
if you read the conversation it was all very light-hearted and meant to be funny in the beginning; nothing got mean-spirited until i was basically told i must be a shitty lay. however, let me reiterate yet again that I DO LIKE TO GIVE HEAD, i'm sorry for the miscommunication, thank you for letting me know that i can just not give head if i don't want to in case i didn't get that memo about free will, but i think i'll continue giving head and enjoying it if it's all the same to you. i'm sorry that you can't seem to get a chuckle out of my posts and that you took them so seriously, and i'm truly not sure why you read my too-long post or why you took the time to bitch about its length while berating me about how i don't like giving head, but hopefully we've cleared things up now. i'm not here to make enemies; i admit i write lengthy comments, i do not demand nor expect anyone to read or respond to them unless they choose to, so let's just move on and in the future you can read my posts or not, reply to them or not, but just so we have this head issue settled.
mista_200, look up the term "frigid" in a medical dictionary; you're clearly completely confused as to what it means. frigid women do not have sex, they do not give head. also, i thought you should know, since clearly no one told you... women are not sperm receptacles. we are not here to meet your every sexual demand, that's what hookes are for. if you would actually dump a girlfriend over something as simple as her not swallowing, one has to wonder if you've ever had a relationship with emotional attachment or substance, or if you just want some chick to spend her days and nights sucking your cock, swallowing your load, and being a good little bitch. if it's the latter, do all womankind a favor and get a mail-order bride, because no self-respecting woman would be with a man who would actually end a relationship because she doesn't like eating sperm. i do swallow quite often, and i don't mind it at all because i'm in love with my boyfriend and love to please him, but contrary to your belief system, women aren't here to do a job that you can do with a tissue. if you consider not wanting to have a big ball of jizz in your mouth to be "frigid", you're in for a long line of disappointments, because frigidity has fuck-all to do with swalowing, and some of the most sexually adventurous and talented women just happen to not like eating semen, not to mention some of the prettiest, smartest, kindest, funniest women -- are they frigid and disposable because they're not your personal reproductive garbage disposal, or do you perhaps like a girl to maybe have other sexual talents and a personality?
drug_wench
Bluelight Crew
the one time i tried swallowing i puked it up along with the rolls id dropped, its the texture of it more than the taste
not to be a bitch beamers but have u ever actually TASTED rotting fish? or sucked out a woman wiv a clean muff? i hav tried oral sex wiv a bisexual friend and she tasted vaguely savoury but more like chicken than fish....bland, in the same way semen is but less salty and blobby, more like a creamy soup
also not ALL guys have to have oral sex to be satisfied - my boy prefers a hand-job so i can kiss him all over at the same time, and dont get semen-breath (ugh)
if u HAVE to have oral sex to be satisfied u hav obviously never had a truly adult relationship, where u wud give the world just to make ur partner happy, and u wudnt want to put her thru things u know she doesnt enjoy
i think ur showing ur own immaturity mocking ratherbethewater than shes showing, explaining her opinions and NOT flaming attitudes like urs
sorry i just totally dont see why a snarky post like that helps in any way, evry woman and man have individual opinions worth expressing
not to be a bitch beamers but have u ever actually TASTED rotting fish? or sucked out a woman wiv a clean muff? i hav tried oral sex wiv a bisexual friend and she tasted vaguely savoury but more like chicken than fish....bland, in the same way semen is but less salty and blobby, more like a creamy soup
also not ALL guys have to have oral sex to be satisfied - my boy prefers a hand-job so i can kiss him all over at the same time, and dont get semen-breath (ugh)
if u HAVE to have oral sex to be satisfied u hav obviously never had a truly adult relationship, where u wud give the world just to make ur partner happy, and u wudnt want to put her thru things u know she doesnt enjoy
i think ur showing ur own immaturity mocking ratherbethewater than shes showing, explaining her opinions and NOT flaming attitudes like urs
sorry i just totally dont see why a snarky post like that helps in any way, evry woman and man have individual opinions worth expressing
ratherbewater
Bluelighter
i thought i already answered this, but yes, i have tasted vaginas. i'm bisexual; i've tasted a fair number, and not one of them smelled nor tasted anything like fish, rotting or otherwise. if the women you take to bed smell like something spilled and rotted in the seafood section of the grocery store, they're obviously not very attentive to things such as cleaning their vaginas. women who actually take care of themselves tend to have either no real odor or taste, or a mild one that is in no way unpleasant. an unpleasant odor or taste could be indicative of a disease, and is definitely indicative of a girl with a dirty twat, but just so you know, lots of girls out there actually DO wash, and i guess since you've had such gross experiences i'll just consider myself lucky to have always gone down on clean girls who didn't smell or taste remotely unpleasant.
continue to make your little attempts at insulting my sex life; i rather enjoy it. you've never met me, you know nothing about me, and when presented with the blunt truth about how much of a prude i'm not, you just circled right back around to the same tired attempt at telling me i don't like giving head (perhaps you'd like to speak with my boyfriend, since apparently me saying I LIKE GIVING HIM HEAD isn't getting through) and that i'm lame in bed (once again, perhaps you'd like some confirmation from someone of your own gender). the funniest part, i think... well, no, the TWO funniest parts are that you and i are complete strangers to one another and yet you just can't stop talking about my sex life without once getting anything right, and the fact that you seem to believe that calling me a prude and informing me what *i* do and do not like to do in bed serves a purpose or bothers me in some way. once again, the only person who has to enjoy me sexually is my boyfriend, so you may continue to call me a prude who hates giving head all you'd like, but at some point i do hope you'll realize the utter stupidity of it all. you know you're just being combative and trying to get under my skin; i know exactly what i do and do not like and do and do not do in bed, so having a total stranger attempt to attack me in that department is preposterous. why do you even care? you've already decided a bunch of things for me, even though i've told you repeatedly that you're incorrect and frankly i think i might know myself just a wee bit better than you do, so why should this conversation continue? what do you hope to achieve by not being able to accept that i do indeed give head, do indeed enjoy doing so, and do indeed have a very satisfying and adventurous sex life? these are facts, and you can choose to fire back at them with oh-so-clever witticisms about how i should just go with the flow, but let's face it -- you're not going to admit that you're wrong even though the subject matter is my life, and i'm not going to tell you that i am in fact a boring prude who doesn't give head, because that would be a lie. unless we can reach some sort of understanding or truce, i don't think there's any need for this to continue; we're just shooting blanks at each other for no good reason. your insults, or attempts at such, are puerile, repetitive and dull; go find someone else to play this little game with, because i've grown weary of talking to someone who can't comprehend sentences like "i like to give head", and i don't really want to talk to someone who apparently shares the belief that women are here solely to service you any way you want. i'd just as soon stay here, in a relationship with a real man who doesn't treat women like blow-up dolls, in a world where the girls i choose to sleep with actually bathe. i'll be 26 in three weeks, since you asked, but unless you're willing to jump up the ladder a few notches to "civil" and maybe even "oh, hey, women are actually people too", i believe we're through here. i'm sorry if anything i've said bothered you, and i'm sorry that you don't believe what i have to say about my sex life in general and giving head specifically. i'm very open about such things and have no problem discussing them, but since it's just too much for you to handle that you're wrong about the sexual practices of a complete stranger, i guess that conversation really has no future. if you would like to speak on more civil terms -- which would include us not insulting each other, you not telling me about my sex life as if you've ever witnessed it, and not speaking about women like we're worthless if we don't meet your every sexual demand -- i'd be more than happy to oblige. otherwise, you go back to making your fish-odored women pleasure you, and i'll stay over here in the real world where strangers don't get to tell you about your own sex life and where i can at least be satisfied knowing that i please the hell out of my boyfriend, and i do it because i want to, not because he "gets me to" -- did i mention that i'm on top quite a bit of the time? not all the time, see, because todd's an active part of our sex life and doesn't expect to just lie around while wife-bot pleases him; see, he prefers to use multiple positions, not treat me like a sperm receptacle, and actually have sex for the purpose of both people experiencing pleasure.
i already said there were no hard feelings; you had to keep going. one final time, let me remind you that you get to be the expert on your sex life and i won't be presumptuous enough to act as though i know anything about it, and i get to be the expert about mine, and no matter how many times you repeat yourself, i'm still correct on all matters involving my own sex life. also, i do give head, i give it well, i give it frequently, and i enjoy it. i do hope that gets through to you, but if it doesn't, that's okay, too; your sense of reality has nothing to do with mine.
i truly mean it; if you would like to stop this petty nonsense -- on both ends; i'm just as much to blame -- let me know. otherwise, i will assume you are through with this conversation, and i'll let you know ahead of time that i had fun taking your bait for a while, but it got old pretty quick, so if you want to send out some more insults, have at it, but don't be disappointed when i don't respond. i'm on this website for several reasons, and not a single one of them involves this kind of juvenile nonsense. i apologize for my part in it. have a good day; under different circumstances it may have been nice meeting you.
continue to make your little attempts at insulting my sex life; i rather enjoy it. you've never met me, you know nothing about me, and when presented with the blunt truth about how much of a prude i'm not, you just circled right back around to the same tired attempt at telling me i don't like giving head (perhaps you'd like to speak with my boyfriend, since apparently me saying I LIKE GIVING HIM HEAD isn't getting through) and that i'm lame in bed (once again, perhaps you'd like some confirmation from someone of your own gender). the funniest part, i think... well, no, the TWO funniest parts are that you and i are complete strangers to one another and yet you just can't stop talking about my sex life without once getting anything right, and the fact that you seem to believe that calling me a prude and informing me what *i* do and do not like to do in bed serves a purpose or bothers me in some way. once again, the only person who has to enjoy me sexually is my boyfriend, so you may continue to call me a prude who hates giving head all you'd like, but at some point i do hope you'll realize the utter stupidity of it all. you know you're just being combative and trying to get under my skin; i know exactly what i do and do not like and do and do not do in bed, so having a total stranger attempt to attack me in that department is preposterous. why do you even care? you've already decided a bunch of things for me, even though i've told you repeatedly that you're incorrect and frankly i think i might know myself just a wee bit better than you do, so why should this conversation continue? what do you hope to achieve by not being able to accept that i do indeed give head, do indeed enjoy doing so, and do indeed have a very satisfying and adventurous sex life? these are facts, and you can choose to fire back at them with oh-so-clever witticisms about how i should just go with the flow, but let's face it -- you're not going to admit that you're wrong even though the subject matter is my life, and i'm not going to tell you that i am in fact a boring prude who doesn't give head, because that would be a lie. unless we can reach some sort of understanding or truce, i don't think there's any need for this to continue; we're just shooting blanks at each other for no good reason. your insults, or attempts at such, are puerile, repetitive and dull; go find someone else to play this little game with, because i've grown weary of talking to someone who can't comprehend sentences like "i like to give head", and i don't really want to talk to someone who apparently shares the belief that women are here solely to service you any way you want. i'd just as soon stay here, in a relationship with a real man who doesn't treat women like blow-up dolls, in a world where the girls i choose to sleep with actually bathe. i'll be 26 in three weeks, since you asked, but unless you're willing to jump up the ladder a few notches to "civil" and maybe even "oh, hey, women are actually people too", i believe we're through here. i'm sorry if anything i've said bothered you, and i'm sorry that you don't believe what i have to say about my sex life in general and giving head specifically. i'm very open about such things and have no problem discussing them, but since it's just too much for you to handle that you're wrong about the sexual practices of a complete stranger, i guess that conversation really has no future. if you would like to speak on more civil terms -- which would include us not insulting each other, you not telling me about my sex life as if you've ever witnessed it, and not speaking about women like we're worthless if we don't meet your every sexual demand -- i'd be more than happy to oblige. otherwise, you go back to making your fish-odored women pleasure you, and i'll stay over here in the real world where strangers don't get to tell you about your own sex life and where i can at least be satisfied knowing that i please the hell out of my boyfriend, and i do it because i want to, not because he "gets me to" -- did i mention that i'm on top quite a bit of the time? not all the time, see, because todd's an active part of our sex life and doesn't expect to just lie around while wife-bot pleases him; see, he prefers to use multiple positions, not treat me like a sperm receptacle, and actually have sex for the purpose of both people experiencing pleasure.
i already said there were no hard feelings; you had to keep going. one final time, let me remind you that you get to be the expert on your sex life and i won't be presumptuous enough to act as though i know anything about it, and i get to be the expert about mine, and no matter how many times you repeat yourself, i'm still correct on all matters involving my own sex life. also, i do give head, i give it well, i give it frequently, and i enjoy it. i do hope that gets through to you, but if it doesn't, that's okay, too; your sense of reality has nothing to do with mine.
i truly mean it; if you would like to stop this petty nonsense -- on both ends; i'm just as much to blame -- let me know. otherwise, i will assume you are through with this conversation, and i'll let you know ahead of time that i had fun taking your bait for a while, but it got old pretty quick, so if you want to send out some more insults, have at it, but don't be disappointed when i don't respond. i'm on this website for several reasons, and not a single one of them involves this kind of juvenile nonsense. i apologize for my part in it. have a good day; under different circumstances it may have been nice meeting you.
drug_wench
Bluelight Crew
well beamers im guessing u mean MY bf is a pussy cos hes not so down wiv oral sex
actually i find it hard to see him as a pussy......he being one of the hardest, toughest men ive met, he is fighting an incurable disease and yet living his life to the max and not being afraid to show his sensitivity
hes also a top successful artist of his genre of music, with a decent brain
i dont see why u get so aggressive and nasty over a personal preference thats shown by another BLer, wiv a diffrent personality and diffrent needs
actually i find it hard to see him as a pussy......he being one of the hardest, toughest men ive met, he is fighting an incurable disease and yet living his life to the max and not being afraid to show his sensitivity
hes also a top successful artist of his genre of music, with a decent brain
i dont see why u get so aggressive and nasty over a personal preference thats shown by another BLer, wiv a diffrent personality and diffrent needs
ratherbewater
Bluelighter
thanks, drug wench, but boys will be boys. let them play.
to the boys, i'm no longer participating in this juvenile little sausage party you're all throwing. if anyone actually has an interest in civil and/or intelligent conversation, by all means let me know; otherwise i am going to assume we are all through with this conversation since i don't feel any further need to justify my comments and things about my sex life; i'm sorry i got sucked into it in the first place.
i apologize for my part in acting childish and for any insults i've slung. i also would like to once more make it clear that you're welcome to insult your notion of my sex life until you're blue in the face; it doesn't change the fact that i'm the only one here who has any authority on the matter, and you're giving todd and i something to smile at. i'd also like to point out that whatever i do in bed really shouldn't matter to you; your sex lives don't matter to me, nor do i presume to tell you how you behave in them.
your comments have been steadily getting more and more absurd and i do apologize if you intended for them to bother me or todd in some way. once again, i got myself into this utterly ridiculous "conversation", and that's my fault. i shouldn't have kept it going; i'm sorry to anyone whom i've insulted, and i am now going to see my way out of this nonsense. once again, anyone who wishes to speak civilly and maturely is more than welcome to reply or PM me, but i will not reply to any more of this tripe. "your boyfriend sounds like a pussy"? that's a stinger! you sure told him! "lesbo"? i'm sorry, are you in junior high, because using that term over the age of thirteen is just embarrassing, and was that supposed to be an insult? i fuck chicks, we've covered that, but just so we're all clear on definitions, i'm bisexual. i could never be 100% lesbian because i enjoy sex with men too much, but then i must be making that up since i'm frigid. silly me!
okay, boys. go out to the playground for recess and if you would like to call a truce and act like grownups, you know where to find me. i'm honestly sorry that your perceptions of me are so completely off-base, and i suppose i worded things in a way that made me sound quite different than i actually am. i did not come to this site to have other people tell me about my life; i came here because this site is a wealth of information and i am interested in learning things and meeting interesting people outside of conversations about my alleged frigidity. again, i sincerely apologize again for anything i said that bothered anyone, and i hope you guys can be adult about this and we can all talk like normal people, but something tells me you guys aren't going to back down, accept my apologies, and move on, so just in case we don't run into each other again, i hope you both have a great day.
to the boys, i'm no longer participating in this juvenile little sausage party you're all throwing. if anyone actually has an interest in civil and/or intelligent conversation, by all means let me know; otherwise i am going to assume we are all through with this conversation since i don't feel any further need to justify my comments and things about my sex life; i'm sorry i got sucked into it in the first place.
i apologize for my part in acting childish and for any insults i've slung. i also would like to once more make it clear that you're welcome to insult your notion of my sex life until you're blue in the face; it doesn't change the fact that i'm the only one here who has any authority on the matter, and you're giving todd and i something to smile at. i'd also like to point out that whatever i do in bed really shouldn't matter to you; your sex lives don't matter to me, nor do i presume to tell you how you behave in them.
your comments have been steadily getting more and more absurd and i do apologize if you intended for them to bother me or todd in some way. once again, i got myself into this utterly ridiculous "conversation", and that's my fault. i shouldn't have kept it going; i'm sorry to anyone whom i've insulted, and i am now going to see my way out of this nonsense. once again, anyone who wishes to speak civilly and maturely is more than welcome to reply or PM me, but i will not reply to any more of this tripe. "your boyfriend sounds like a pussy"? that's a stinger! you sure told him! "lesbo"? i'm sorry, are you in junior high, because using that term over the age of thirteen is just embarrassing, and was that supposed to be an insult? i fuck chicks, we've covered that, but just so we're all clear on definitions, i'm bisexual. i could never be 100% lesbian because i enjoy sex with men too much, but then i must be making that up since i'm frigid. silly me!
okay, boys. go out to the playground for recess and if you would like to call a truce and act like grownups, you know where to find me. i'm honestly sorry that your perceptions of me are so completely off-base, and i suppose i worded things in a way that made me sound quite different than i actually am. i did not come to this site to have other people tell me about my life; i came here because this site is a wealth of information and i am interested in learning things and meeting interesting people outside of conversations about my alleged frigidity. again, i sincerely apologize again for anything i said that bothered anyone, and i hope you guys can be adult about this and we can all talk like normal people, but something tells me you guys aren't going to back down, accept my apologies, and move on, so just in case we don't run into each other again, i hope you both have a great day.
ratherbewater
Bluelighter
greenfalcon, please see my above post. i'm not going to answer your ridiculous question, both because of its sheer absurdity and because i don't respond well to men who think they can bark demands at me and get their way. again, that's what hookers are for. i came to this site for intelligent conversation; i've apologized, i've offered the proverbial olive branch. now it's up to you all if you want to continue this nonsense amongst yourselves, or just let it rest and we can all be civilized adults. i've already done my part; the ball is in your court, gentlemen.
drug wench, thanks for sticking up for me, but i was the idiot who let myself get dragged into this vortex of stupidity. feel free to PM me anytime.
drug wench, thanks for sticking up for me, but i was the idiot who let myself get dragged into this vortex of stupidity. feel free to PM me anytime.