I searched but did not find anything like this; I suppose because there are not a lot of us.
My youngest child is 26. She spent the last two years with a boyfriend who does not believe in marijuana at all. She eventually cut me out of her life, blocked me from her FB, etc.
He dumped her a few days ago for a new girl. My daughter came home heartbroken, wanting me to "mommy" her I guess.
I wasn't feeling it. She let him convince her that I was a horrible person because I smoked weed. She moved out with him and I've barely seen her. When I have seen her it has been strained.
Do those of you with adult kids have them passing judgements on you?
I didn't respond to her broken heart. I didn't respond to her at all... I feel a lot of anger. My other three adult children are now giving me their opinions about how I'm being a bitch.
I am staying with my sister for a few days to get away from the whole family. My daughter who is pregnant is unhappy about the whole thing and they are moving out, so I won't get to have my new baby grandson come home to my house after he is born, even though they just finished the nursery, because antipot daughter needs her room back.
Pregnant daughter and her husband and I have all been getting along great up until now, smoking together until recently because my pregnant daughter doesn't want her son to be born with thc in his system. Oldest son and his wife have been enjoying cannabis edibles lately. I can't even get high because of drug testing. Antipot daughter got dumped, and I'm stuck on the fact that she's treated me like shit this last year.
I feel like a bad mom for not comforting her when she asked me to comfort her. I said "Welcome to the real world, where people that you shit on over and over eventually don't really care about you anymore."
I'm a horrible person, right? I know. I did and said what was in my heart though.
Has anyone else had antidrug adult kids move out because your weed smoke was evil only to have them come home crying a year or some time later when antidrug lover dumps them for someone else?
I know how I feel. I'm still hurt and I'm still pissed and I don't like the way she let this dude convince her I was just the WORST because of the weed and how I share the enjoyment of cannabis with my other kids. I don't like the way my other kids don't understand why I'm not just over it instantly. I feel bad for feeling the way I do but I'm not happy she's home. All of a sudden its like a tornado hit... other kids and dad rallied around her... and I didn't.
How should I act?
How do I change the way I feel? Yes we tried talking... it went really bad. That's why I'm at my sisters, and my kids and my husband are at my house, all mad at me.
I don't have a job yet so I'm stuck. I have to go home sometime. I'm pretty confused. Is anyone here relating to this at all?
My youngest child is 26. She spent the last two years with a boyfriend who does not believe in marijuana at all. She eventually cut me out of her life, blocked me from her FB, etc.
He dumped her a few days ago for a new girl. My daughter came home heartbroken, wanting me to "mommy" her I guess.
I wasn't feeling it. She let him convince her that I was a horrible person because I smoked weed. She moved out with him and I've barely seen her. When I have seen her it has been strained.
Do those of you with adult kids have them passing judgements on you?
I didn't respond to her broken heart. I didn't respond to her at all... I feel a lot of anger. My other three adult children are now giving me their opinions about how I'm being a bitch.
I am staying with my sister for a few days to get away from the whole family. My daughter who is pregnant is unhappy about the whole thing and they are moving out, so I won't get to have my new baby grandson come home to my house after he is born, even though they just finished the nursery, because antipot daughter needs her room back.
Pregnant daughter and her husband and I have all been getting along great up until now, smoking together until recently because my pregnant daughter doesn't want her son to be born with thc in his system. Oldest son and his wife have been enjoying cannabis edibles lately. I can't even get high because of drug testing. Antipot daughter got dumped, and I'm stuck on the fact that she's treated me like shit this last year.
I feel like a bad mom for not comforting her when she asked me to comfort her. I said "Welcome to the real world, where people that you shit on over and over eventually don't really care about you anymore."
I'm a horrible person, right? I know. I did and said what was in my heart though.
Has anyone else had antidrug adult kids move out because your weed smoke was evil only to have them come home crying a year or some time later when antidrug lover dumps them for someone else?
I know how I feel. I'm still hurt and I'm still pissed and I don't like the way she let this dude convince her I was just the WORST because of the weed and how I share the enjoyment of cannabis with my other kids. I don't like the way my other kids don't understand why I'm not just over it instantly. I feel bad for feeling the way I do but I'm not happy she's home. All of a sudden its like a tornado hit... other kids and dad rallied around her... and I didn't.
How should I act?
How do I change the way I feel? Yes we tried talking... it went really bad. That's why I'm at my sisters, and my kids and my husband are at my house, all mad at me.
I don't have a job yet so I'm stuck. I have to go home sometime. I'm pretty confused. Is anyone here relating to this at all?