She could still totally tear me up. I'm not exactly a planner past the first two moves; plans are always frustrating because people figure them out and screw them up. It's better to play in a seemingly irrational manner because then the other person can't read you. Different situation at an irl chess tournament though. The other person can see you sweat and think. And no matter how good you are, if you play the same person over and over again they will beat you within the first ten games because they catch on to your psychology.