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cheez_ballz

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low life scum bag, i been through 6 tears of hell and misery living with a bitch with bipolar disorder:X

you wasted my life you bitch!!!!


i want to vomit at the thought of you!

you and your mother same chemistry!

i wouldnt piss on you if you were on fire!


she sucked me in at a young age, now that im over 30 i realize that i was abused for years by her and her physco mother8(
 
Hey buddy,

We'd be glad to help you, but we need a question here. What are you all bent about, and how do you want us to help you fix it?
 
thank you. but i lost alot of time with her and her mom, piece of shit people. makes me vomit at their thought.

my mind has been through hell...

do i need a psyc doc or time to heal?
 
^My guess is time to heal. I've been around mentally unstable people (I have a bunch in my family) and yep, it rubbed off over time. Bipolars are really tough to understand. They act out in all sorts of ways that non-bipolars don't get.

What I can discern from this question is that you're frustrated at someone you used to be (or are currently?) involved with and you're also pissed at her mother who you perceive as having similar problems.

I can only speak from experience in that my relationship with my S/O is a lot better the less contact I have with my crazy family. When I'm around them a lot, I start to get a little crazy too. Luckily I recognized this before it did any permanent damage to my relationship.

My best advice is to keep far away from anyone that you feel abuses you in any way. There are healthy people out there with whom you can form a healthy relationship, and you're much better off being away from anyone who hurts you.
 
Keep far far away from them. You're only thirty! Go out and get some! haha in all seriousness youre still young... Hope you get better with it.
 
Thanks all of you for marginalizing me and everyone like me. I hope you all rot.

BIPOLAR != WORTHLESS

P.S. There are those of us who don't take it out on other people. People who do that are called manipulative, and they are not all bipolar.
 
kitty I should have said keep far away from that one, she does seem manipulative and anyone who hurt you that much, you don't need in your life.

I hope I didnt offend anyone with what I said I meant it simply for the OP's sake, that he was in a bad situation and needed to get out of it.
 
Hi. I feel your pain. I was in a very similar situation and now that I am out of it I'm weary of new relationships. All that anger for "wasting" so much time with someone like that is natural, and I felt it and still feel it sometimes. The trick I learned is to just focus on the newly found feeling of freedom. You may have been in a bad, manipulative relationship for what you feel is much of your adult life, but now that you are still young and single, you will be able to make decisions based on past mistakes and hopefully live a much happier, more stable life.
 
I know people with bipolar with such good hearts. They cant help what they do sometimes. It makes me sad that people have this automatic impression of people with bipolar. Its fair enough to say this girl was a bitch, thats fine. But why is everyone generalising and dissing all bipolar sufferers? :(
 
People go by what they know I guess, seems like most of these people have had pretty bad experiences.

I think KITD made a good point, that manipulative people are manipulative people, bipolar or not. I'm sure it doesn't help any though :(
 
kittyinthedark said:
Thanks all of you for marginalizing me and everyone like me. I hope you all rot.

BIPOLAR != WORTHLESS

P.S. There are those of us who don't take it out on other people. People who do that are called manipulative, and they are not all bipolar.
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my thoughts exactly :(
 
kittyinthedark said:
Thanks all of you for marginalizing me and everyone like me. I hope you all rot.

BIPOLAR != WORTHLESS

P.S. There are those of us who don't take it out on other people. People who do that are called manipulative, and they are not all bipolar.
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Yep, it's not nice being written off by someone just because they've had a bad experience with a person with the same condition.
 
I personally think alot of people with Bipolar play on their illness quite a fair bit. They use it as a scapegoat for being selfish, and hurful towards others.
A person with Bipolar knows the difference between right and wrong.
I would never, ever dream of turning on someone for no reason whatsoever, and I suffer from depression.
Most people I have met with Bipolar seem to believe the whole world owes them something. Of course, not all Bipolars are like this.
 
yes my point excattly!!!

people with bipolar are mentally LAZY to to think out there actions!! i was close to her for 5 years i know. its easier to sit back and let your mind take control!! thats why im a firm beliver that bipolar sufferer's are mentally lazy to make the right decisions!!

i have ZERO compassion for bipolar sufferer's...as long as you stay 1,000,000 miles away from me and the people i truly care about i dont care what you do about your business,
 
Well you could always give us a list of your physical/psychological maladies and then we'd (the collectively mentally lazy people of BL) would collectively not give a fuck.

A lot of people who suffer never develop an episode of full mania, just hypomanic bouts (to varying degrees) that never involve any of the behaviour you're talking about. That's like saying all people with depression are self-pitying whingers; you might get a few deeply caught up in feeling sorry for themselves to the exclusion of the outside world and they're the ones people tend to remember, but they only make up a very small percentage.
 
^You have zero compassion for thousands of people based on the impression you received from one? Well by that rationale, I should hate all rich people, black people, men named Ethan, and girls named Ashley.

You need to grow up. I'm now 100% certain that a lot of the problems you two faced were YOUR fault.
 
Of course someone with bipolar disorder would lash out at someone with an attitude like yours.
ANYONE, bipolar or not, would lash out at someone with an attitude like yours.
Grow up, open your eyes, and look to yourself.
 
kittyinthedark said:
Thanks all of you for marginalizing me and everyone like me. I hope you all rot.

BIPOLAR != WORTHLESS

P.S. There are those of us who don't take it out on other people. People who do that are called manipulative, and they are not all bipolar.
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Kitty, I completely agree. I think the original poster was venting, though he might well believe it. I can't speak for him.

Bipolar disorder is a recognized diagnosis and manipulative people are that way independent of that diagnosis. Most of the bipolars I know are really high functioning as students or executives. I'm a dysthymic with panic disorder, am I a constant weepy paralyzed brat? Hardly.

A diagnosis of a medical condition is not a definition as to character.

I'm still not sure what the original poster's question was or if I need to tell him to get a journal?
 
Cheez Ballz:

First of all, congrats on winning the race to register that hilarious screen name.

I'm kicking myself for not beating you to the punch.

Second, Michelangelo just called me from the grave:

Apparently, he wants ME to re-paint the Sistine Chapel!

As such, I was wondering if I could borrow that broad brush you've been using.

I figured I would just paint it all black and white instead of taking the time to do the job the right way.
 
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