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Best way to get ahold of someone who didn't give their contact info?

Cohesion

Cohesion

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I want to contact an old hook up but he never gave me his phone number or email. I have both of these things via white pages (no cellphone) & a group email CC list. I think an unexpected email would be more welcomed than showing up randomly at his house. I was in his home yesterday, but it was an anomaly.

Thoughts?
 
I think you should definitely send him an email. Showing up at his house unexpected would definitely not be a great idea, and I think a phone call could potentially get a bit awkward. Email can't really go wrong though :)
 
Pagey: Thanks mama

Lysis: Haha, Are you trolling me? Or giving general information if someone googles this thread?

BlueHues: I was there in odd company, it wouldn't have been appropriate.

J-P: Nice

I'm going to email him. Thanks everyone. Pending success
 
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Haha no not trolling at all. I had to implement accurint's API into a system once and I tell ya if you need to find someone those guys will get his info and his neighbor's and his family's. lol. No joke either. I was surprised at the data they have.
 
Cohesion said:
I want to contact an old hook up but he never gave me his phone number or email. I have both of these things via white pages (no cellphone) & a group email CC list. I think an unexpected email would be more welcomed than showing up randomly at his house. I was in his home yesterday, but it was an anomaly.

Thoughts?
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I'm dying to know why you were in his home.
 
Lol, I too am curious why you were in his home!
But definitely - an email would be best. :)
 
My kid wanted to walk his dog. A mutual friend picked up the dog, and we met him outside the house. Then I locked my keys in the car... so I ended up hanging out in his house for a few hours while I got that figured out. He came home at some point, a nice surprise.

kaywholed - It's a nice thought but this is a hook up/FWB (friend with benefits) not a potential romantic thing. It's important to be clear and direct especially in the beginning :)
 
show up at his house in a robe with lingerie on underneath at night when he's home, ring the bell and as soon as he opens the door, push your way inside, disrobe and start the mad passionate sex. :D
 
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