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Being checked out by a friends lover

T. Calderone said:
If your girlfriend notices her gawking too, it needs to be addressed. She's obviously attracted to you and maybe doesn't even realize that she's staring too much. It's going to be awkward bringing it up to your friend so don't bother. Maybe next time you catch her fixated on your crotch, just say it jokingly "What - do I have a stain? Quit Staring!" Unless she's really thick, she should get the message.
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this. keep it casual. once it is bought to attention publicly it will embarrass her and should make her more self conscious about doing it in future.

...kytnism...:|
 
kytnism said:
this. keep it casual. once it is bought to attention publicly it will embarrass her and should make her more self conscious about doing it in future.

...kytnism...:|
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Best answer I would say! :)
 
T. Calderone said:
Maybe next time you catch her fixated on your crotch, just say it jokingly "What - do I have a stain? Quit Staring!" Unless she's really thick, she should get the message.
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only gay will honestly say that

normal healthy men I dont care what modern general public brainwash us with,healthy men just want to make all the fit fertile women pregnant.

again not saying its bad move,but not honest move
 
I don't want to make all the fit fertile women pregnant. Fuck no.

Most fit fertile women (and unfit infertile ones, and men) make me want to fucking merc them. Fuck man, the unwashed masses are revoltingly stupid and shallow. DO NOT WANT.

Fit fertile hot women? Might want to play with them, not get them pregnant. I have zero desire to be a baby daddy. I mean, don't particularly care about banging them in vagoo...BDSM, giving them oral, anal, are more what I want to do in general. Banging in vagoo is def nice too, but mainly what I like about it is that with my S/O she gets off from it really easily and I like getting her off...I don't even usually finish while doing it, i.e. I don't care about maximizing sperm delivered.
 
rangrz said:
I don't want to make all the fit fertile women pregnant. Fuck no.

Most fit fertile women (and unfit infertile ones, and men) make me want to fucking merc them. Fuck man, the unwashed masses are revoltingly stupid and shallow. DO NOT WANT.

Fit fertile hot women? Might want to play with them, not get them pregnant. I have zero desire to be a baby daddy. I mean, don't particularly care about banging them in vagoo...BDSM, giving them oral, anal, are more what I want to do in general. Banging in vagoo is def nice too, but mainly what I like about it is that with my S/O she gets off from it really easily and I like getting her off...I don't even usually finish while doing it, i.e. I don't care about maximizing sperm delivered.
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thing is,you may think that way,but ultimately,when you put your penis inside,you want to spread your dna,you be like nah just wanna have some fun but you cant stop 300.000.000+ years of no mercy evolutionary selection,the instinct dont lie
 
I think you misunderstand evolution, neuro-physiology and psychology of learned behavior vs innate.

Ca'ts normal instinct is not to let a big creature pick it up, squish it and make meowing sounds while the cat just sits there and purrs. It's evolutionary instinct would be to a) not get picked up in the first place. b) if it did, claw your fucking eyes out. But learned behavior and environmental adaption makes it different. shit my females cats *want* me to attend to, see, and play with their kittens! Social behavior in higher mammals can totally over ride base instincts. Humans are the most encephalated and social mammal of all, so no, simple hand wavey pop evolutionary psychology does not really model their behavior well.

Phenotype is a mix of genetics (evolution) and environment (learned stuff)
 
humans are extremely sexual animals. why do you think most cultures put so much violent energy into repressing it? its inconceivable that people who are attracted to each other arent going to look at each other, even if theyre not even fully conscious of doing it. the best thing you can do for the moment is just understand that its biology, accept it, be an adult, and carry on smoking your blunt as though it isnt happening. if it makes you uncomfortable, id wait until ive observed it quite a few times and am 100% certain its happening, and simply mention it, and say whats on the mind. you have a right, if thats the case. else, worrying about it is sort of like putting energy into worry over birds singing in spring.

as for your girlfriend, if you have any sort of agreement to exclusivity with her, by all means calmly reassure her and see how she reacts. if she seems insecure, then find out why.

people put a lot of energy into this thing called "jealousy," and often put very little energy into examining their own insecurities. most people accept a culture with unrealistic expectations for social behavior, and in total ignorance of biology and Nature.

just the same, i dont think there is anything wrong with taking it as a compliment, and returning a smile.
 
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