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Been watched masturbating

It's definitely not on my bucket list, but I'd be interested in watching my boyfriend masturbate at least once. I've actually asked him before if it's something he'd be comfortable with and he said no.
 
Not really interested. I mean, I'm not opposed to it, but it doesn't turn me on.
 
Masturbating with a sexual partner present is awkward ime. I've desperately jerked off in front of multiple women (because they weren't making me cum) and it's never been worth it. The wank once they're gone is much better than doing it in front of them. I'd probably enjoy/get off masturbating for a professional/decent dom, but not with a gf/ladyfriend.
Unless ur asking about voyeurism in which case i'm sure there are lady perverts.
 
Way long ago, my girlfriend (now fiancee) asked to watch me masturbate. Sometimes she wanted me to cum on her, other times she just wanted to watch me get myself off. We haven't done that in a very long time but it could be fun to bring up again!
 
My girlfriend once caught me masturbating to pornography. It was really embarrassing and awkward.

Generally speaking though I feel weird masturbating in front of my girlfriend. Feels a bit selfish like I should be pleasing her instead of myself, unless that is what is pleasing her at the time and in most cases this is not the case.
 
My X used to love to watch me. It was SO awkward at first as that is such a private experience, but she loved watching me. She did it for me all the time too. I lovedddd watching her. It was so... intimate and sexy
 
I've had three partners watch me masturbate haha.

One was a girlfriend when I had moved overseas. We would talk all the time on webcam and it just sort of happened one night where we both did it. However, that's a bit different than in person. She hated the thought of me masturbating when we weren't apart so I would sometimes do it very half-heartedly in the morning before work to compel her to sort me out :\

With the second partner, I was explaining how I masturbate differently depending on what I am imagining. She asked me to show her and I did. However, this was more just a demonstration and quickly escalated into sex because it really turned her on. She then asked me another time to masturbate while she did, but perpendicular to her so I couldn't see her haha.

The third partner was just a real kinky woman who got straight to the point and asked for me to masturbate while she also did. I was taking a lot of benzos at this stage and had broken the taboo with previous partners so it didn't feel awkward.
 
The first time I got watched while I masturbated, I was 30. Last year. My current partner was my audience and because I felt and feel so comfortable and safe with him, I can do it to completion, whenever he asks me to. It's something of a power thing. Control. Confidence. It exudes excitement because you're watching someone take themselves and get what they want, the way they do while they're alone. It's very bonding. And very, very, fucking hot!
 
It doesn't turn me on to be honest, I've watched my current partner plenty of times - I'd prefer to help get him off than to just lay there and watch. IMO it's so much hotter watching another woman masturbate; I'll happily sit in on that anyday - double standards I know ��
 
very awkward. Couldn't even watch her in the eye. We were both masturbating on her bed. Cuz I couldn't cum. Was my first time getting head and first time my foreskin pulled back. My head was too sensitive. I was 16. Yes that's fucked up but I had no idea I was supposed to pull back. It hurt too much. Yes the dick cheese was also outrageous but thankfully I cleaned it before then.
 
It turns me on so much to watch a guy stroke his dick. And I love being watched while I play with myself and use my toy??
 
Cosmic Giraffe said:
My girlfriend once caught me masturbating to pornography. It was really embarrassing and awkward.

Generally speaking though I feel weird masturbating in front of my girlfriend. Feels a bit selfish like I should be pleasing her instead of myself, unless that is what is pleasing her at the time and in most cases this is not the case.
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I feel weird about if was getting caught with porn. But together with her, it´s natural, although not my goal neither hers. But it seems to be okay
 
I have jacked my dick to finish off after the woman was exhausted and to tired and sore to continue to have intercourse.

I don't really see the appeal as a fantasy. I have seen women masturbate just for fun as a bit of foreplay and it was just whatever.
 
I like the whole voyeurism idea i never really masterbate in front of ppl but it is my huge orgasamic fantasy its always me playing and guy or girl gets turned on and does it and me ?
 
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