Norules, just because you did not have the selfcontrol/willpower to control your use does not mean everyone is going to have the same problems as you.
Admittedly, I had some real problems with pot during highschool. It wasn't because I couldn't handle it, it was that I didn't know *how* to handle it and regulate my usage in the first place. If someone like a parent or even a friend had educated me on the subject of proper use, possible drug abuse, and harm reduction I think I would have appreciated it and learned that much needed lesson a long time ago.
I have seen many, many, many potsmokers in my life and basically have seen them break down into two groups.
Group A : People who smoke pot all the time and put the drug in front of commitments. Burnouts.
Group B : People who use responsibly and put the drug use off until AFTER their commitments are completed. Recreational users.
It took me a long time to learn that you don't just fall into one catagory, rather you are put there by whatever problemsolving tools that your life has given you. Over four years of smoking *every single day* before I finally caught on that I was abusing the fuck out of this beautiful plant and that in order to use and still have a good time I would have to *regulate*. Now that I have learned to control my urges and put whats really important in front of getting high I can smoke pot and have a great time without feeling like I am doing something wrong. I'm *not*! No difference between a joint and a beer in my mind.
Just like booze, cannabis can be abused as well and that is the message I think kids need to hear a lot more then just 'Don't do that.' ~ I'd like to hear 'If you are going to use drugs, use responsibly." It's naieve to think they won't expiriment just like we did.
You have to give your children the tools to lead a responsible life and deal with the use of drugs. To do otherwise, to take a 'no tolorance' stance just shows how the perpetuation of stale myths and sometimes stright out lies just reinforces uneducated drug use.