⫸STICKY⫷ Ask Shordie 💕 Sex, Relationships, & Everything In Between

[SoCalShordie]

Ask Shordie: Sex, Relationships & Everything In Between

Hi! If you don’t know me, I’m Shordie.

I spent about 10 years of my life working as an exotic dancer and award-winning adult film actress, so I’ve had quite a bit of firsthand experience when it comes to sex, relationships, human behavior, and the wonderfully complicated things people do to each other.

So I figured… why not put that experience to use?

Have a question about sex? Ask me. Wondering if something is normal? Let’s talk about it. Need relationship advice? I got you. Can’t tell if she’s genuinely interested or just being friendly? Wondering if he’s playing you? Trying to decode some confusing bedroom situation?

Drop your questions here.

No judgment, no shame, and no such thing as a “stupid question.” I’ll answer from my own experience and perspective, and hopefully we can have some good conversations along the way.

Alright, Bluelight… what’ve you got?

 

[Robi]

Ive gone from sex 20 times a month to about 4 ,I rarely drink or use drugs anymore but do you think libido pills for women would enhance my sex life? Do you know anything about them?Surely you have met women in the industry that struggled.Any tips for helping me be the horn dog I once was?

 

[SoCalShordie]

Ive gone from sex 20 times a month to about 4 ,I rarely drink or use drugs anymore but do you think libido pills for women would enhance my sex life? Do you know anything about them?Surely you have met women in the industry that struggled.Any tips for helping me be the horn dog I once was?

Thanks for asking the first question! ❤
Honestly, I don’t know shit about libido pills for women Men? Yes. Women? I’m not gonna sit here and fake the funk. What I do know from personal experience is that exercise can seriously boost your libido. Get your body moving, get that blood flowing, and you’d be surprised what it does. Something as simple as taking a walk every day can help big time. And drink your damn water! lol. I know it sounds boring, but it really does help. If your libido has suddenly disappeared, I’d look at the bigger picture too. Stress, exhaustion, hormones, medications, birth control, postpartum changes, etc. can all mess with it. So before you go buying some mystery “horny pill” off the internet, figure out what’s actually going on with your body first lol

 

[Robi]

Thanks for asking the first question! ❤
Honestly, I don’t know shit about libido pills for women Men? Yes. Women? I’m not gonna sit here and fake the funk. What I do know from personal experience is that exercise can seriously boost your libido. Get your body moving, get that blood flowing, and you’d be surprised what it does. Something as simple as taking a walk every day can help big time. And drink your damn water! lol. I know it sounds boring, but it really does help. If your libido has suddenly disappeared, I’d look at the bigger picture too. Stress, exhaustion, hormones, medications, birth control, postpartum changes, etc. can all mess with it. So before you go buying some mystery “horny pill” off the internet, figure out what’s actually going on with your body first lol

I'm a health nut,active,hydrated...but yes exhaution and hormonal issues.No horny pills for me.I knew you wouldn't blow smoke up my ass.Wait that's kinda hot. I'm not dead yet!

 

[Jackstatsslut]

best advice for being quiet during bedroom activities? (Kids awake type quiet)….. I’m very vocal.m, whether it be a constant moans or occasional squeaks when he hits me good unexpectedly….. he’s not a fan of a pillow on my face, apparently he likes seeing my reactions

 

[SoCalShordie]

best advice for being quiet during bedroom activities? (Kids awake type quiet)….. I’m very vocal.m, whether it be a constant moans or occasional squeaks when he hits me good unexpectedly….. he’s not a fan of a pillow on my face, apparently he likes seeing my reactions

My man puts his hand over my mouth, which turns me on like crazy ughhh love that shit

 

[SoCalShordie]

best advice for being quiet during bedroom activities? (Kids awake type quiet)….. I’m very vocal.m, whether it be a constant moans or occasional squeaks when he hits me good unexpectedly….. he’s not a fan of a pillow on my face, apparently he likes seeing my reactions

Maybe, if you’re really adventurous, a barking collar? Could be hot

 

[RedRum OG]

Gags work well

 

[SoCalShordie]

Gags work well

I’ve always preferred being manually restrained. It really tickles my fancy.

 

[RedRum OG]

I’ve always preferred being manually restrained. It really tickles my fancy.

Im glad someone is out there doing it old school. I hate to sound like an old man, but goddamn, kids these days be using their hands for phones during sex, swear to god. Ive never heard of something more depressing.