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Ask an Escort- by XtcgrlATL

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Thanks for your response. It isn't just me that links the correlation between aberrant sexual behavior and daddy issues (remember Psych 101?). In fact I would have been surprised if you had said you had a 'normal' relationship with him.

Again, thanks for your answers.
 
Missykins said:
Briefly, what makes for a really good blow job?
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Lots of tongue action on the shaft in an up and down motion with the occasional flicking on the "frenum" which is right below the bottom of the head. If they're on their knees I usually try and position myself so that my butt is up in the air for a nice view. Maintain a rhythm, go as deep as you can for as long as you can, support the balls, dont be afraid to give them a lick or a suck sometimes, also you can make a little rubbing pressure on the "taint" right below the balls but not quite at the butthole, this will tantalize the prostate a little bit as well as parts of the penis that usually dont get stimulated. Some guys like their buttholes rubbed and teased a bit, some get a little weirded out by it.

Most importantly, look like you're enjoying yourself.
 
BrickHouse said:
Thanks for your response. It isn't just me that links the correlation between aberrant sexual behavior and daddy issues (remember Psych 101?). In fact I would have been surprised if you had said you had a 'normal' relationship with him.
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What I am doing has little to nothing to do with sex on my end and has everything to do with money. It's not like I'm seeking out a father figure or acting out sexually. I just needed money. The only difference daddy could have made was paying my rent and bills and providing enough for luxury stuff till someone decided to hire me.

It's like that old song

"yo love don't pay my bills"

That goes for daddy's love as well.
 
Gottcha. I base my opinions on the exhaustive research that has been done regarding a woman's choice to engage in sex work and the failure at home and subsequent (non)relationship she's had with her father.

Your last post has summed it up rather clearly. Thanks again!
 
What percent of the guys U get go on and on without cumming, are very athletic and have above average c*cks?

Like, how many are kick-ass military men and what do U think of them?

How do U get them to stop?
 
I'd suggest a potential to bias based on the fact that upper class escorts generally do not identify themselves to anyone and are usually good enough to fly under law enforcement radar and thus have no reason to go to court ordered therapy or the like.

It's likely that the vast majority of the subjects of this "exhaustive research" are lower tier sex workers (streetwalkers) who tend to be much more visible and much more overall ghetto and thus even more likely then most girls my age to come from "broken" homes.

But just for shits and giggles I'm going to post on an providers board and see who has a good relationship with daddy and I'll get back here with the results.
 
GoddessLSD-XTC said:
What percent of the guys U get go on and on without cumming, are very athletic and have above average c*cks?

Like, how many are kick-ass military men and what do U think of them?

How do U get them to stop?
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Most of the military guys are down in Ft Benning and I dont travel that far and they usually dont have wheels :)

I have no idea what the percentage of guys that go on and on without getting off would be, Maybe like 2% if that. In general I can count on any given trick taking an average of about half an hour to 45 minutes from Hello to Goodbye.

Young guys are often even quicker. So quick in fact that I usually hold off on making them cum just so that I dont get them off so fast that they're done and leave feeling like they didnt get their moneys worth.

It's good for me to get clear in a short amount of time especially since it seems most guys share the same couple hour window, but the long term strategy is to make happy clients who write good reviews which encourages more clients. since i dont know who's going to write me a review I have to make a good showing as often as possible and this means that you need to not rush people.

Most guys seem to be in'n'out the door in 30 minutes or so feeling completely satisfied. Some guys will go 45 minutes from naked to completion but I consider that a long trick. Rare is the guy that takes an hour to get off.

Sometimes these things go longer then an hour and I usually allow that but if I feel someone is taking advantage of my niceness and just keeps pushing for more time with no intention of tipping me for it then I'll usually put my foot down and say that I've really got things to do.

Luckily I've only had to do that maybe 5 times.
 
So if say a guy got off right quick, paid for an hour. There'd be no problem going at round two?

Also, does it really matter how a guy looks? Ever turn someone down because of looks? (not even sure what can constitute something that bad, but still curious to ask :D )
 
exarkann said:
do you know any male escorts? do they deal primarily with men, or do they get femal clients too. while i dont think that any woman has to pay for sex, i am curious.
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I dont actually know any, I know of them, I suspect that they mostly attract male clients or maybe women that you really really wouldn't want to see.

In my case, a guy doesn't have to be fucked up to come see me, he just has to have a little disposable income, some free time and want totally no strings fun with a good looking younger woman.
 
CloudyHazeD said:
So if say a guy got off right quick, paid for an hour. There'd be no problem going at round two?
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This is usually a courtesy I offer for guys that go off quickly. Though it's on you to actually preform for that round 2 :) Some guys think they can, decide to pop in the first 10 minutes, find that they cant get it back up and lose their interest in continuing. Trying to get two pops can shoot yourself in the foot, seen it happen plenty of times.

Also note how I said it's a courtesy. I think industry standard is that tipping is usually expected if an escort does an extra pop. Some escorts wont allow an extra pop at all.

Also, does it really matter how a guy looks? Ever turn someone down because of looks? (not even sure what can constitute something that bad, but still curious to ask :D )
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Of course it matters, I'm not a robot :) But mostly how someone treats me matters the most. I have a guy who's extremely obese that's a favorite client of mine, always lots of chitchatting and just general conversation, we've gone out for sushi together, that kind of thing.

Mostly I can get a feel for someone over the phone and if I dont like the feel I am getting I tell them I'll get back to them and then I dont and I file their number away in my "do not answer" list in case they call back.

I've never quite turned someone away because of looks, most of the guys that come see me aren't mutants. If someone winds up being gross to me for some reason then it definitely affects my ability to preform so it's not uncommon for me to decide not to see someone again based on looks and personality, but looks alone I can be pretty forgiving with.
 
xtcgrlatl, thank you so much for this thread.

One question that I have is: Have you or would you ever consider seriously dating someone that paid you for sex?
 
Yes, please let me know the results. I'd imagine that some have been sexually abused as a child also - since that's what the science tells us. I don't remember it differentiating between your garden variety streetwalker versus a group or individual that's "high class". Sex for money is sex for money regardless the amount you're paid. The pathology is still the same.

Look forward to your findings!
 
How many men do you see on average per day/week..do you work everyday?

How often do you get tested?

How long do you plan on doing this for? If given the opportunity (a "real" job offer) would you stop?

If/when u have kids will you tell them about this?

Do you have any other "protection" besides your roomate/look-out gir?

I guess thats enough questions for now lol I dabbled a little bit in this line of work, but didn't get too far bc my best friend stopped me-I still call myself a professional though when it comes to sex haha I've always thought about how I would have turned out had I continued through that path. I always knew its not as dangerous as people think it is! But how hard would it be to get out of it?
 
dtugg said:
xtcgrlatl, thank you so much for this thread.

One question that I have is: Have you or would you ever consider seriously dating someone that paid you for sex?
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I never have, and there's no particular reason why I wouldn't consider it if they struck me as dating material.
 
BrickHouse said:
I don't remember it differentiating between your garden variety streetwalker versus a group or individual that's "high class". Sex for money is sex for money regardless the amount you're paid.
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How about sex and "love" in return for financial security held in place by a contract of "marriage"? What are your feelings on women that seek out relationships with men, even to the point of lying to themselves, so they can fit into the idea of what's "normal"? Does daddy's love play into that as well? Is that more acceptable then what I do?
 
I have a quick question, Ms. Prostitute. Do you consider the sex you give mechanical or cold at all, considering the fact that you're doing it for money, not purely out of horniness or affection? I'm guessing you don't, since you said "sex and 'love'" as if love was a vague, undefineable by-product of sex. I mean, I'm not even disagreeing if that's what you think, but it seems a bit far-fetched to apply that to the scope of human experience. I can't see how someone can get their full dose of sex'n'love just from a hooker, is what I'm saying. You can't boggle down the ritual of sex to a commodity. even though it is, and will continue to be.
i dunno, maybe I lack the experience to say or ask anything clear on the issue.
 
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