GillyWin
Bluelighter
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- Dec 4, 2002
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Argueing with people
I don't usually argue that much with people .. but I'm not an all agreeing saint. If i have something to say, and my point is valid i will say it. Usually i only say things that I'm fairly sure about, i don't like being wrong.
Obviously you can notice patterns in times when you may be more prone to argue with people, and what the arguements may be about. Obviously what you see as an arguement .. may only be a disscusion to others involved.
What was your most recent arguement?
Did you win?
Any tactics you'd like to share?
I generally like to let the other person know that i am very knowledgable on what I'm argueing about and that their persisting arguement will be fought against. Scare tactics perhaps?
I like doing the best i can to make people see my point, while letting them know first off that i understand completely the point they are making.
I don't usually argue that much with people .. but I'm not an all agreeing saint. If i have something to say, and my point is valid i will say it. Usually i only say things that I'm fairly sure about, i don't like being wrong.
Obviously you can notice patterns in times when you may be more prone to argue with people, and what the arguements may be about. Obviously what you see as an arguement .. may only be a disscusion to others involved.
What was your most recent arguement?
Did you win?
Any tactics you'd like to share?
I generally like to let the other person know that i am very knowledgable on what I'm argueing about and that their persisting arguement will be fought against. Scare tactics perhaps?
I like doing the best i can to make people see my point, while letting them know first off that i understand completely the point they are making.