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Are you into anything 'freaky'?

Viṣakaṇṭha;12109280 said:
:D Well, I've yet to try to engage in that particular act pushed to such an extreme...but I have noticed I enjoy sexual activity much more with a loaded gun in the bed. I remember hearing a mate of William Burroughs mention something similar. Generally a heightened sense of danger or physicality will enhance the eroticism of the experience for me.
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Yeah... we've had it in the bed as well...done some things most people would see as pretty edgy. I've had it held to my head loaded with a round chambered. But the person I did this with is an ex Marine - if I can't trust him to know how to handle his gun safely, who can I trust? :)

I like knifeplay too. & there's nothing wrong with rapeplay, IMO, as long as things are discussed a bit before hand and everyone is on board with what's happening. I also feel like no matter how long you've been together/know eachother/how in love you are, a safeword is a good idea during rape play... but I know not everyone likes to use one. I like rape play too, although I don't really think of it in those terms since I want everything that's happening to me. It's probably more accurate to call what I like "extreme force play". Having my hair pulled, slammed up against the wall, handcuffed maybe, shoved onto the bed, told "I'm going to fuck you now, and if you resist it's going to go badly for you. You're in enough trouble as it is. Take this cock like a good slut & maybe I'll let you live". Delivered in a tone that makes me think he might actually... would he? No, of course not, I'm perfectly safe with him, we're just playing.

I think. :)

*disclaimer - never do anything bdsm-ish with someone you don't actually feel safe with. It's a strange paradox sometimes being a sub, because if I'm not a little afraid of my Dom, the scene doesn't really work for me... but if I feel actually ::unsafe:: then I don't want to play at all. It's a fine line for a Dom to walk, too.
 
Mr.Scagnattie said:
My girlfriend and I have been messing around lately with rape type role playing.. We're not sure if it's fucked up that we both get really horny from it. Hah.
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Who rapes who in the simulation? I assume it's you overpowering her. You should let her switch the situation on you.

I must say...I recently was pointed to these camera sites where people strip and whatnot for bitcoins. It's absolutely fascinating that such sites exist. But as an addict, I'm able to watch these sites and instantly know when a girl is doing it for drug money. I can just tell based on her completion, eyes, etc. And there's something extremely erotic about inferring that a pretty girl on the site is just doing it for drug money, and does not have the courage to strip, but is pushing herself to do this because "it's just online." Now OF COURSE this makes me feel like a terrible person and I wish that I could flip a switch in my brain and not be attracted to this at all because I know how things get near the bottom and I know it's very wrong to get turned on over power like that. I am ashamed of myself for this. But at the same time, there's just something extremely erotic about it.

And yes, if I could get a girl to simulate a scenario where she's doing something she doesn't really want to do for drug money...I'd be afraid to try it because I'd probably get off on it. Again, a SIMULATED experience. And maybe it's a way to come to peace with some of the darker times of my own addiction (never done that, but have been around those women). Perhaps this is similar to roleplaying the rapes.

plmar said:
Anything BDSM related is a turn on for me, but mostly depends on the mood i'm in.
One day I might fap to some hardcore shit like breath play or over-the-top bondage the next day I might be all for the soft stuff :);)
just putting that out there for you all to read and interpretate
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The best BSDM is when they combine the soft and loving with the cruel and perverse. Any time you have something alternating between two extremes, it really comes into its own. So when you take people showing up in proper clothing, talking with the finest English of high society and being all lofty about pushing human love and lust to the extreme, and then getting down to the action, and then reversing the situation back to elegance and dignity, it's incredible. The best BDSM is when nobody talks about the actual actions and it truly does feel like a fantasy state...like a beautiful sunset fading to the darkness of night, followed by a beautiful sunrise...you escape your life into it, and then return to live and everyone lives on with this unspoken understanding that you're milking sex for much more than most normal people are. It's the ultimate liberation.
 
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the first page of this thread made me lmao. fetus juice fetish? i'm appalled. I have a non deviant fetish for mutual masturbation and voyeur masturbation. would love nothing more than to walk in/spy on my roommate fingering herself.
 
I'd like to see more adult content that pushes mental boundaries, such as hypnosis and orgasm control. I haven't tried anything like this, it's always intrigued me. Others can have the blood and guts and guns, I want a good hard mindfucking.
 
There are plenty of hypnosis videos, as well as POV instructions in which you're only allowed to cum with permission and if you don't cum when you're told you get a punishment and have to wait for your dom to allow you again.
The mindfucking is out there, you just need to get it.
(PS ime hypnosis in any form is utter bullshit)
 
^ :D I never knew really what to call it. It's something I've fantasized about as long as I can remember, generally as the "sub" but occasionally as the "domme". I've also had thoughts about being observed in a very clinical setting (think the Kinsey experiments or similar). I doubt I'll ever be able to safely and sanely do anything about it IRL.

A lot of people think hypnosis is bullshit. It really depends on the person and the situation, and should not be done outside of a therapeutic relationship.
 
Maybe she was thinking she'd be blindfolded and have a variety of genders go to town on her?
That'd be cool
 
Footjob lmaooo if a women has sexy feet oh my GOD.. that turns me on and of course she's gotta have a beautiful face and cute personality but her feet have to be cute!
 
To the OP, I've had something of an abortion fetish myself recently, thought not about bathing or eating the fetuses, but something along the lines of like incest abortion. My wife and I have just begun toying with the idea, like a role-play with a son getting his mom pregnant and she's going to have an abortion because she doesn't want the retarded baby growing inside her, with different angles being used in the role-play such as the mother wanting and begging to get knocked up by her son just so she can have an abortion, or the opposite where she does not wish to get pregnant and will have to get an abortion. We've only just recently begun playing with this fetish and admittedly has been getting both of us pretty turned on, and I myself, have actually been looking for something of this "fetish" in porn (though obviously it won't be all that mainstream) about this stuff and haven't had much luck. I confess that we both feel a little "off" by liking this type of role-play but we do also understand that it's us being with each other and trusting one another, and just enjoying some role-play in the bedroom. It really does get us turned on since we started exploring it I have to say, and we are really enjoying ourselves.
 
For those who want to read some deranged shit... read the first page of this 3+ year old thread....

What I thought was freaking: I have a friend, she has a fun fetish of of shoving her fist up guy's ass. Not mine, but others.

I like her.
 
RedLeader said:
Who rapes who in the simulation? I assume it's you overpowering her. You should let her switch the situation on you.

I must say...I recently was pointed to these camera sites where people strip and whatnot for bitcoins. It's absolutely fascinating that such sites exist. But as an addict, I'm able to watch these sites and instantly know when a girl is doing it for drug money. I can just tell based on her completion, eyes, etc. And there's something extremely erotic about inferring that a pretty girl on the site is just doing it for drug money, and does not have the courage to strip, but is pushing herself to do this because "it's just online." Now OF COURSE this makes me feel like a terrible person and I wish that I could flip a switch in my brain and not be attracted to this at all because I know how things get near the bottom and I know it's very wrong to get turned on over power like that. I am ashamed of myself for this. But at the same time, there's just something extremely erotic about it.

And yes, if I could get a girl to simulate a scenario where she's doing something she doesn't really want to do for drug money...I'd be afraid to try it because I'd probably get off on it. Again, a SIMULATED experience. And maybe it's a way to come to peace with some of the darker times of my own addiction (never done that, but have been around those women). Perhaps this is similar to roleplaying the rapes.



The best BSDM is when they combine the soft and loving with the cruel and perverse. Any time you have something alternating between two extremes, it really comes into its own. So when you take people showing up in proper clothing, talking with the finest English of high society and being all lofty about pushing human love and lust to the extreme, and then getting down to the action, and then reversing the situation back to elegance and dignity, it's incredible. The best BDSM is when nobody talks about the actual actions and it truly does feel like a fantasy state...like a beautiful sunset fading to the darkness of night, followed by a beautiful sunrise...you escape your life into it, and then return to live and everyone lives on with this unspoken understanding that you're milking sex for much more than most normal people are. It's the ultimate liberation.
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I like this. I feel this.
 
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