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are you happy with your genitals?? HONESTLY

Are you happy with your genitals?

  • Yes

    Votes: 189 70.8%

  • No

    Votes: 26 9.7%

  • I am undecided

    Votes: 23 8.6%

  • I would like to have my genitals altered in some way

    Votes: 29 10.9%
  • Total voters
    267
  • Poll closed .
nofx1422 said:
I feel for you man, I have a small cock.... But Ive never been laughed at because of it (at least not to my face). It definately stops me having casual sex due to embarrassment though.

Ive never had complaints from any female Ive been in a relationship with, Im currently with a girl 7 years older than me (Im 23). Shes got 3 kids too (although I dont actually know how much difference that makes below)..
For guys with small cocks, it sucks, but you can pleasure women in more ways than one! And theres a BIG difference between having sex, and making love

Its not the wand, but the magician behind it ;)

No, Im not happy with my genitals, but they do the job
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tbh, for me it's not the embarrassment. I don't think people should be embarrassed about qualities that they were born with since they have no control over those things. The problem is that my rate of success is rather low as a result of my shortcoming, and sometimes I just feel like I shouldn't even bother as a result of that. It takes a certain amount of effort to hit it off with a girl, and a lot more before she willingly steps into your room and takes her clothes off. When your rate of success plummets after the pants come off, you start to ask yourself, "Is it really worth all the effort only to have her likely reject you before anything serious starts?"
 
but honestly, if you get a girl naked in a room and wanting to get sex, does it really make a huge difference?

I asked a lot of girls this, and they all agreed that unless it was like 3 inches long hard and really small they wouldn't be put off. So what, you may not have a huge 10 inch cock. BUT, neither do most people. Turning girls on is more about how you act than your cock. Most of the time, they have NO IDEA how big you are before you get naked the first time together.

just an observation
 
Chaos23 said:
but honestly, if you get a girl naked in a room and wanting to get sex, does it really make a huge difference?

I asked a lot of girls this, and they all agreed that unless it was like 3 inches long hard and really small they wouldn't be put off. So what, you may not have a huge 10 inch cock. BUT, neither do most people. Turning girls on is more about how you act than your cock. Most of the time, they have NO IDEA how big you are before you get naked the first time together.

just an observation
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You're more than likely correct, but I wasn't disputing the point you're trying to make. Did you read my original post?
 
Nibblez you have managed to find and get naked with some truly evil women. I can't imagine being so ill mannered and so crass towards someone offering me his cawk for my pleasure. No matter how big it was, when I was still sexually active, if I got some, I was good to go. I never met a dick I didn't like. I've never had a bad orgasm. If a girl got naked with you then put her clothes back on and walked out, that girl has no concept of reality and no common sense.

Besides that, I loved giving blow jobs. A smaller dick is much easier to suck down into the back of throat and much easier to massage with my tongue while I'm sucking. There's nothing that compares to having the dick bust in my mouth, poppin with bursts of cum. yea boooyyyyy. That was my shit right there.

So don't feel bad about the size of your dick. You are dating the wrong chicks. Stop. That is your actual problem. Not the cawk.
 
Chaos23 said:
but honestly, if you get a girl naked in a room and wanting to get sex, does it really make a huge difference?

I asked a lot of girls this, and they all agreed that unless it was like 3 inches long hard and really small they wouldn't be put off. So what, you may not have a huge 10 inch cock. BUT, neither do most people. Turning girls on is more about how you act than your cock. Most of the time, they have NO IDEA how big you are before you get naked the first time together.

just an observation
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hah! ^
thats the truth.
surprises surprises!
:-X

okay then, how do you act?!?

<3
;)
 
Nibblez - just over 5"?? WHat are you worrying about?? THat's PLENTY!! If it's thin, then use it to dip dip dip - in a curling upward motion when you thrust up into her. Win whatever size you are (I'm sure less than 3 could be a problem though) - plenty though - if it doesn't pop out as soon as you thrust it's not too small braaaaaaaaaaah
 
Interesting thread.

Im a guy and pretty happy with how I was made. I used to think I was smaller than average, but Im definately a "grower" not a "shower" and have been told by many different girls that I have a very girthy member, but I think it's either exactly or slightly shorter than average. I've had a couple of girls who have struggled with the girth, a few who have literally gushed with compliments, and no one ever complain, so all in all Im pretty happy.

The more people I've had sex with the less and less important I think it is anyway. Im about average and so long as a guys cock isn't so big its painful or so small its a mere tickle I think other factors are far more important to good sex than a guys size anyway. The best sex I've had is always about the build up to it, not just foreplay, the whole either date or night out if its a one night stand. Im confident that when it comes to the actual sex though what I've got is certainly enough to work with!
 
Jblazingphoenix100 said:
Nibblez - just over 5"?? WHat are you worrying about?? THat's PLENTY!! If it's thin, then use it to dip dip dip - in a curling upward motion when you thrust up into her. Win whatever size you are (I'm sure less than 3 could be a problem though) - plenty though - if it doesn't pop out as soon as you thrust it's not too small braaaaaaaaaaah
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.........................................You could write erotic novels imo.
 
Nibblez said:
Not particularly satisfied with my dick, but it's nothing to kill myself over or anything like that. 8)

NSFW:
I have a baby dick. There. I said it. It's just a tad over 5" when fully erect, and it isn't very thick. I've been turned down by many women due to this. I've been dumped because of this. There have been several occasions where everything is going well, I go down on the girl, do foreplay, etc. only to have the situation spiral downward once my pants come off (ex. they see it, laugh, and start putting their clothes back on, etc. not a pleasant experience for sure.) Due to this, I've only had actual penetrative sex twice in my entire life, and one of the times was not particularly enjoyable because she said she couldn't cum because I wasn't big enough. My endurance isn't particularly great either - I lasted about 6 and 7 minutes respectively. Been dry for about a year now, and honestly at this point I've pretty much given up trying to hook up with women (I'm in college, so there's a lot of that going on). I don't think it's really a confidence thing because I am a fairly confident guy. I can close the deal and get them into my room and their clothes off. The problems start once they see my cawk.

Granted, this does suck, but interestingly enough it doesn't really depress me all that much. Perhaps the most disappointing thing about my size is the fact that it usually gets in the way of me pursuing relationships with girls I'm genuinely interested in. Sure, you can say that if they were truly awesome women that this wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but sometimes even great girls will typically choose a guy with a big dick over a guy with a small one, with all other things being equal or similar. Again, this isn't something I'm gonna kill myself over or anything like that. I'm sure I can still lead a pretty enjoyable life by focusing my energies elsewhere. I just wish I had been born with a slightly bigger dick.
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those girls better have the perfect vag / body to have the audacity to do that
 
Id say overall, i hate my cock. i have a very small cock when not hard, and not even thick to make up for it. when i get hard, i get around 5". i have been told honestly by a few chicks that its the smallest theyve seen, but they didnt care. Still were nice enough to go through with it, and i always make them happy anyways, but im sure with a bigger cock, i could feel good about myself and make them even more happy. i also dont jizz much, i let out like a tiny pea size load when i cum, i dont shoot anything out and ive actually had girls dissapointed that theyd didnt get a nice surprise.

i think the only good think about having a small penis are the bjs. girls can usually slurp this whole thing down which feels fuckin AMAZING! =) anyone wanna trade penises?
 
happy is closest but not truth,I dont think like "omg my dick is so nice,it makes me happy!" more like "not too small,not too big,no weird feature,very standart and it works"
 
Overall I guess my situation could be worse but I wouldn't mind some serious re-sculpting.

I'm pretty happy with the size of my penis, it was around 7 inches last time I checked and my girlfriend has never complained about that. I guess the worst part is that it has a tendency to go soft every five minutes until I pull out and vigorously masturbate. I can only imagine how much this has annoyed all of my partners despite their ability to hide it :(. I also can't last AT ALL without a condom, which is absolutely horrendous :X. Without one I cum in 3 minutes but with one I've lasted more than an hour. Nothing makes a valentines day like premature ejaculation.

My left testicle is also about half the size of the right one and doesn't hang down nearly as low, which I should probably go see a doctor about but have avoided thus far. I assume this is part of the reason why I never ejaculate more than a tablespoon and it never goes very far which is a let down and a half. I guess I'd probably be more worried if I didn't have an amazing woman in my life who I'm completely comfortable being naked around.
 
Umm I have some real issues with sex and sexual things so this is a big no.
I wish I could wake up and one day my vagina would not be there...not that I want a penis its just I don't really care to have one.
I'm on the Implanon birth control (before that depo) and haven't had a cycle in years...
No sex drive. I mean, whats the point?

(P.S. Yes, I feel bad for my bf too...
and no, nothing ever "happened to me" that I can remember)
P.P.S. So lets not get on how much I don't like my small boobs either... ;)
 
I'd say I'm average at best, but I've never gotten any complaints, much to the contrary actually.. and I'm not so much worried about my genitals as much as I am about pleasing the other person, and I think that's pretty much in the bag.
 
im not happy with bod, ,, and i dont think i would ever be no matter how much surgery i had , or how perfect my body was....
 
In all honesty, i LOVE my genitals. Yup... love them. They're 'tidy' and i don't have beef curtains what so ever, everything is neat and petite down there and pleasant. I feel privileged in all honesty, after all the porn i have seen i am one of the lucky ones.
 
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