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Are women who speak the "Ghetto" tongue attractive?

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little BIG Pecker

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Okay, I was at the bar the other day and saw a beautiful brunette with gorgeous blue eyes who gave me a pretty smile and kind eye contact (she had to be a 9 on appearance). So, like the gentleman I am, I had to go open her and introduce myself. I just asked her opinion on the band... Anyway, long story short.. She spoke to me, and I heard the dialogue and tone that came out of her mouth.

She spoke like she was raised in the ghetto, but it sounded extremely generic. Her subject verb agreement was totally jacked up, and it seemed like she was trying to appear cool & witty, but she sounded ridiculous. Just the tone of her fake voice made me want to puke. I had to excuse myself.

So, I'm asking all the guys & laddies here...

Anyone hear attracted to the Ghetto "tongue" that hails across the United States of America?

By the way. I watched a whole season of Game of Thrones before I went out that night, and it made hearing her voice that much worse.

I'm sorry if I offended anyone..


I'm little BIG Pecker 8)
 
little BIG Pecker said:
Okay, I was at the bar the other day and saw a beautiful brunette with gorgeous blue eyes who gave me a pretty smile and kind eye contact (she had to be a 9 on appearance). So, like the gentleman I am, I had to go open her and introduce myself. I just asked her opinion on the band... Anyway, long story short.. She spoke to me, and I heard the dialogue and tone that came out of her mouth.
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don't really care one way or another from a "9", but often, in my current rural/suburban locale, it comes along with a total package that includes poor hygiene and an overall trashy appearance.
 
I know exactly what u mean! That 9/10 turned into a 5/10 the second she opened her mouth lol. A lot of the girls I grew up with have the same vocabulary, most do it to fit in or because it makes them feel hip or cool I think. Shit parents have alit to do with it from my experience. When I was still "on the prowl" I was totally disgusted by that ghetto language and I grew up in it and around it. You can tell where a lady has been by the way she talks I think and I don't want to go where she's "been" when I hear ni$$a whaaaa or "my baby daddy", ugggghhhh fuck u and ur kids scumbag father lmfao!!!
 
curiosity said:
i hate it with a passion.
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Cliffy-Yeah people saying the n-word like that is trashy. Friends of mine that are black find it racist, trashy, and disrespectful. No they do not talk in slang like that but just find it annoying. I have a friend that is Mexican who jokingly calls his Anglo/non-Mexican/non-Chicano friends like me terms like cholo, puto/puta, or maricon but it's a joke. Yes I know what those words mean.
 
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In Spanish....talking trashy and backwards is called being *naco*. Just dumb and backwards, peace to all. I can speak the vernacular of the ghetto, had to learn it in Chicago. I speak English well though and teach it to people here in Mexico. I get paid for it sometimes when its not family.
 
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Interesting post. There are many dialects of the female "ghetto" variety of American accents. Some are subtle, which I am indifferent to, some are obnoxious (the stereotypical ghetto accent) which is unattractive to me, especially if laden with randomly placed obscenities. Like someone posted above me, theres usually a "trashy" package that comes along with this particular accent. But then again, one's proclivity to being attracted or unattractive to this is regionally subjective. For example, the same negative connotation, regardless of gender, placed on improper speech is present in German speaking communities, as well as Spanish. I'm not fluent in German, so I could care less if the chick's verb conjugation is proper if shes a "9".
 
I don't need someone to have 100% perfect grammar since I certainly don't but it still has to be pretty good. If someone doesn't speak very intelligent, it's hard for me to be interested in them.
 
llama112 said:
I don't need someone to have 100% perfect grammar since I certainly don't but it still has to be pretty good. If someone doesn't speak very intelligent, it's hard for me to be interested in them.
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For me, it was more of the generic tone of her voice and her trying too hard to sound like something she's not... Then the bad grammar. Yeah, it was all bad lol
 
little BIG Pecker said:
For me, it was more of the generic tone of her voice and her trying too hard to sound like something she's not... Then the bad grammar. Yeah, it was all bad lol
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That makes sense.
I don't completely understand the "ghetto tongue" but the bad grammar is what gets me. People who use slang and basically speak in another language. I'd just prefer someone who speaks well.
 
I am going to guess you meant cussing and shit? I think it's a sign of a personality and a true way to express yourself. Why are words so damn offensive? If they aren't directed at you, then who the fuck cares what is said. Yes, I think a guy or girl who cusses is more interesting, bold, and not afraid to offend anyone. Fuck those who trip on the "ghetto tongue". :p
 
SB1981 said:
I am going to guess you meant cussing and shit? I think it's a sign of a personality and a true way to express yourself. Why are words so damn offensive? If they aren't directed at you, then who the fuck cares what is said. Yes, I think a guy or girl who cusses is more interesting, bold, and not afraid to offend anyone. Fuck those who trip on the "ghetto tongue". :p
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She wasn't cussing
 
Women aren't the only ones who are guilty of the "ghetto tounge". I find it extremely unattractive when I am trying to have a conversation with a man and I have to use urban dictionary to decode what they are saying.
 
SB1981 said:
I am going to guess you meant cussing and shit? I think it's a sign of a personality and a true way to express yourself. Why are words so damn offensive? If they aren't directed at you, then who the fuck cares what is said. Yes, I think a guy or girl who cusses is more interesting, bold, and not afraid to offend anyone. Fuck those who trip on the "ghetto tongue". :p
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Different people like different things.
Personally I dislike it when people swear and stuff. I don't see why there is a need to say offensive things for no reason. I mean, I don't mind swearing on occasion. But when people just slip the f word into a conversation and it doesn't work there, I don't like it. Again though - to each their own!

LilbabiC said:
Women aren't the only ones who are guilty of the "ghetto tounge". I find it extremely unattractive when I am trying to have a conversation with a man and I have to use urban dictionary to decode what they are saying.
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Well yes, it could be male or female, obviously.

pofacedhoe said:
fakeness is always unattractive. it can be tolerated but never enjoyed
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^^^ agreed!!!
 
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