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Anyone quit porn and noticed some benefits?

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I am not faping often.
Just one or twice a week usually on sundays, but then to porn and then maybe few hours.

I was thinking about quitting porn tottally, but then Im not so picky anymore.

Who quited porn and noticed some benefits in life or sex?
 
i went starboard and things have never been better

but yeah when I orgasm to port I notice it makes me a little cold and dissociated
 
I started hating it, more and more, but never tried seriously enough to convince myself that is mental poison so I do use it... regularly, but I think much less than when I was adolescent or in my early 20s...
I noticed that is more shitty each year, more "abusive", more ugly and pervert in a bad way.
It's quite obvious why it's legal...
Probably will end up not using it or using very very sporadically, it's clearly addictive and fucks up your mind.

Sometimes I went more than a week without using, I remember that even once I stayed more than a month, I noticed that I was more motivated, had more drive in general, and specially regarding self-confidence and approaching girls. It's not like I'm not confident or introspective... I'm quite straightforward, but I had the feeling that I had more "manly-ness" so to speak, probably is because of more testosterone production?
I would compare it with how mucuna and ashwagandha make me feel.
 
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Neuroborean said:
I started hating it, more and more, but never tried seriously enough to convince myself that is mental poison so I do use it... regularly, but I think much less than when I was adolescent or in my early 20s...
I noticed that is more shitty each year, more "abusive", more ugly and pervert in a bad way.
It's quite obvious why it's legal...
Probably will end up not using it or using very very sporadically, it's clearly addictive and fucks up your mind.

Sometimes I went more than a week without using, I remember that even once I stayed more than a month, I noticed that I was more motivated, had more drive in general, and specially regarding self-confidence and approaching girls. It's not like I'm not confident or introspective... I'm quite straightforward, but I had the feeling that I had more "manly-ness" so to speak, probably is because of more testosterone production?
I would compare it with how mucuna and ashwagandha make me feel.
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is it really the porn's fault that you watch increasingly disgusting stuff?
 
December Flower said:
is it really the porn's fault that you watch increasingly disgusting stuff?
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No, it's not that, if you watch porn you can notice that the videos that are "recommended" are worse and worse, even if you normally watch "vanilla" stuff,
one "pervert" video is enough (even if you click it without noticing) for them to recommend you that shit or worse everytime, if you want examples you can DM me :ROFLMAO:
 
I don't watch porn and never have. Watching other people having sex doesn't turn me on at all. Having said that, there's inevitably a balance to be struck between alleviating your sex drive healthily and instead becoming dependent on or addicted to the process that gets you there (ie porn, for most people).

Personally, I wouldn't think jacking off once or twice a week to porn would be considered excessive or problematic, and so doubt that stopping it would bring you any noticeable benefits either. OTOH if you do stop completely for a while, you may find yourself having more erotic dreams after a while, which can be an interesting experience if you've not experienced them for a while!
 
CFC said:
I don't watch porn and never have. Watching other people having sex doesn't turn me on at all. Having said that, there's inevitably a balance to be struck between alleviating your sex drive healthily and instead becoming dependent on or addicted to the process that gets you there (ie porn, for most people).

Personally, I wouldn't think jacking off once or twice a week to porn would be considered excessive or problematic, and so doubt that stopping it would bring you any noticeable benefits either. OTOH if you do stop completely for a while, you may find yourself having more erotic dreams after a while, which can be an interesting experience if you've not experienced them for a while!
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I think that's very different in each individual,
I can say of my own case that if I stay even 2 days without masturbating I have erotic or semi-erotic dreams, I think it depends a lot on individual libido. I use kratom so "supposedly" my testosterone should be lower than a non daily user.
 
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