Anyone into S and m?

[1024]

Kinky person over here, even asked someone outside Costa if she was into it, poor etiquette i know. anyone else?

 

[Albion]

I'm into Eminem, and H&M, and M&Ms, but not S&M.

 

[Shambles]

You randomly asked somebody outside a coffeeshop if they were into S&M?!? Blimey. Talk about masochism :D

Other than that, I quite like some of the imagery and ideas but honestly don't think I could take it very seriously in reality. Would be prone to fits of the giggles I suspect. Then again, it's never really come up so who knows what may happen in the future?

 

[RLP]

I'm into SHM. Three inches in.

 

[Shambles]

I suspect RLP's more into other forms of freaky sex...

NSFW:

 

[RLP]

I'm spent.

 

[maxalfie]

Nuts buried deeply eh RLP
Never tried out anything S&M stylee with past lovers as not something I am bothered about trying.
But I do remember as a lad getting turned on by those Real Life detective magazines that usually had a photo or a drawing on the cover of a woman bound up and with a gag or blindfold on.
Don't know why they appealed to me as I've never shown any interest in trying it out.
Different (cane)strokes for different folks I guess.

 

[Ben So Furry]

No mate (OP) it was a crap live album.

 

[fairnymph]

I thought craigslist and S&M forums were where one went to meet like-minded folk...although any online dating site can work too. I can't imagine asking someone out of the blue, and I regularly chat up strangers at the grocery store, etc. But you didnt give us much context, were you involved in a good conversation before you mentioned kink, was she wearing any fetish wear or sporting anything that might hint at being into S&M?

 

[StoneHappyMonday]

I have a friend who called his kids Sadie and Max. Deliberately.

 

[Pagey]

Kinky person over here, even asked someone outside Costa if she was into it, poor etiquette i know. anyone else?

You just randomly asked someone outside Costa that?!
I dunno if I'm horrified or impressed :D

 

[Myshkin]

Kinky person over here, even asked someone outside Costa if she was into it, poor etiquette i know. anyone else?

Outside Costa?

She probably thought you meant sugar and milk.

 

[swampdragon]

You just randomly asked someone outside Costa that?!
I dunno if I'm horrified or impressed :D

I'm impressed, but would have been a bit creeped out if someone randomly asked me that.

I thought most people were secretly into S&M, though. Apparently I stand corrected!

 

[Pagey]

Agreed, I'm surprised at the number of no's in this thread.

 

[Albion]

Is it possibly more of a female turn-on?

 

[Pagey]

Maybe? I dunno, I wouldn't have thought so

 

[jancrow]

Well, 'S&M', and being 'into' it sounds far too organised and po-faced and German. Like almost dying in a dentist's chair with a toilet seat on top of it is a mandatory part of the experience. Smacking a fine round arse is technically S&M but it's probably the end of it which more people can relate to and indeed enjoy... and there's lots in between, obviously.

I guess the question was posed in a fairly off-putting way.

 

[swampdragon]

I guess there's also a distinction between S&M and B&D.. the latter being a bit more appealing.

 

[Shambles]

Apparently I stand corrected!

*titters*

 

[Mailmonkey]

I am, but like jancrow says, not in an organised or group setting, or with anyone else tbh, just me and me wife....

Something about the thread title does make it sound, well, as jancrow said, a bit Eurotrash German Swinger style.