They're around!
I suppose depends what you are after exactly ... i think there's lots of women (me included) who'd "pounce" more often or at least be more likely to initiate sex if it wasn't for the lingering taboo against female sexual aggression. When I used to try to iniate sex with my ex, he'd often reject me, and somehow if you're a woman, getting rejected makes you feel sort of grotesque and ridiculous ... makes you doubt your attractiveness too.
I realise men have got to risk rejection all the time, but it seems like it
might not be quite as embarrassing for a guy ... it's as if getting rejected sometimes is still seen as sort of an "occupational hazard" of being a man rather than something personal?
Course I am 46 so all
of the above might be a bit "old hat" but in my 20s such ideas still seemed to prevail....