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Anyone else horny as fuck all the time?

Last week I met a guy.

He was 25 (I'll be 40 in a couple years)... and had like an 8pk abs. Blonde hair, blue eyes, very tall.
Just the most beautiful guy I have seen in years & years.

And he was into me & wanted to cuddle & got hard almost immediately.
But I couldn't get hard AT ALL. And I don't know why. I think it was a combo of the fact that I was so nervous & couldn't understand how some one so attractive could want ME. I was also pretty sedated on bupe, gaba & bud that afternoon.

I think it's also cause I've done adderall like every weekend for the past 6 weeks, which makes me horny, but then I feel depleted during the week & have no sex drive.
Before my little adderall spat, I could easily get a boner & had a normal sex drive, even on buprenorphine & benzos.

Other than stopping my adderall weekends, anyone got any tips on how to get my blood flow & natural sex drive back during the weekdays? I started taking nitric oxide boosters & L-tyrosine, but I dunno if that's gonna help. I hope I'm not getting like erectile dysfunction or something. I don't think that's what it is cause it feels more mental, like I couldn't focus on sex when I was with the guy & therefore couldn't get horny or in the mood really. Even though he was totally hot & wanting it.

I felt ridiculous not being able to get it up when I had some one so gorgeous on top of me. lol Like wtf.
I must be more attractive than I realize though if I can still pull in guys like that. I always have such low self esteem & think everyone's gonna think I'm ugly. But obviously I turned him on if he got hard within 60 seconds of laying down with me. lol

He doesn't do any drugs, not a meth head (thankfully) and was really chill & kind. Now I have a crush & I don't wanna harass him or scare him off by trying to text or talk to him too much.

Why do hot gay guys do that though? Why do they hook up & then go quiet like this? Any gay guys on here know? lol It's not like he thought I was ugly or anything or he wouldn't have been so into me. But before we hooked up, we'd talk a few times a day at least. And now I barely hear from him.

It usually goes one of two ways.... I meet a person, I'm not attracted to them, but they're attracted to me & then they stalk & harass me every day to hook up.
Or I'll meet a guy & I'll think he's dropdead gorgeous & wanna get to know him & talk & hang out, but he'll go quiet & act weird. I don't get it.
Why can't some one I find attractive start stalking & harassing me instead? lol
 
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I am occasionally, but these women killed my libido today with more of their crap. They're really awkward.
 
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Im probably one of the worst sex addicts I’ve ever met. But I’ve managed to keep it under control and it’s been at least years now since I demoralized myself sexually (i.e just sleeping with somebody I wasn’t even really attracted) but I hope it’s in the stars for me to meet a good submissive girl who’s on the same level and have it stay that way!

One sub I had wrote me a 4 page contract 2 weeks after we met, and tattooed my FULL name on her inner thigh right by her crotch. Really pulled me in.. The first like 6 months together we were both constantly limping from all the sex XD great times. Fast forward a couple years it didnt end well, but I learned a hell of a lot about myself . Sex is god given to us, it’s just up to us how we use it.
 
I get morning wood, but generally find it hard to 'just get' an erection without using Viagra. It wasn't like this when I was in my teens. The problem must have began in my 30s, and persists. But I haven't been tested for diabetes in years.

My dad and sister noticed my skin looks really red these days.

Unfortunately, I think sex workers are inclined to be horrible and this could ruin the moment. If you are more relaxed, it plays a role in arousal.
 
Opposite problem here. Very limited sex drive. I've been this way since my early 20s. Around 21 or so, my libido just fell off a cliff, and while it goes up or down, it has never been on my mind daily since. Most drugs completely kill it, except weed, but weed only seems to increase my libido if I'm already with someone in a sexual context.

I got my hormones checked twice and all that stuff was normal. For a relatively healthy young man, this is abnormal.

On one hand, it's nice to not have that constant urge anymore, but on the other, it can make people think I am not attracted to them, as I don't tend to initiate sex very often.

Maybe god wanted me to become a priest, but I'm not gay enough for that.
 
I'm asexual

In my experience the objectification of sex should have nothing to do with emotions
 
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I wanked to Leo Ahsoka last night. :devilish:

I have to put my money aside for some bullshit this month, so getting pussy and ass has to wait.
 
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