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Any virgins here? when did you lose your viginity?

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when did you lose your viginity?

  • < 13

    Votes: 6 3.6%

  • 14-17

    Votes: 73 44.0%

  • 18-21

    Votes: 66 39.8%

  • 22-25

    Votes: 3 1.8%

  • > 26

    Votes: 2 1.2%

  • still a virgin

    Votes: 16 9.6%
  • Total voters
    166
I lost it at seventeen, I think, and man... at that time, it was the most incredible, unbelievable thirty seconds of my life.
 
^ Lol yeah, I lasted a little longer than that but only by about 4 or 5 minutes though I think haha

I most likely wouldn't have even lasted 30 seconds but I was drunk for only like the third time ever and high on xanax bars, she was drunk too which made the whole session a bit graceless to say the least lol and that's prolly the only reason I wasn't a three pump chump :]

I'll just leave it to your imagination though if you'd like to visualize the image in your head of the sweaty, clumsy, and a bit bloody event of a young inexperienced very drunk virgin attempting the deflowering process upon a young drunk very awkward girl, during a super hot summer night, in a mostly pitch black bedroom with no ac, and on a waterbed without any sheets. I hope, if you wanted, that my description of that night is detailed enough for you to gain an accurate depiction of my quite unique first time at having sexual intercourse lulz enjoy!
 
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Hahaha... 20. Met a girl at a party, she added me on Facebook and started chatting to me heaps. Met her the first time, we saw a movie, went back to hers and watched more, I didn't make a move. Second time, we were at my house watching movies late at night in my bed when we somehow ended up holding hands, I gradually got my arm around her, we snuggled up together and then we kissed...
Then yeah, we fucked. I barely got it in before I blew. Wasn't anywhere near what I expected or anticipated, even though I had never touched a pussy before that night in my life. This chick had been with over 20 guys before me as well so she was a little bit more experienced than me. I didn't love her, don't think she ever truly loved me, it couldn't have been much more of a mismatch. My demeanour is like a gale force wind in the opposite direction for chicks. I could have lost it when I was 18 I'm pretty sure, but I wasn't sure if the girl I was with really wanted it or if she was going along with it cos we were such good mates. We ended up kissing, it went nowhere. And in general, especially when I'm stoned or really drunk, I'm either nervous as fuck and can't make convo for shit or I just talk utter shit instead of conversate. I've had more than a few chances to dance with chicks but it just doesn't happen at the time. I'm a mess :) my best bet is good old gear but don't ever wanna make a social dependency from that shit. Wrong way to go :/
I've never been in love. I've had a chick fall in love with me, but fuck me she had baggage, in more than one sense. We fucked a lot anyway, never felt right for me. It took me way too long to turn her down :( just couldn't do it, and when I did it was horrible, she started crying and shit and I didn't know wtf to do. I kind of never wanna fall in love from my experiences with it and the ways I've seen it play out with people around me. But there's that sense of something and someone missing in my life that no amount of narcotics will ever shake... Fuck it, never having kids, never wanna get married. Fuck it... Biological urges suck so much. From what I know.
Don't rush it man. If you have any doubts at the time, not even if a chick is soaked down there and begging you to stick it in. If that chick doesn't appeal to you, and you're not the type of person who'll chat up anyone in hopes that they'll bend over at some point and let you have your way with them, it won't ever live up to your fantasies. None of the times I've had sex, granted that I've had sex with 2 different girls and both of them approached me instead of me seeking out a girl I found attractive, were ever comparable to what you see perceived in movies or pornos. I got a mate who lost his V's at a brothel. He made up stories about having sex with all these girls at parties and shit before he hit 21, then he just went and copped a lay from a prostitute. Still never says otherwise, at least to me. Imagine that...
 
Bill said:
^ Lol yeah, I lasted a little longer than that but only by about 4 or 5 minutes though I think haha

I most likely wouldn't have even lasted 30 seconds but I was drunk for only like the third time ever and high on xanax bars, she was drunk too which made the whole session a bit graceless to say the least lol and that's prolly the only reason I wasn't a three pump chump :]

I'll just leave it to your imagination though if you'd like to visualize the image in your head of the sweaty, clumsy, and a bit bloody event of a young inexperienced very drunk virgin attempting the deflowering process upon a young drunk very awkward girl, during a super hot summer night, in a mostly pitch black bedroom with no ac, and on a waterbed without any sheets. I hope, if you wanted, that my description of that night is detailed enough for you to gain an accurate depiction of my quite unique first time at having sexual intercourse lulz enjoy!
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Hahaha, oh boy that paints a picture. 'Iz it in yet??' 'Nah babeey, thatz mah belly button hole. Little lower...'
 
Yikes, some ppl on here make me feel like I actually have just a tiny bit of some kind of standard, Ok I was 15 in a long time relationship, we were together 2 months b4 we finally did it, we were together for 3 yrs in totall my first true love ever. For some reason then although all above board with contraception being used even then we worried still about pregancies, we could not wait till she came on her period again a sigh of releiff that the condom had worked.I think all that panic was due to being still ever so slightly under age,.She was a year younger than me and had done it a few times already so she kind of led the way<3. However those were the happyest days of my life when I was younger as far as relationships are concerened, now these days I just can't get a solid relationship going, probably due to my drug use, then all I did at 15 waas alcohol and Cannabis , things are diff now. The more relationships I have the harder they seem to be able to work, so sad tbh, I would say the first 4-5 girls in my life were the best in the world now its nothing more than sex, sex, sex, to be honest I'd rather have a wank now LOL.
 
I was actually really disappointed my first tine. It turns out the chick was just lame in bed but I was terrified sex was going to be that boring forever.
 
Lost it at 15, though I mentally lost it years and years before if you know what I mean haha. I had never talked to the guy before and haven't talked to him since..I was drunk high and don't remember almost any of it.
 
20, got really drunk with friends at a bar, closing time came was just bout to walk out the bar when a chick started chatting me up. Asked her if she wanted to come with, was alright nothing mindblowing lol... hooked up for a couple more months after that. Looking back now she's pretty disgusting and i could've done way better=D
 
I was 13, it was i had been dating this guy for about 10 months...now that i look at it he was a pervert trying to get some ass he was 18 and i was 13. i visted him at work one day on his break and after a lot of pressure i finally gave in to shut him up. it wasnt enjoyable. it didn't hurt like most girls say, but that may have to do with him having a very small penis. it lasted probably about 3 minutes, if that. i broke up with him shortly after.
 
first had sex this year, at the end of November, at the age of 25. I began a relationship with a good friend of mine and I finally had sex because I was more comfortable with her than with anybody else in the past. We had amazing sex about twice a day for three months straight, but our relationships (for all intents and purposes) ended today, and I don't know if I care to have sex again.
 
I was 15. Couldn't give it away fast enough. To a guy I had gone out with a couple of times. We were both virgins, and fumbled around for quite some time before we actually figured it out. It's rather hilarious looking back on it now. We only did it once, and moved on. I was preggers within six months. I loved sex then, and I love it now, I'm just better at it now.

Yeesh, I'm quite the tramp compared to you all who held out for love, etc.
 
Lost my virginity at eighteen.

All in all, it was a pretty crappy experience, and I couldn't even orgasm (I'm a male so this is an abberation, especially since it was a few months before I started using heroin). At the time I was still tormenting my mind with THC, so the whole sex act became very weird for me, and I felt really detached. I kind of experienced it in a veryy objective way, and i couldn't help but feel like some primitive beast.

Anyway, I broke up with that girl and then got another girlfriend who made sex a lot "sexier", and I got really into it.
 
Alex000 said:
I was 16 in one of my psych hospital stays. I met a guy, and it just took off. We spent a good 2 1/2 weeks fucking. Not at all anticipated, and a very fun addition to my summer in the the various psych wards of the area. I have not, though, been with anyone since 8). We shall see.
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that's interesting- it would make a cool book if you think about it
 
Btw the poll results are interesting. I'd have thought that us "drug people" tend to start with sex much earlier than rest of population and that I was an exception ;).
 
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