Your sexual desires and fetishes do not trigger any emotion; What disgusts me is your archaic, degrading view of "difference" between sexes. There are as many sexes as there are people; Your projections on everyone around you, generalizing everything based on which chromosomes they have is hurtful and offensive.
You also disgust me. You can't state that something "IS". If you want to have sex in a rational and fashionable way, go for it. If you want to rewire your whole consciousness through various chemical and psychological methods that completely shred any semblance of a instinct-driven, non-rational being, be my guest! You're free to do anything you want. I hate the whole mentality of "accepting" things just because it's "how nature works" - Well fuck that, we should be at the helm of our own fate. Self-determination before biological imperative. Will before acceptance. Transhumanism before the natural human spirit.
What I mean to say about nature, instincts, will and emotions is best reflected through the poem Invictus, by William Ernest Henley.
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.