After 4 years together we ended in the same manner we begun. Slow-paced descent. I've thought about the reasons that led to where we are and whilst this introspection is not done for the purpose of "fixing" us (which is normally the case) I thought it worthwhile to put pen to paper figuratively speaking. There will be times in the coming months where I will miss you, us and may considering rekindling what once was. That cannot be though so here it is, top 10 reasons why we couldn't make it work:
1. We hate everything about each other. We may love each other but we do not like each other AT ALL anymore.
2. We cannot agree on anything. Not politics, religion, life-style choices. ANYTHING.
3. We do not make each other happy anymore, being together has become a chore as opposed to a free choice.
4. I dont trust you when it comes to money.
5. You do not trust my intentions and are constantly accusing me of having alterior motives for everything I do. I cannot live like this.
6. We constantly argue about anything and everything. It is f*cking exhausting.
7. I don't think you will be a good life partner - we have no common interests and cannot even hold a decent conversation anymore.
8. I don't think you will be a good father - you seem more interested in gambling and drinking than anything else and I can't see myself having a child with you because of this.
9. You never believed in me. All throughout getting my degree you kept insisting it was never going to pay off - glad to be able to prove you wrong after all these years.
10. I am no longer attracted to you - you stopped taking pride in your appearance and seem to only make an effort to look good when you are out with your friends.
Feel like a massive weight has finally been lifted off my shoulders and can now breathe easy again
1. We hate everything about each other. We may love each other but we do not like each other AT ALL anymore.
2. We cannot agree on anything. Not politics, religion, life-style choices. ANYTHING.
3. We do not make each other happy anymore, being together has become a chore as opposed to a free choice.
4. I dont trust you when it comes to money.
5. You do not trust my intentions and are constantly accusing me of having alterior motives for everything I do. I cannot live like this.
6. We constantly argue about anything and everything. It is f*cking exhausting.
7. I don't think you will be a good life partner - we have no common interests and cannot even hold a decent conversation anymore.
8. I don't think you will be a good father - you seem more interested in gambling and drinking than anything else and I can't see myself having a child with you because of this.
9. You never believed in me. All throughout getting my degree you kept insisting it was never going to pay off - glad to be able to prove you wrong after all these years.
10. I am no longer attracted to you - you stopped taking pride in your appearance and seem to only make an effort to look good when you are out with your friends.
Feel like a massive weight has finally been lifted off my shoulders and can now breathe easy again
