An Apology

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PsychedelicLove

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To all you Bluelighters who saw my extremely disrespectful posts the other night, I wanted to say I'm sorry. I didn't really mean to act like such an ignoramus. Not to make excuses, but I was drunk as shit and in a real bad mood. And I took it out on you guys, resulting in a temporary ban and a whole lot of (very intense) cyber-embarrassment.

I said some very fucked-up things, being in the obnoxious-ass mood that I was in, and I regret it now. hardcore. anyway, please don't hate me. Lol. I'm going to use this site as intended now, and hopefully in the process I'll earn back some respect.

thanks for reading.
-PL

(Mods, feel free to move this to a more appropriate forum.)
 
Thank you very much for your apology. We could tell you were inebriated and having a bad day; it obviously did deserved infractions and a temp ban and I'm glad you understand why we did that - we can't let things like that slide, we want this forum to be a supportive HR forum - but I really do appreciate your apology, and I am sure others do. We're not ones to hold grudges here and I am very glad you intend do use Bluelight properly - it's an amazing resource and community. Regret is a good thing as it means you recogise what happened and means you genuinely understand and don't intend to do it again - but beating yourself up is not good either, and regret is only positive if you take positive things from it rather than keeping it inside and it eating away at you. None of us are perfect - it's in the past, can move on now :) <3

I'll leave this here for a bit so other BDDers can see it then perhaps move it to Support if that's okay.

Hope you are feeling better now...

-effie
 
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Moving this to Support; I left it here so BDDers could see your post but it's not the sort of thing we cover here and that is the best place I can think of to move it to, hope that's okay.

BDD > Support
 
Because accountability is an important value to cultivate in any community, doubly so in an online one where traditional virtues are moot. I commend your action, PsychedelicLove.
 
I think a lot people who've spent some time here have done this to some degree. It kind of comes with the territory of being a drug forum.
 
nolys said:
What's to expect from a bunch of druggys hidden behind a computer screen? Though I still say you should have made a new account lol
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While I Get that you're joking, I think it's especially important that we act in a respectable and mature manner because so many of us do use drugs. If there is anything that can help lift the stygma off of drug users it's places like bluelight. But if we act like a gang of wreckless, obnoxious, ignorant hooligans, we're just reinforcing a stereotype.
 
Znegative said:
While I Get that you're joking, I think it's especially important that we act in a respectable and mature manner because so many of us do use drugs. If there is anything that can help lift the stygma off of drug users it's places like bluelight. But if we act like a gang of wreckless, obnoxious, ignorant hooligans, we're just reinforcing a stereotype.
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Good point, I'm probably hanging around in the lounge too much...
 
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