And by 'similar interests', I mean someone who isn't opposed to me being a member of the BL community. Or judges me on the lifestyle that goes along with it.
And it's not like my lifestyle is even hardcore in that sense.
These days I'm into some benzos, occassionally, just to chill out.
I work heaps, I look after myself (exercise and healthy food), I'm not a junkie dole bludger.
But I guess that's the stigma that goes with using anything these days.
All the guys I meet fall into two categories:
1 - Interested in the lifestyle but take it way too far, no harm reduction for them - I don't want to be around that kind of thing, I'm over it.
2 - Become judgmental of my lifestyle, try to change me (because they know best and I'm just a stupid girl - I know they mean well) and it all goes downhill from there.
I just want to get to know someone intelligent, non judgmental, someone who believes I know what I'm doing, and who has the presence of mind, when necessary, to say - "time to get back to reality and look after ourselves."
Surely I'm not asking for too much??
And it's not like my lifestyle is even hardcore in that sense.
These days I'm into some benzos, occassionally, just to chill out.
I work heaps, I look after myself (exercise and healthy food), I'm not a junkie dole bludger.
But I guess that's the stigma that goes with using anything these days.
All the guys I meet fall into two categories:
1 - Interested in the lifestyle but take it way too far, no harm reduction for them - I don't want to be around that kind of thing, I'm over it.
2 - Become judgmental of my lifestyle, try to change me (because they know best and I'm just a stupid girl - I know they mean well) and it all goes downhill from there.
I just want to get to know someone intelligent, non judgmental, someone who believes I know what I'm doing, and who has the presence of mind, when necessary, to say - "time to get back to reality and look after ourselves."
Surely I'm not asking for too much??