ShroomySatori
Bluelighter
Lately I have been getting extremely sexually frustrated to the extent that it is destroying my quality of life entirely. I am a very good looking man in my late 20's and there is no reason I should have to go years without sex when I am quite open-minded, kinky and fun as hell, and sociable. I don't go out to parties and I never get a chance to meet anyone. But, I talk to people everywhere. Maybe this year will be different but it totally sucks. In fact, it is worse than either my extreme chronic agonizing back pain and my panic disorder. It is also worse than both my heroin and benzo addictions to deal with. I just can't handle it, I really like romance in my life. That's what it's about for me and just having kinky fun. Depressed. I'm a kinky and romantic person ,very much so, and it is fucking hell to go through life without this. I really take it seriously and it makes me so fucking anxious that I'm getting older and nothing is happening anymore. I wouldn't worry about your appearance man it will mess up your confidence and do whatever you want with your facial hair or whatev. I can't give you advice as I am in the same boat apart from one girlfriend although i DO know what I'm doing now. I'm just socially isolated and it's killing me. I dyed my hair a subtle dark reddish colour, well kinda purply-red exactly how kurt cobain did it but without the coolaid lol, and I have pretty short hair, but you can only see it when light shines on it as I wanted it to be very subtle as I have black hair and I think it looks great.
The girls, well a lot of them I can tell really crush on my appearance. So, I should do something about that. Smiling is important, and so is eye contact. I got a tattoo and stretched my ears out a little, and have a goatee. I don't give a fuck man like just be yourself and make yourself different somehow. That made me more comfortable in my own skin. I'm getting a second tattoo and I really love my appearance, it's about time I meet another girl. I'm sick of being lonely and doing hard drugs to try and escape those feelings of self-loathing. It really sucks but I definitely have faith in myself. You are still young man, and have plenty of time to figure things out. Don't worry about being a virgin it doesn't mean shit unless you allow it to fuck with you. I'm speaking as a very confident man in my late 20's, smart and good looking but it's still a huge struggle. I'm not sure why but it's hard finding someone really special. I have the attraction part down, now I need to figure out the social part haha. But yeah like make yourself stand out somehow man, your appearance is transient. I also used to be 215lbs of muscle and I am 170lbs now, a medium-skinny weight for my height. I get more attention now than I did when I was really into athletics, as I have a chronic back injury now. I think guys peak a little older and I changed my appearance as well as figured out the type of girl who is a good match on me.
So I am on a journey of loneliness of my own. I will certainly end up okay, I'm just an impatient bastard and at this point I just need to fuck someone cute and it will do me wonders. It will do you wonders too. Try meeting someone through a common interest, it doesn't have to be friday night at the bar. I don't like that, I never go to bars or parties. But then again I don't get laid, haha. I'm just on my way to pleasing some very sexy women in the future, I truly believe that. It's tough when you're frustrated.
Oh and good luck.
The girls, well a lot of them I can tell really crush on my appearance. So, I should do something about that. Smiling is important, and so is eye contact. I got a tattoo and stretched my ears out a little, and have a goatee. I don't give a fuck man like just be yourself and make yourself different somehow. That made me more comfortable in my own skin. I'm getting a second tattoo and I really love my appearance, it's about time I meet another girl. I'm sick of being lonely and doing hard drugs to try and escape those feelings of self-loathing. It really sucks but I definitely have faith in myself. You are still young man, and have plenty of time to figure things out. Don't worry about being a virgin it doesn't mean shit unless you allow it to fuck with you. I'm speaking as a very confident man in my late 20's, smart and good looking but it's still a huge struggle. I'm not sure why but it's hard finding someone really special. I have the attraction part down, now I need to figure out the social part haha. But yeah like make yourself stand out somehow man, your appearance is transient. I also used to be 215lbs of muscle and I am 170lbs now, a medium-skinny weight for my height. I get more attention now than I did when I was really into athletics, as I have a chronic back injury now. I think guys peak a little older and I changed my appearance as well as figured out the type of girl who is a good match on me.
So I am on a journey of loneliness of my own. I will certainly end up okay, I'm just an impatient bastard and at this point I just need to fuck someone cute and it will do me wonders. It will do you wonders too. Try meeting someone through a common interest, it doesn't have to be friday night at the bar. I don't like that, I never go to bars or parties. But then again I don't get laid, haha. I'm just on my way to pleasing some very sexy women in the future, I truly believe that. It's tough when you're frustrated.
Oh and good luck.
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