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My g/f had a coil. We had sex about three times before the pain of hitting my dick on it went beyond a joke.

That coil came straight out.
 
badandwicked said:
agree agree agree

In China all young women (who want contraception) have this as standard. The west prefers to pump our ladies full of artificial hormones. Young women here don't even fleetingly think of it as an option.

They'll catch on, in time. We're just ahead of the crowd gayorstraight :)

The problem is there are myths still existing from when the coil was first invented, it was massive, insertion and removal was painful and could only really be fitted to women who had had kids. Thats all changed now but the myths persist even amongst more old school GPs. The government should do a big PR job on it for all our sakes but I guess they need to stay in the back pocket of the drugs companies.
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Yeah, I mean it wasn't the nicest feeling having it placed, but, 5 mins 'pain' for 10 years no worries!
 
StoneHappyMonday said:
My g/f had a coil. We had sex about three times before the pain of hitting my dick on it went beyond a joke.

That coil came straight out.
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You may have felt the strings, you would have to enter her cervix with your penis to feel the actual coil which is totally unlikely. Everyone's different though I suppose... :sus:
 
StoneHappyMonday said:
My g/f had a coil. We had sex about three times before the pain of hitting my dick on it went beyond a joke.

That coil came straight out.
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Ah its a shame you didn't stick with it a bit longer. The strings are fine nylon and after a few months they soften and coil up and around the cervix so they're tucked out of the way.

If the problem carries on they've probably been cut too long and just need trimming to the right length. (too short can be 'stabby' also).

Its posts like yours that put people off SHM, but I blame your GP for lack of knowledge or advice.

Here's a photo diary of a cervix with a coil. Marmz would just get it out there (and probably rightly so, its only a human body) but I'll be kind and warn you its not for everyone. Interesting though, before I started researching the coil I had no idea what a cervix looked like.

http://www.beautifulcervix.com/cervix-photo-galleries/age-25-entire-cycle-with-iud/
 
badandwicked said:
Ah its a shame you didn't stick with it a bit longer. The strings are fine nylon and after a few months they soften and coil up and around the cervix so they're tucked out of the way.

If the problem carries on they've probably been cut too long and just need trimming to the right length. (too short can be 'stabby' also).

Its posts like yours that put people off SHM, but I blame your GP for lack of knowledge or advice.

Here's a photo diary of a cervix with a coil. Marmz would just get it out there (and probably rightly so, its only a human body) but I'll be kind and warn you its not for everyone. Interesting though, before I started researching the coil I had no idea what a cervix looked like.

http://www.beautifulcervix.com/cervix-photo-galleries/age-25-entire-cycle-with-iud/
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This. My strings are completely soft now so no issues. My boyfriend is quite big and said he could feel them before but they didn't hurt him at all.
I was advised not to get them too short because of the stabby thing!
 
An entire site devoted to cervical <3? Bookmarked.

Have seen cervixes a number of times but never the same one at regular intervals. Nor one with strings. My what variety to be found within the one fanny. I am impressed and intrigued. And somewhat envious. I'd quite like one only it does seem to be more of a faff than a willy ever is. Also, rather pleasing that the cervix looks distinctly like a bellend.
 
I don't really see the connection. Abortion pix are horrific when it's at a stage when the foetus looks like a ikkle baby. So are pix of animal experimentation. Or of concentration camps. Or of suicides. Or of car wrecks. Lots of pix are horrific but have nothing to do with pix of a cervix.

That aside, debating the pros and cons of abortion is probably not such a great idea. It's one of those topics that rarely fails to piss off everybody involved :|
 
Definitely unappealing. But if it's just a short-term problem it's quite acceptable for a decade of no-faff sex. Have known one or two women who had coils fitted but they didn't get on with 'em and had 'em removed. I really don't stick me oar in with that kinda stuff. Whatever the ladygirl in question is happiest using. Except johnnies cos they're horrid. I'd rather go without.
 
Ceres said:
the idea of getting jabbed by some spiky bits of nylon definately does not appeal.
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Really, it's not a problem. Only in very few cases does it even come up.
The pros amazingly outweigh the cons. My boyfriend and I would have split 7 years ago if I was still being stuffed with hormones everyday
 
BlindHelperMonkey said:
however, back on topic.. im so ignorant about this, changing the type of pill may help? i had no clue they differed
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Yeah. I got lucky and was happy with the first one I ever tried so I've been on the same one for years but I have a few friends who had to try lots of different ones before being okay. They found one that worked for them eventually though. They're all different.
I also used to take some homeopathic oil thingy during PMS and it actually worked a bit, although it might have just been placebo. She should ask her doc about that.
 
Shambles said:
If you mean Evening Primrose Oil then it's not homoeopathic cos it has an active ingredient. It is often used by homoeopathic types though. I know - my mother is a homoeopath.
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I don't think it was that. My mom just gave me this vial-type thingy with written 'for PMS' on it and said it was homeopathic and it would help. On second thought might've been drugs, she was a bit of a hippy so you never know. But it works =D
 
Hmm... MamaSham is very into brown vials of anonymous liquid. Sadly not the good type :D

Rescue Remedy is a popular one that's dished out for everything. Is usually Bach Flower Remedies that come in liquid form. Homoeopathic stuff more likely in (sugar) pills. Sometimes liquid too. Liquid form is made by drawing a circle, putting a glass of water in the circle, and "thinking" the remedy into the water. True story. Flower remedies are usually a bit better as they're made basically just brandy.
 
Aww, shame. Yeah, now that I think about it it would really numb the physical pain and would just even out my mood (ie if I'd been in a normal mood it would make me very happy).
I'm seriously gonna ask her about this in the morning hahah.
I've stopped taking anything for it now that I'm on opies all the time anyway since those tend to work when it comes to feeling better 8(

That 'thinking' the remedy into the water thingy is very interesting though. Especially since homeopathy totally works, IME anyway. Cool stuff.
 
Homoeopathy totally does not work :D

Was brought up with it. MamaSham has been a professional homoeopath most of my life so we never saw doctors. All homoeopathy and other alternative medicine. None of it worked for shit. I got better sometimes. But rarely with any obvious correlation to any treatment.

Placebo is a magical thing. It works. Give it a kewl name, put it in pill/potion form, have it prescribed by somebody with a massive string of letters after their name who's just spent an hour discussing the problem with you and it works all the better. Doesn't work half as well without the trappings though. If all you get is given a sugar pill or sent up to the drawer to get it yourself it's just a sugar pill.

Whatever gets you through the night <3
 
Hormones do affect behavior for sure, but some of the more negative manifestations are due to liver metabolism of said hormones and how sensitive any given woman is to her own hormone production.

Most people, men or women, get bitchy if their liver becomes backed up with any kind of irritating metabolite, of which hormone metabolites qualify.

A lot of women I've treated for PMS and homone related depression find a lot of relief in modifying diet and lifestyle that purges the liver of excess.

When it's older women (35+), the intense emotions can be due to an imbalance in the ratio between estrogen and progesterone. you can get blood work done to examine the ratios, and if there is an imbalance then bio-identical hormones compounded to the required ratio can bring a lot of balance back into womens' lives.

IMO men also have hormones cycles, but they are poorly understood because there aren't physical markers to indicate when drastic changes are happening.
 
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