Essentially you reprimanded me for stating my opinion because it differs from your opinion, and you didn't leave the conversation open for debate. I hate to break it to you but your position is also only opinion as nothing has been proven with respect to the levels of control addicts have when in active addiction, specifically late stage addiction as I was referencing. It's a very valid topic and one that should be debated, but that was not you're intention.
You're right: I didn't leave the conversation open to debate, because there's nothing to debate. I know I'm right.
As far as me knowing anything about - no, I don't really - just from what you said in your posts. Two out of the twelve posts you've made on this site indicate issues when dealing with other people, and then your response to my post. So you didn't get along with other members in AA, and you were able to save yourself from getting
another assault charge when playing poker*...so there are previous assault charges, at least one other. Then we have your response to me which wasn't conversational - you just shut me down and dismissed my opinion. Based on all of that, yes, I believe you have some issues relating to other people. Didn't have to guess.
Yeah, I've had run-ins with other people. Just like everyone else on this planet. What's your point here? You're just stating the obvious.
Many of us here have a significant amount of experience with addiction, I would be careful making assumptions that we haven't considered all positions before forming our opinions. If you take the time and get to know some of us I think you'll discover there are some very intelligent accomplished people on these boards from all walks of life with a variety of backgrounds. If you take the time to consider other people's perspectives and rationally debate you may find that it broadens your perspective.
I will gladly debate rationally, with RATIONAL people. When you stat claiming that addiction is disease, that's when I shut you out. You're wasting my time, and your time.
At any rate, my intention is not to argue with you or continue a back and forth regarding your response. I wasn't trying to be rude, but in reading my response I can certainly see that it can be taken that way - I am a blunt person and can lack tact at times. There is a good anger management thread with valid resources that is stickied in The Dark Side forum - you may benefit. Attitude has a lot to do with getting healthy - the more positive your attitude the greater chance you have for a successful recovery and peace in life. I wish you well on your journey.
Ummmmmm. I wasn't asking for advice. And until I do, keep it to yourself. So typical of people "in-recovery": Pushing advice that nobody asked for. It's so annoying. But thanks for your "insight", anyway.
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