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so tonight i took 4mg sub, 1.5 mg kpin n 6 beers and a couple shots of whiskey, pretty faded n was at my new co wokers place for the first time with like4 other people n jus outta conversation this girl tori said she has a girlfriend, first time i saw her thought she was drop dead gorgeous. well i talk to her n rly connect n says shes that shes attracted to me n i said the same. rly hit it off shr seems super genuine n really nice. i ask her if shes lesbian or bi n says mostly likes girls but jus is super into me i guess:) im stoked we end up making out which was wonderful sincei havnt had any real connection from from anyone since my ex gf cheateed on me after 3yerw of dating with my best friend from elemenrqty. so my question is hsa anyone been in anyh situation kinda like this where a girl is datin girl but likes you? jus what was the outcome in ur sitation? i cud care less if shes got a gf n still wants to see me but i feel like that cud complicate things. i really wanna pursue this girl n jus see what happens im not expecting anything jus gonna go into oit with a open mind.
 
hmm for me when you are seeing someone and they are in a relationship i then dont take things seriously. you can fight your corner but as a gay man with occasional taste for the right women i would say its a losing battle but this girl might be very different so give it a go.

still if she's really into you she wouldn't be with someone else
 
Yeah I agree with PFH, it's not the fact that she's usually into girls that could be the problem here, but rather the fact that she's in a relationship :\ I mean, maybe they're in an open relationship but if not dyou really wanna be that guy?
 
ha HCand ya in that case but i wouldnt care at all if she woulda cheated on me with a girl. as if i by chance start seeing this girl torri i would have no problem at all if she still has a gf or hooks up wit other girls.

pofacedhoe - i jus meet her like a couple days ago cuz i jus got a job as a lifeguard at a water park n this was my first time hanging wit her outside of work.

pagey - i dont wanna be that guy at all the fuck up a relationship cuz i know how it feels. so im jus gunna get to know her better and if her feelings for me grow then i guess ill jus see what happens from there
 
HCandKROD said:
Remember how bad this sucked when you were cheated on? Think about it.
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Exactly!!!

Anyway, you've let her know that you're interested. If she's interested in you, she'll break up with her girlfriend.
 
ha i like how everyone is quoting that. i couldnt do that to another person. oh n i forget to mention since i was super gone when i wrote this last night night n shes bisexual jus goes for girls more often but has been with guys, kinda made it seem on my first post she was lesbo
 
kwhat said:
pagey - i dont wanna be that guy at all the fuck up a relationship cuz i know how it feels. so im jus gunna get to know her better and if her feelings for me grow then i guess ill jus see what happens from there
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Yeah I think that's a good plan :)
 
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