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Acts that you regret the most

I regret my first kiss, and my first boobie contact (same girl).
I couldn't fucking STAND her. I did not tell any of my friends or anyone else for that matter than I had anything going with her.
I basically made out with her and the boob thing for about 2 or 3 weeks.
Then I contemplated fucking her, because it probably would have worked out. But I snapped out of it, disgusted with myself.
I emailed her saying it would not work out, then never talked to her again.
Gugh.. Still shudder about it now. Disgusting.
I am not sure who I am more pissed at, her for being so ugly or me for being so desperate.

My other regret is lying to my current girlfriend (serious, beatiful relationship) about my virginity.
She mentioned that she would be too guilty-feeling to take my virginity. Before I vaguely hinted at a random one-night-stand type shit after a concert, never really elaborated.
This random girl licked my mohawk and we kissed outside for a bit. Then I left and got drunk(er). I told my GF we had sex.
Someday, I will probably be drunk or on E and confess. It is the only thing that really weighs down on the ol' conciense with this girl.
 
i regret not fucking Juan, three years ago when me and my husband were seperated. he was a short mexican guy with alot of 'flesh on his bone'. maaan. Dammit!

Wow. If I was your husband, you'd be my answer to this thread :\

But since I'm not :D .... my two greatest regrets are a) taking up smoking as a teenager. I've since then quit, but not without the help of smokeless tobacco :\ and b) being such a heathen as a teenager and putting my parents through things that no one should have to go through, especially the people you love most :|
 
Ruining a great friendship because the attraction took over. And regretting is the worse thing that could of ever happened to me. :(
 
I don't regret anything I've actually done, relationship wise, other that not staying in touch with people.

I have much more regret concerning the things I *didn't* do, mostly fucking a whole bunch of people when I was younger. If I knew then what I know now...damn I would have gotten a lot of play! *sigh*
 
I have done some collossally embarassing/stupid/destructive things in my life as far as my relationships with people go, but I don't regret that any of it happened...I'm sorry that I've hurt people, but I think it's more important to try and learn from your faults rather than waste energy wishing they weren't there..
 
The last time i ever had sex with my ex girlfriend, i sortof just fucked her and i felt this urge to get up... ebcause i dunno, she had been pisssing me off and it was about time i needed to breakup... and i guess it came off sortof bad, cause i felt gross and wanted to get up and out of there, quickly It wasnt meant to be personal or anything, but missionary position can get kindof dirty... I wnated to get up just cause i dunno, it sounded bad and she was upset. I wish I could take it back, makeup to her or something... give her a sweet kiss. I dunno...

:(
 
I regret cheating on one out of the three boyfriends I've cheated on.

I also regret arguing and picking fights with every boyfriend I've ever had. I'm tired of not being able to keep a relationship because I feel the need to release my anger and frustration on them. It sucks.
 
I regret falling in love with a girl who will never love me back. She is with some other idiot and I havbe always known this. But she always was coming on to me and sucking my dick and getting naked ect. and it was very hard not to be attracted to her. She is the most perfect girl in the world and I would give anything to be with her. She recently moved into a shelter type place and now everything is starting to become clear to me. She only calls me once a day and I only get to talk to her for like 5 minutes. She tells me she loves me but I am beginning to doubt her. It almost seems like she no longer has any need for me, because she is far away and can't see me very often.

I regret falling in love with an unattainable chick. Now I am living with the consequences and it really really sucks. Anxiety is at an all time high. And I can't even get high because I get tested. Life is lame.
 
a couple weeks ago, I (along with a whole theater of other people) saw a guy hit his kid for misbehaving. Kid was probably 9-10 years old, he and his brother were fighting over some bs, but nothing a little separation wouldn't fix. Their dad proceeded to grab the boy, yank him out of his seat and hit him, closed fist a few times in the side. He then took him out into the hallway to scold him.

My fiance told me to go out there to make sure the kid was ok. I started walking up the aisle, saw this guy towering over his son while holding him by the shirt color. Dude slapped the kid again and I lost it.

I ran full fucking speed up the aisle and slammed into him, knocking him on his ass and a good 7 feet to the wall behind him. I'm 6'4" and about 230, so there was some momentum coming his way. I got in his face, we exchanged some unpleasantries and I left with my fiance.

Now, in my mind, this is something I have always thought I'd do. One night I heard my neighbor abusing his son and it took everything for me not to go over there and introduce him to my crowbar (did call 911 though). Two things I don't tolerate in this life: abusing children or women. I always knew I'd step in if I ever saw something like that in front of me, but when it was all said and none... this was right up there with my life's regrets.

Why? I didn't show that kid anything but more violence. No calm and collected person standing up for him, just another adult resorting to violence to solve an issue. Kid looked pretty shocked, I felt pretty awful afterwards. One for assulting a random stranger and two for letting my temper go as I did. I could have just stepped between them and ended the poor kids unnecessary punishment, but instead I turned into a primate and went, er.. apeshit on his dad.

not something I would expect to regret, but I do, or at least I'm not proud of it.
 
^^^ though i agree that more violence doesnt seem like the fix-it for the above situation, im glad somebody did that! i work in a supermarket and along with shitty kids you do get shitty parens abusing their kids, and because i work there i cant go nuts at them like i want to.... though i reckon if i was in another store seeing that shit id tell them rightly to get fucked and treat their kids better. getting hit by parents as a child isnt anything new for a lot of people (me being one of them, though it was funny when the wooden spoon broke...) its still not right to beat your kids. i think some kids do need a smack on the hand or something, but there are limits and places...
 
Telling a girl that i loved her when i wasn't sure myself, and seeing the resulting aftermath of her hurt and pain... that wound still hasn't healed after three years of deep thought and attempted communication gone ignored
 
Figuring out the meaning of life, the universe, and everything and a whole bunch of stuff I didn't do before I found out what it was all about.
 
When i was 7 my 2 best friends were brothers that were 2 and 4 years older than me. We always used to fool around in the tub but i wish it went further before i had to move T_T. They were fucking hot. Mine is sorta like that but different I regret not telling a guy that I liked him in High school.For all I know we could be together right now!
 
I am a really nice guy, but all the things that I regret ocurred when I was drunk.

Drunk driving, cheating, and I slapped my girlfriend.

I can't believe that I did these things and I will regret these things for the rest of my life. I have learned from them and found out that the consequenses and hurt from the aftermath can scar your soul and I will hope to never repeat any of the above, drunk or not.

Btw I am still with the girl I did this too and I love her with all my heart and will never hurt her again. She will be my one and only until I die or she breaks up with me, (again)
 
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