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Acts that you regret the most

I threw a half eaten apple at a girls head (not hard) for $2.85. I regret not charging more ;)

It was actually pretty cool because we were all in the same group of friends, and she got mad at them because she knew they were behind it. Good ol' high school, those were the days. :D
 
I've realized that a considerable amount of the regretful acts I've made in the past few years can be tied back to an overarching regret:
inviting my ex over to my house.

Another pretty broad category is my regret of not taking care of myself or those I care about to the best of my ability.
 
most of my regrets stem from my lack of belief in myself and my lack of trust in others. this is something, however, that i've come to realise for a while now which is essentially just a defense mechanism that i'd devised over time because of my own lack of trust in myself, and who i am/was.

what i regret the most is the things that i never said to people but i nevertheless felt and should of shared.
 
socko said:
GEtting drunk at the latest christmas party at work, then going home with this guy I work with, and later that night, confessing (to him) to having fucked a dog when I was 13 or 14.
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Throws hands in air and instantly concedes.
 
taking one too many pills in cancun for spring break. one was plenty, didn't need the K, Coke and 1 1/2 other pills to make the night complete. I'm just thankful things were okay, really bad stuff could have happened. Did i mention I barely knew the providers? stupid stupid stupid.

Having a one night stand (while i had a boyfriend) is something that is borderline regrettable for me. I think that eventually I would have had the desire to experience the one night stand, and sickly but forunately my boyfriend was there for me to get through the emotional upheaval i put myself through afterwords. But life would have been easier without it i suppose.

various other stupid things that are not life-altering regrets, but just make me go damn, like hooking up with random ass people when i'm wasted or saying something wrong to someone i really liked, or being to shy to pursue a crush...things like that

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me
 
i regret the xxxxxxx my wife and I went through
 
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I don't really have any regrets cos everything in my past has shaped the person I am today. And I'm pretty happy with who I am at the moment. I like to think that even the bad stuff has helped me learn a lesson.

That being said, there are some things I have done that I am ashamed of.
 
Fucked Brothers Wife

My biggest regret so far is fucking my brothers wife.

Now there's a bit of a story here so listen first and hate me later.
My brother started having an affair. I knew about it but I didn't say anything to her because I was hoping it would just fizzle out. It didn't. He moved out of his house and into a apartment with his girlfriend. He filed for divorce. His wife started coming over to my apartment every night to cry on my shoulder. I did nothing but console her. After a week or so he calls me and starts abusing me something awful saying I had better stop fucking his wife or he was going to come over and kick my ass. I told him nothing was going on but he didn't believe it. A day or two later he called his wife at work and was screaming the same thing at her. I guess it didn't mean anything to him that he was living with another woman? A few days later we did go to bed. The sex wasn't very good as we both did it out of spite more than for any other reason. It was only the one time and she stopped coming over after that. She moved to another state and only came back for the divorce. I've heard she remarried a few years later. My brother married the girl but it only lasted a couple of years and he's divorced again. He forgave me after we started talking again but it still bothers me that I would do such a thing.
So go ahead, begin the stoning.
 
I regret giving up the truest friend I ever had and probably ever will have... because he gave me an ultimatum.

At the time, I thought 'if he was a real friend, he wouldn't make me choose between two things I love'.

Nice work on my behalf :p. If I was a real friend and not so self-absorbed, I would've seen that I was hurting him [and myself] with my choices, and he was actually trying to look out for me...

I loved this friend of mine. I still do. [kisshugkisshugkisshug] 6 years on...

:(
 
isn't there any way you can make up with him, seeing as you've seen your actions as self-absorbed in retrospect?

seems a waste really.
 
While I try, on a daily basis, to take the time and energy to show the people in my life whom I love that I love them, there have been times when weeks or even months have flown by without me taking nearly-full advanatge of this invaluable opportunity.

That's what I regret the most.

Because, in my opinion, there's nothing more magical in life than two (or a larger group) of people who, often without having to mention a word, having complete confidence that someone else cares about and appreciates them to such an extent that they are often willing to trade alternative potential uses for their time, money, energy and most of all, their attention, to show that other person just how fucking much they appreciate and love them and value THEIR happiness.
 
I regret being so drunk that I couldnt stop the loss of my virginity to an act of rape. I know if I wasnt so drunk I never ever would have been in that situation to allow that to happen.
 
I regret most being a prickish follower when I was young, someone who was glad to go along with the crowd if they were picking on somebody. It's especially poignant for someone like me, who likes to think they have lofty morals.
 
i jst regret hiding my heroin use from him
i dont regret any particular acts towards him but i always wish id let him in on the true me earlier in the piece
 
I regret going away for a weekend and sleeping with my friend's housemate. She was gorgeous, it was great, but I will never ever forget the look on my girlfriend's face when she asked if I'd slept with the girl, and I told her yes.

She just cried, and I felt awful. So so bad.

To clarify, we weren't together then, we'd broken up and were sort of going through a weird confused stage, but we're back together now, and I still feel so so bad about it. It really fucking gets to me.
 
^It probably really get to her too. How have you two managed if you don't mind my asking? I've been in situations where it was just too awkward/painful to continue on.
 
I regret not being totally honest with my fiance. He has been so patient with me for so long. I just have so many trust issues that stem from past relationships. :p I try to avoid conflict with him because I am to scared that he will judge me for my flaws. Find someone that is wanting you to lean on them and really wants you to succeed. I find myself distancing myself even though he hasn't given me a reason to. Isn't it ironic. I hate that I self-medicate myself when the pain is to much. I regret always trying to run when things get hard.:( I need to dose with truth serum everyday.
 
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