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A few kink questions from a novice.

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Nrhass42

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I'll begin by saying, that I am not what you would call an alpha male. I even watch cuckold porn. My wife and I have a regular enough sex life. We understand the importance of sex to a good relationship. But it's mostly very vanilla and with four kids in the house it can sometimes be a chore. That is, unless I have been taking methamphetamines. My wife is a complete Square and doesn't do any drugs. But she condones the occasional use of stimulants for sex reasons. So two or three times a year we secured a little privacy and go completely Wild on each other. For our upcoming sex capade I've decided to try some butt stuff, that has always turn me off in the past. I have purchased a glass... Thing from Adam and Eve comma The thing is, my wife is very meek and I will have to call all the shots. But I'm a virgin of the anus myself and don't know at all how to coach her. What's the procedure? Can I get her off to using the same toy? Any help would be greatly appreciated
 
To be a little more clear, the glass thing from adam and eve is for massaging a prostrate. I'm not really interested in sodomizing my wife. And of course we've talked about it. I just wouldn't know how to get off that way and would like to give her a few clues first as is like her help. I don't see the disrespect.
 
You fuck a drunk bar broad in the ass. Not a wife. if you didn't get any anal action in your single life, too bad, you missed out. You don't want your wife to have a loose tore up asshole, okay. And let me just ease your mind, for someone of my size, being well endowed, anal is not all it's cracked up to be. I've never put more than half my length into an asshole. That after literally hours of foreplay, fingering, licking, getting her ready. Sidenote: Don't sneak that shit on her if you do it. First a pinky then a pointer then a thumb then, maybe if she's still good, the beginning of a dick. They always screamed, cried, and just cancelled our session immediately after I got started. IDK what's up with all this anal shit must be small dicks. I'm definitely way above average, but I suggested playing anal with my wife (Before she was my wife or I loved her, when we were both pretty hammed), she was so scared she said I was never allowed to ask without a written notice a week in advance, lol. literally. I didn't care because like I said, it's quite a bit of to do about nothing. You can give your wife a GREAT time without permanently damaging one of her best assets. And I don't know a man who can't please himself just concentrating hard enough, right? I can't stand a torn up asshole on a woman, but that's just IME....
 
KodytheLoadie said:
You fuck a drunk bar broad in the ass. Not a wife. if you didn't get any anal action in your single life, too bad, you missed out. You don't want your wife to have a loose tore up asshole, okay. And let me just ease your mind, for someone of my size, being well endowed, anal is not all it's cracked up to be. I've never put more than half my length into an asshole. That after literally hours of foreplay, fingering, licking, getting her ready. Sidenote: Don't sneak that shit on her if you do it. First a pinky then a pointer then a thumb then, maybe if she's still good, the beginning of a dick. They always screamed, cried, and just cancelled our session immediately after I got started. IDK what's up with all this anal shit must be small dicks. I'm definitely way above average, but I suggested playing anal with my wife (Before she was my wife or I loved her, when we were both pretty hammed), she was so scared she said I was never allowed to ask without a written notice a week in advance, lol. literally. I didn't care because like I said, it's quite a bit of to do about nothing. You can give your wife a GREAT time without permanently damaging one of her best assets. And I don't know a man who can't please himself just concentrating hard enough, right? I can't stand a torn up asshole on a woman, but that's just IME....
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you have no idea what you're talking about..lol
 
No you're so right... One sentence, doesn't even try to offer his opinion just trolling for free posts writing one sentence with no substance to it at all.... Well thanks buddy I got my free post right back from you...
 
Just re read the OP and following post...so it's actually you that wants the action that way? You don't want to do it with her that way? Way out of my league if that's the case, I wouldn't be able to go there.
 
KodytheLoadie said:
You fuck a drunk bar broad in the ass. Not a wife. if you didn't get any anal action in your single life, too bad, you missed out. You don't want your wife to have a loose tore up asshole, okay. ....
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Agree with the poster that dignified this with a one sentence response. WTF? I never did that at all until I was married for a few years and trusted him. First time for him too - MARRIED. Nearly speechless at your post, makes no sense at all. Nothing of mine is 'torn up?!' Wth? And he is way above average also ;).
 
Depending on the type of prostate massager, the usual way to start would be coat with lubricant and slowly insert into anus until the rectal muscles clench around the stem to keep it in place. She can try slowly moving the toy within you, rocking it backwards or forwards, slowly pulling it out then pressing it back in, or just leaving it in place to press against your prostate as she pleasures you in other ways. Some prostate massagers stay in place nicely once in and you could try intercourse with it in. If you want to start without the toy just have her lubricate a finger, insert it slowly once you are aroused, and have her curl it towards your front when inside to simulate the prostate. It will feel like a small swollen nub to her when she finds it.

And to everyone else going on about anal sex being disrespectful to the woman, I'm a woman that thoroughly enjoys anal sex. I would never want to be with someone that felt certain sex acts are shameful and only to be acted out with someone you have no feelings for. Exploring your sexuality with a trustworthy partner in a committed relationship is extremely healthy and rewarding. Anal play is very intimate for some and a certain modicum of trust is required between participants. Saying anal should stop at marriage is like saying blowjobs stop at marriage, an antiquated, prudish notion that makes me cringe. Whatever gets you or your partner off is completely valid and healthy to share in a sane, safe, and consensual way.
 
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