As I understand it, you believe that sex should only occur between a married couple
This is the best way for it to happen, and safest. It's the most responsible, and it is the highest expression of it, although my language needs some working here. It has the highest potential for being "righteous".
and they shouldn't use any form of birth control besides planning within the woman's cycle and waiting for that time period to boink if you're tryin not to get pregnant, yes?
Birth control alters hormones in undesirable ways, increases the risk of certain cancers, and is another thing that people come to depend on/lean on. If you can do it without, I think that is better.
Condoms as birth control are a barrier, and that isn't what I am going for when I want sex. And they give people a sense of security. Certain STDs still get spread, even with using condoms. Condoms and all of these forms of birth control give people incentive or allowance to be more free, and in ways, this makes them take things less seriously/possibly for granted. I don't see it as having much integrity on it's own, and should be eliminated if possible (if we're ready).
Edit: But I do see the "value" of these methods of birth control, including abortion, to a society/to people, that don't really know exactly, with precision and experience, what is valuable, and what truly weighs what to what, from the start.
You feel that abortion is wrong because people should never be impulsive or have sex outside of your pre-planned, married-people-only schedule, correct? Would I be going too far in assuming that you think sex shouldn't be had for pleasure and only used as a procreation method?
I think sex- that is fully open to the possibilities, has the highest potential, to be the most fulfilling.
I was mostly just razzing you when saying the bit about how my girl and I are white so no worries, but your anecdote about having knocked up a mixed girl and not wanting to thus have a mixed child makes it out like you wouldn't have aborted it if it was white, thus believing that other races are only good for fucking but not procreating because they would muddle your perfect heritage or something? Or would you aborted it if it was a white girl too?
That depends on the "white girl", but it would be a much harder decision to make (to terminate). It wasn't really my decision then, and I wouldn't have protested if she wanted to have it. In fact I considered asking her if she had considered, or would consider a planned adoption, but I didn't.
I don't really see myself being able to do it if I was in love with the person, and I'm much more likely to love a white girl like that. "I'm not ready" isn't really a valid excuse to me. I think if we're not ready we should be fixing our society so we're fucking ready.
