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I think this election is a complete game changer. Think about this, buzz feed just got thousands of rape claim submissions from 4chan.


4chan trolling with rape submissions just makes the whole movement look deplorable. If anything it will marginalize that group of people even more. Don't act like you just discovered the next Reagan because a bunch of idiots made rape submissions.
 
Lol the clintons and the Obamas hate each other. I swear these leaked emails are so interesting, you gain so much insight into the house of cards type situation the Clinton foundation has going. I read one today about Qatar giving WJC one million dollars for his birthday in 2011. "I'm with her" "and she's with the highest bidder" lmao

You guys must be doing hella mental gymnastics with these emails!

i agree hillary is crooooooked......basically anyone else couldve defeated her except an off-kilter, know nothing douchbag that is running now
 
I have an open question to all the men on this thread above the age of 21. IS it really an accurate reflection of locker room talk? I was watching the news yesterday and they were talking about the controversy and one of the male panelists said he never hears adult men talking like that. That in his opinion, it's not locker room all, it's what high school age immature boys talk like. But mature grown men do not.

I'm not a man so obviously I wouldn't have any idea if he's right not. I asked my bf and one of my best male friends and both also said that while men certainly say things they wouldn't want women to hear and we might find offensive, but not the kinda shit trump was recorded saying.

But, while I'm American, I live in Sydney Australia, and the two men I just referred to are Australian. So if occurs to me they only know how Australian men talk when women aren't around. I wanna know how American men talk when they think no women will ever hear what they said.

So I ask to the American men here on this thread. Do YOU routinely hear stuff like what trump said? And do you do it yourself or condone it from others? (I won't judge anyone or saying yes, I just wanna know what the truth is)

Men of other nationalities are welcome to give their experiences too of course, I'm curious if and how it varies from place to place. So just say where you heard whatever you heard (where you heard it not where you're from is what I'm looking for)

For American replies, if you're willing too id also interested in what state you were on when you heard whatever you heard.

Please be honest, neither answer will make any difference to me, his words are far from my main issue with trump. I'm just honestly curious now how men talk when women aren't around.

I can tell you that in my experience women definitely say different things when they think there are no men to hear it. But in my experience it's not generally talking about how much sex they have with men. But it must be kept in mind I only have one or two close female friends. I don't hang out with women that much, it just don't usually enjoy it for a wide variety of reasons. Yet while I have lots of close male friends, I'm certainly not so naive not to realize that they speak a little differently when I'm there than they would if it were just them and other men. I've overheard groups of men I know talking when they don't realize I can hear them. So I know they censor themselves a little if I'm around. I presume because they don't want to offend or upset me.

So guys. What do you think? Is trumps locker room talk in line with the locker room you talk well after high school? And where were you when you heard what you're describing. (state if from US, country if not please)

Thank you.
 
Trump is running away with this the establishishment world bankster media crime cartel is shook. The recent behavior of the MSM reeks of desperation, they've been exposed, their candidate is a treasonous dying psychopath with 30+ years of corruption.

If they count the votes it's a landslide for Trump and those who still love America. If they don't November 8th is not even close to the end of this movement.
 
^ (JessFR) No, if someone talked like that in my circle of friends, they would be ostracized in a second.

How anyone can vote for either of these two really baffles me.

Can anyone put together a coherent case for Clinton being terrible? I see a lot of people saying she's evil and terrible, but very little actual substance. Most of the criticisms are around falsehoods or things that happened as a result of policies enacted during her husband's tenure. I get the criticisms of the DNC and the media for manipulating the election against Bernie, but I think that is more a criticism of the system than her as a candidate. So, make the case to me. What makes Hillary so terrible as to put her on par with Trump?
 
I have an open question to all the men on this thread above the age of 21. IS it really an accurate reflection of locker room talk? I was watching the news yesterday and they were talking about the controversy and one of the male panelists said he never hears adult men talking like that. That in his opinion, it's not locker room all, it's what high school age immature boys talk like. But mature grown men do not.

I'm not a man so obviously I wouldn't have any idea if he's right not. I asked my bf and one of my best male friends and both also said that while men certainly say things they wouldn't want women to hear and we might find offensive, but not the kinda shit trump was recorded saying.

But, while I'm American, I live in Sydney Australia, and the two men I just referred to are Australian. So if occurs to me they only know how Australian men talk when women aren't around. I wanna know how American men talk when they think no women will ever hear what they said.

So I ask to the American men here on this thread. Do YOU routinely hear stuff like what trump said? And do you do it yourself or condone it from others? (I won't judge anyone or saying yes, I just wanna know what the truth is)

Men of other nationalities are welcome to give their experiences too of course, I'm curious if and how it varies from place to place. So just say where you heard whatever you heard (where you heard it not where you're from is what I'm looking for)

For American replies, if you're willing too id also interested in what state you were on when you heard whatever you heard.

Please be honest, neither answer will make any difference to me, his words are far from my main issue with trump. I'm just honestly curious now how men talk when women aren't around.

I can tell you that in my experience women definitely say different things when they think there are no men to hear it. But in my experience it's not generally talking about how much sex they have with men. But it must be kept in mind I only have one or two close female friends. I don't hang out with women that much, it just don't usually enjoy it for a wide variety of reasons. Yet while I have lots of close male friends, I'm certainly not so naive not to realize that they speak a little differently when I'm there than they would if it were just them and other men. I've overheard groups of men I know talking when they don't realize I can hear them. So I know they censor themselves a little if I'm around. I presume because they don't want to offend or upset me.

So guys. What do you think? Is trumps locker room talk in line with the locker room you talk well after high school? And where were you when you heard what you're describing. (state if from US, country if not please)

Thank you.
Live in Tennessee. I was at the pool hall the other night and my buddy was talking about this girl he seeing and how she has her pussy lips pierced and how she was wearing a skirt the other day and he kept grabbing her by them to get her attention when she walked in front him. Granted they have known each other for a few weeks. If your average man had the same wealth as Trump they would make similar claims. I have certainly spoken equally as vulgar. Your male feminists, hard line liberals, shills are the only ones that are going to feed you the BS shock and awe outrage imho
Trump is running away with this the establishishment world bankster media crime cartel is shook. The recent behavior of the MSM reeks of desperation, they've been exposed, their candidate is a treasonous dying psychopath with 30+ years of corruption.

If they count the votes it's a landslide for Trump and those who still love America. If they don't November 8th is not even close to the end of this movement.
Hopefully! MAGA
 
^ (JessFR) No, if someone talked like that in my circle of friends, they would be ostracized in a second.



Can anyone put together a coherent case for Clinton being terrible? I see a lot of people saying she's evil and terrible, but very little actual substance. Most of the criticisms are around falsehoods or things that happened as a result of policies enacted during her husband's tenure. I get the criticisms of the DNC and the media for manipulating the election against Bernie, but I think that is more a criticism of the system than her as a candidate. So, make the case to me. What makes Hillary so terrible as to put her on par with Trump?
I dont think you get it imo.
https://wikileaks.org/podesta-emails/emailid/5512
Re: Bernie Contrast in Nevada

From:[email protected] To: [email protected] Date: 2016-01-06 18:27 Subject: Re: Bernie Contrast in Nevada

I believe we started out the campaign about 20 points behind Sanders in Iowa on the question of who would best stand up to Wall Street and that was when we were about 40 points ahead. If you want to make the question of the campaign, who will best stand up to Wall Street, Sanders is the answer and he'll give you $35 million reasons why. We have good strong things to say about our plans and we have a great whack on the GOP. I don't know why we would choose to fight this out on Sanders best turf, Mandy Grunwald Grunwald Communications 202 973-9400 > On Jan 6, 2016, at 3:20 PM, Jake Sullivan <[email protected]> wrote: > > Why is it not credible that he has really dumb plans for Wall Street? > > From: Mandy Grunwald [mailto:[email protected]] > Sent: Wednesday, January 6, 2016 3:07 PM > To: Jake Sullivan <[email protected]> > Cc: Dan Schwerin <[email protected]>; Jennifer Palmieri <[email protected]>; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; Kristina Schake <[email protected]> > Subject: Re: Bernie Contrast in Nevada > > We don't need to prove he's bad on Wall Street-- that's not really credible. > > We need to prove we're ok. > > Most of all, we don't want this fight. > > That's my view. > > > > Mandy Grunwald > Grunwald Communications > 202 973-9400 > > > > On Jan 6, 2016, at 1:50 PM, Jake Sullivan <[email protected]> wrote: > > My concern on this continues to be that Bernie gets to whack her around and she is purely positive to him in reply. > > > > From: Mandy Grunwald [mailto:[email protected]] > Sent: Wednesday, January 6, 2016 1:46 PM > To: [email protected]; [email protected] > Cc: [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected]; [email protected] > Subject: Re: Bernie Contrast in Nevada > > > If HRC is asked about Sanders' Wall Street comments, can I suggest this as a response? > > I know Senator Sanders attacked me on this, that his choice. But the truth is, he and I both want to crack down on the risky behavior on Wall Street, we both want to make sure people go to jail when they cross the line. I think my plan is tougher because it also cracks down on the shadow banking world but the real difference is that every single Republican wants to get RID of the new financial regulations. I am going to make sure that that does not happen. We shouldn't be easing up on the kind of behavior that crashed our economy. We should be strengthening accountability so that never happens again. That's what's at stake in this election. > > Mandy Grunwald > Grunwald Communications > 202 973-9400 > > > -----Original Message----- > From: Jake Sullivan <[email protected]> > To: Dan Schwerin <[email protected]> > Cc: Mandy Grunwald <[email protected]>; Jennifer Palmieri <[email protected]>; Huma Abedin <[email protected]>; John Podesta <[email protected]>; Robby Mook <[email protected]>; Joel Benenson <[email protected]>; Jim <[email protected]>; Kristina Schake <[email protected]> > Sent: Wed, Jan 6, 2016 10:45 am > Subject: Re: Bernie Contrast in Nevada > > I think this is good. What do others think? > > > On Jan 6, 2016, at 9:42 AM, Dan Schwerin <[email protected]> wrote: > > Thanks for the helpful guidance this morning. In the hopes of not going to her empty handed, I wanted to float an alternative riff: > > Now, my opponents here tonight have a lot of good ideas and we share a lot of the same values. The differences between us pale compared to what we see on the other side. But your choice in this primary really matters. Because we need a President who has what it takes to make a real difference for American families. A President who can get the job done not just on a few issues, but on all the complex challenges we’re facing. You’re not going to raise incomes for middle class families by raising their taxes. You’re not going to ease their burdens by making them pay for Donald Trump’s kids to go to college for free. And you’re not going to stop the drug companies and big insurers from ripping off consumers by tearing up the Affordable Care Act and forcing America to start another contentious health care debate back at square one – that just plays into their hands. I have plans that will actually help families get ahead and stay ahead… that will make the wealthy pay their fair share, hold corporate price gougers, polluters, and Wall Street speculators accountable, and prevent the Republicans from taking us backwards. And you can count on me to get the job done. I know how to find common ground and I know how to stand my ground... > > On Wed, Jan 6, 2016 at 6:47 AM, Mandy Grunwald <[email protected]> wrote: > Jen, > I agree with you. Bernie wants a fight on a Wall Street. We should not give him one. Our polling shows this is one of our weakest areas. > > Further, our Wall Street approach has always been to agree about the problem, show passion about it, and say we have a better approach to holding the rascals accountable. The magic wand approach is very much what she used against BHO - > > . > > Mandy Grunwald > Grunwald Communications > 202 973-9400 > > > On Jan 6, 2016, at 1:25 AM, Jennifer Palmieri <[email protected]> wrote: > > I liked messing with Bernie on wall street at a staff level for the purposes of muddying the waters and throwing them off their game a bit. But don't know that it is most effective contrast for her. Seems like we are picking the fight he wants to have. If we really want to do this, think your formulation is good but not convinced it is a good idea. > > I would also try to get less process and more values/outcomes in the sentence about being able to do all parts of the job. Give people as sense of her doing the whole job as POTUS is going to improve their life. > > Sent from my iPhone > > On Jan 6, 2016, at 12:54 AM, Dan Schwerin <[email protected]> wrote: > > HRC does not want to call Bernie out by name in her speech Wednesday night, but she does want to drive a more effective and comprehensive contrast with him. In particular, she's keen to find a way to keep going after him on Wall Street (she's convinced his plan is naive and unworkable) as part of a broader indictment. > > Today in Iowa, she was asked directly about her differences with Bernie and she gave an answer that leaned more heavily on "experience" than we'd probably like and also did a shadow banking hit. Then in her next event, she started talking explicitly about "electability." As Jen said and HRC agreed, we need to give her a better formulation. > > For the purposes of the Nevada dinner speech, Jake and I put our heads together and came up with a riff that keeps her in the "has what it takes to get the job done" frame and scratches her Wall Street itch without going down a rabbit hole. Pasted below with full speech attached. What do folks think? Could we discuss on 8am? > > Now, my opponents here tonight have a lot of good ideas and we share a lot of the same values. The differences between us pale compared to what we see on the other side. But your choice in this primary really matters. Because we need a President who has what it takes to make a difference in your life. A President who can get the job done not just on a few issues, but on all the complex challenges we’re facing. > > Americans don’t want promises we can’t keep, they want real results. > > Anyone can say they’ll build a global coalition to defeat global jihad. But I know what it takes – a lot of hard work, shoe-leather diplomacy, and deep relationships. > > Anyone can say they’ll sit in a room with their Treasury Secretary and fix all the problems in our financial system in a few months. But that’s not how things actually get done. You need a comprehensive strategy to work with Congress, the Federal Reserve, and all our regulators to go after risk throughout the financial system. > > There’s no magic wand in the White House. That’s why we need a President who has what it takes to get results. > > I know it’s not going to be easy to break through the dysfunction in Washington. But I know how to find common ground and I know how to stand my ground... > > > > <2016-01-05 NV dinner - 930pm PT.docx> >
 
Live in Tennessee. I was at the pool hall the other night and my buddy was talking about this girl he seeing and how she has her pussy lips pierced and how she was wearing a skirt the other day and he kept grabbing her by them to get her attention when she walked in front him. Granted they have known each other for a few weeks. If your average man had the same wealth as Trump they would make similar claims. I have certainly spoken equally as vulgar. Your male feminists, hard line liberals, shills are the only ones that are going to feed you the BS shock and awe outrage imho

I don't really have a problem with men making vulgar statements like you describe to each other. That is not, in itself, something I have a big problem with. I mean I certainly don't want to hear it and find it kinda disgusting, and if men I know and like talk like that to their buddies, then I'm glad they respect me enough to not talk like that around me, because while I don't have a problem with them doing it, it's true I wouldn't want to hear it.

But that doesn't sound quite the same as what going on with trump. It being vulgar isn't itself the problem, for me anyway. Where I draw the line is if men talk to each other like women are objects or their property or less than human or don't have a right to say no. And say it in a way that sounds like they actually mean it (I have no problem with obscene jokes that SOUND like it's saying those things, but are purely for laughs, not serious. And understandably sometimes it can be hard for people to tell the two apart. I for example tell racist jokes all the time, hell I tell sexist jokes against women myself, but because I am a woman I tend to think it's fairly obvious it's just a joke).

It's a tricky line to draw and define. If I thought that trumps comments were simply off color remarks that aren't serious,I wouldn't have a problem with it, in fact id defend him. The problem is, when taken in context of so many other things he's said in other contexts ,and various other revelations that seem to come out one after the other. And when you out it all together. It sounds like he really does reside on the wrong side of the line here. And I will not tolerate people who don't respect women. I'm a fan of pushing the boundaries in jokes and comedy, and saying rude or obscene stuff for laughs. For example I've made piles of jokes about Michael Jackson being a kiddy rapist. But the thing is, I make those jokes because I actually DON'T think he touched those kids. I think he was innocent and I think he was a good man. If I thought he was guilty I wouldn't joke about it, it wouldn't be funny anymore.

So while saying those kinds of things about women aren't amusing to ME, I can understand it as being just humorous banter between buddies. You have to know your audience for these kinds of comments and remarks. Like family guy. I love family guy. Now family guy have made jokes about subjects that I have not found funny, that I've found upsetting. But I've also laughed like crazy at piles of jokes they've made that wouldn't be funny to someone else. I hear people say how family guy shouldn't joke about rape and how it's not funny etc etc. I'm a victim of childhood abuse and rape and I've found some if family guys content unfunny for that reason. But I'm not a hypocrite. I get that in this genre of humor, one I really enjoy, you have to accept that sometimes there will be things you don't find funny. Just skip those episodes, and enjoy the rest. That's what I do. And I don't agree with people who think shows like family guy or south park should censor themselves for my benefit or protection. Because if they do it for me, they have to do it for everything and everyone else. And then there will be nothing left.

The reason I bring this up is to explain that if trumps comments really are just locker room banter and don't reflect the man himself, I could believe that, and not only would I not hold it against him, I wouldn't even think he should be made to apologize either.

But that's the thing,it doesn't seem to be JUST locker room banter as he calls it. Even if this one particular example we're talking about IS. It's looking more and more like the allegations of his sexual conduct are true. And that is not ok. That is outright unacceptable and criminal. No matter how rich he is he has no right to do even the mildest of the accusations that have been thrown at him.

And unfortunately, I believe they're true. That is what I care about. Not the so called locker room banter.

But anyhow,thank you for your story and insight droppers, I appreciate it. Putting trump aside, I am curious how true it is or isnt that some groups of grown, mature, adult men talk like that. And to what degree it's just talk, and doesn't reflect how they treat women in real life.

I'd love to hear more thoughts by other men here if anyone can spare the time to provide more stories or opinions or insight into my question.
 
Idk I never payed attention to past elections because both the candidates were the same. The polls and the media have been pretty bad at predicting tump from the get go, so I'm gonna stay positive.


The polls actually predicted Trump would win from the beginning the people that made the polls thought they where wrong and went with their emotions that Trump couldn't win instead.
 
Trump is running away with this the establishishment world bankster media crime cartel is shook. The recent behavior of the MSM reeks of desperation, they've been exposed, their candidate is a treasonous dying psychopath with 30+ years of corruption.

If they count the votes it's a landslide for Trump and those who still love America. If they don't November 8th is not even close to the end of this movement.

I continually find that many groups of people simply refuse to show enough respect or interest in the opinions of others to really let themselves believe that a lot of people really legitimately don't share their opinion.

It's even worse now in the Facebook era where most people build their own social echo chamber where all they see is everyone around hem agreeing with then. And in their mind, their peers are "the people", and anyone else is "them".

An example is say back with Obamacare. And both sides refusing to believe that a lot of people legitimately don't share their opinions.
And then there are the large number of people who are quiet, say nothing,go unnoticed, but vote and don't reflect your politics.

In Australia,there's an obscene amount of rules about safety and protecting people from themselves. And it's because there's a lot of people who are just utterly incapable of accepting the rational, sane, legitimate opinions of many people to elect to NOT live a life obsessed with safety and health. Who DON'T want to live forever, or AREN'T terrified of dying. Like BASE jumpers or motorbike riders. People with an interest that is dangerous, but it's their life,they know the risks and rationally elect to take them because that's how they want to live their life. They have a different outlook that is just as legitimate. But many with power in this country utterly refuse to believe that they rationally have a right to that lifestyle. They think they need to be protected from their immature recklessness. They think they reflect everyone else and the niche groups don't count.

A lot of americans hate trump. A HELL OF A LOT of female Americans hate trump. Don't delude yourself into thinking the voting population is more like you than they are. You don't have to agree with them, but you're fooling yourself by thinking they don't exist.

So don't be so blind as to forget how many groups vote and how big some of them are and that many of them aren't white men.

And some of those groups are much less loud than others making it easy to forget them or get mistaken ideas about the odds. I really don't see trump winning by a landslide in a fair election. I increasingly don't see him winning at all.

I don't like Clinton either. A lot of the people who will be voting for her don't like her. They just simply wont risk trump. And don't hate her for the same and aggressively intense reasons you do.

I hate trump. But don't for one moment try and tell me I don't love America. I do. America is my country and I love her and I despair that these two are the choices we have to lead this great country. I find it horribly depressing and keep wondering now did our system fail is so tremendously. And what does America's future look like with either of them.

I don't trust Clinton, I don't like her. I don't believe her.

But I follow my instincts and my instincts tell me that the accusations about trumps sexual misconduct are almost certainly true. And like I said,I love this country and I do NOT want my country or the American people to have to suffer the embarrassment of trumps misconduct being proven while he's in office. It's too horrible to think about almost. And then it'll be in the history books forever. A mistake like nixon that can't ever be fully undone. Clintons bad, but as bad as she is, trumps a risk I don't think the country can afford.

You call Clinton a traitor. You think EITHER of them are in this for America's interests? They're both in it for themselves. Trump is in this for trump, he's not in this because he's such a wonderful patriot. And he doesn't strike me at all as a believer in the values I for one believe make this country great. This country started as a country of immigrants. And we've long been a successful melting pot. And trump is the polar opposite of not only that, but other ideals I for one think of when I think of what makes America unique and great.

So never dare say I don't love America, and I don't want a trump presidency, so by extension, rejecting trump has nothing to do with loving America. Loving America is part of WHY I reject trump. And it's not just what the media says about him. A lot of why I hate him is the things he says himself. He does not strike me as someone who will understand and respect the concept of separation of powers and that the president is not a dictator. Not a boss of a private company.
 
I have an open question to all the men on this thread above the age of 21. IS it really an accurate reflection of locker room talk? I was watching the news yesterday and they were talking about the controversy and one of the male panelists said he never hears adult men talking like that. That in his opinion, it's not locker room all, it's what high school age immature boys talk like. But mature grown men do not.

I'm not a man so obviously I wouldn't have any idea if he's right not. I asked my bf and one of my best male friends and both also said that while men certainly say things they wouldn't want women to hear and we might find offensive, but not the kinda shit trump was recorded saying.

But, while I'm American, I live in Sydney Australia, and the two men I just referred to are Australian. So if occurs to me they only know how Australian men talk when women aren't around. I wanna know how American men talk when they think no women will ever hear what they said.

So I ask to the American men here on this thread. Do YOU routinely hear stuff like what trump said? And do you do it yourself or condone it from others? (I won't judge anyone or saying yes, I just wanna know what the truth is)

Men of other nationalities are welcome to give their experiences too of course, I'm curious if and how it varies from place to place. So just say where you heard whatever you heard (where you heard it not where you're from is what I'm looking for)

For American replies, if you're willing too id also interested in what state you were on when you heard whatever you heard.

Please be honest, neither answer will make any difference to me, his words are far from my main issue with trump. I'm just honestly curious now how men talk when women aren't around.

I can tell you that in my experience women definitely say different things when they think there are no men to hear it. But in my experience it's not generally talking about how much sex they have with men. But it must be kept in mind I only have one or two close female friends. I don't hang out with women that much, it just don't usually enjoy it for a wide variety of reasons. Yet while I have lots of close male friends, I'm certainly not so naive not to realize that they speak a little differently when I'm there than they would if it were just them and other men. I've overheard groups of men I know talking when they don't realize I can hear them. So I know they censor themselves a little if I'm around. I presume because they don't want to offend or upset me.

So guys. What do you think? Is trumps locker room talk in line with the locker room you talk well after high school? And where were you when you heard what you're describing. (state if from US, country if not please)

Thank you.

No one talks like that after middle school.
 
Am I honestly the only one that wasn't offended or shocked by his locker room talk? It's like all the men in the U.S. Turned into dainty rose petals all the sudden.

"You are the company you keep"

It would be an instance of mentally Xing someone off from meeting my friends or family if Trump was just a regular schmuck.

He is the GOP candidate for president of the USA, and now we have yet ANOTHER instance of someone who is clearly unfit to represent the US. Also, it is important to not forget he was a ~60 year old married man when he said this shit. Creepy old pervert. About the only thing that makes this situation borderline acceptable is something along the lines of, "I'm so sorry, my father/grandfather has severe dementia, and thought your vagina was the TV remote".

There is a big difference between a dirty joke or being freaky with your current partner, and bragging about sexual harassment. Trump is a scumbag, and would be the guy at the club you warn your little sister about.

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No one talks like that after middle school.

That was my impression, but for obvious reasons I wouldn't have a very good idea about what groups of male friends say to each other in private about sex.

I tend to think the more you talk and brag or boast or bring up a particular subject, the less likely what you say about that subject in relation to yourself is true. And or that you're extremely insecure about it. In this case, the more you brag about sex, the more I think you probably don't have much sex. Now trumps very wealthy so he could get as much sex as he wants.... With hookers. So while it may not be the case that this means he doesn't have much sex, not to mention he's married, but he could very well be very insecure about it. Maybe deep down he's afraid that if he weren't rich, no woman would ever be attracted to him for sex.

I'm of course just speculating. It could be something else entirely. Maybe he really is so deluded as to think women just can't help but throw themselves at him, not because of his money, but because of him. It would explain a lot. Like why he attacked those women. He probably thought they wanted it or would like it. Hell it wouldn't surprise me if he still believes it now but knows that he can't say it and use that excuse in public because in his mind "the Public would misinterpret/be jealous and it would lower my chances". Who knows.

He strikes me as a man who has a very low tolerance for not getting his way. And is the most openly and ashamedly arrogant presidential candidate I've seen yet. And I hate people like that.

I think he's a horrible person from everything I've seen. Clinton isn't exactly a wonderful person either, but unfortunately for the time being it's one or the other. And id rather have Clinton than this pig of a man. By far the number one cause of my newfound disgust and contempt for trump,is trump himself. The things he's said and done. The debates, the second one especially.
 
Yep I agree with all that as well, except I think trump won the last debate. Only because he got in a bunch of things that needed to be said, on such a large stage. Of course she is better at debating she has been doing it for 30 years. He absolutely does the last debate and does more of the same. I thought at first, that he could not learn or get better at it, but it appears he has to a certain degree. Hopefully wiki leaks drops a photo of Hilary eating a fetus, bc that is what we need for the dumb ass masses.

I'm generally of the school of thought that nobody wins presidential debates. The debates are a show where both candidates just do more campaigning, just aimed at each other. It's not a real debate. Neither side argues merits or fully obeys the rules and almost never directly answer questions properly.

In parliamentary Westminster based systems, such as the UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, etc, only the judiciary is truly a separate branch of government from the rest. Unlike the US congressional system where legislative, executive and judicial are all seperate, in Westminster parliamentary systems, the judiciary is separate but the executive is made up of a subset of the legislature. The two are linked and ministers of the government, like secretaries of departments in our system, all have a vote of their own in the legislature, as does the head of government... E.g. The prime minister in parliaments and the president in our system.

The reason I bring this up, is that parliamentary systems such as these generally have what's known as question time. A time of the day, every day, where members of the lower house in bicameral systems, (generally called the house of representatives like ours is, but called the house of commons in the UK) ask the members of the house who are part of the selection of members who also make up the executive, the cabinet, questions that they are supposed to have to answer. Now in practice they of course do everything they can to dodge embarrassing questions and spend a lot of time just outright attacking each other.

Our presidential debates are the closest thing we have, apart from some small similarities in the form of the state of the union address, to the question time in those systems. It's quite similar in actual practice. Both candidates are asked questions they routinely dodge the answer too, and frequently just go on the attack on their opponent. Our debates are much more like a parliamentary question time than they are like a real debate. We just call it a debate.

And there are no winners or losers. If you're a supporter of Clinton you think she win, if you're a supporter of trump you think he won, and that's the way its always been. How would you even to about objectively declaring a winner? Is the winner the one who made the best argument for their platform? Cause trump barely mentioned a platform and spent most of his time attacking Clinton. Clinton mentioned more in the way of plans but like all political plans preeleection they are vague and nonbinding. Is the winner whoever comes out of it with the biggest boost to their odds? In that case Clinton won.

Perhaps there should be a hundred supposedly undecided voters who until now have been paying little attention to the election, and whoever the majority of them declare the winner by the end of the debate is the winner? That's somewhat similar to how Australian prime ministerial debates have worked on some broadcast networks. But the network itself can be biased in choosing the audience. Should the moderators decide?

Who wins is whoever you already were leaning to anyway for most people. I pretty much hated both prior to the debates, my personal view is that if there is a winner,it was Clinton. The first debate was more of a toss up for me, but the second felt to me like brutal defeat for trump. Now obviously trump supporters won't see it that way. They see him on the attack against Clinton, which they love to see, and agree with everything trump says about her. But that's hardly an objective way to pick a winner. All the Clinton voters or trump haters will see what they want to see, and say the same unqualified victory only for Clinton.

Even I don't think I can be unbiased here. But to the best of my attempt to do so, going based on what I think their behavior in the debate did for their chances for victory, which seems to me to be the only sensible way to declare a winner given the whole point of the so called debate to start with, to convince the America people to vote for them. On that basis, I would have called the first debate, which I admir I didn't see all of, I missed the first 20 minutes,something of a toss up. But the second one was a major loss for trump. Not because Clinton did so well but because he did so poorly. Clinton DID do well IMO. I felt she came off as likable, relatable, personable, which is all the things I'm sure her campaign has been training her how to do leading up to it. It's all an act. But that combined with not letting trump get her too off message, she did fine. Good enough with what she had to work with.

Trump on other hand, I felt he did more damage to himself that she could have ever hoped to have achieved. All the things he has troubles with to begin with. Seeming arrogant, dictatorial, like a bully, like a disgusting person who's low attacks are unbefitting a man who would be president. And not only that, like a crybaby too. Dominating the debate. Neither of them completely stuck to the rules, but he went so far outside the rules it was impossible to ignore. Problem is. Clinton would go a little over time,so in his mind he had to one up her by going a little bit more over time. Then getting mad when the moderators stepped in. Getting off on tangents' about bill Clinton. But that was stupid. Bill Clinton's affair is long forgotten, all bringing it up did was to further cement the ideas of sexual assault, and Donald trump, as connected in the minds of the moderates and fence sitters and swing votees. The ones that matter.

All his worst liabilities, he reenforced. Maybe Clinton didn't win the debate, but trump definitely lost.

And indeed you're right. Trump is at a major disadvantage. Hillary Clinton is an expert politician, in the debates, this is her element. Her world. It's not trumps, and worse than that he doesn't seem to listen to his advisors to, even if he can't really win, at least not do more damage to his campaign than his opponent did.

I've watched every debate since I got into politics when I was about 15-16 or so, back with the second george w bush election in 04.

The second Clinton v trump debate is the only one where I felt someone truly won since Obama. And Obama only won because, and don't get me wrong, I hate Obama even more than Clinton. But Obama is nothing if not an excellent public speaker.

I mean... I felt Sarah palin did a better job in her vp debate than trump did in the last one.

God knows what train wreck will be in store for the final debate.
 
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^ (JessFR) No, if someone talked like that in my circle of friends, they would be ostracized in a second.
Yep.
I know a couple of guys who have had demonstrably false sexual assault allegations made against them get ostracised and threatened with violence.

If dont know anyone that would listen to some old creep talk about how he molests women, but it's one of those "back away and don't let him get too close to any women around you" situations...
 
I don't really have a problem with men making vulgar statements like you describe to each other. That is not, in itself, something I have a big problem with. I mean I certainly don't want to hear it and find it kinda disgusting, and if men I know and like talk like that to their buddies, then I'm glad they respect me enough to not talk like that around me, because while I don't have a problem with them doing it, it's true I wouldn't want to hear it.

But that doesn't sound quite the same as what going on with trump. It being vulgar isn't itself the problem, for me anyway. Where I draw the line is if men talk to each other like women are objects or their property or less than human or don't have a right to say no. And say it in a way that sounds like they actually mean it (I have no problem with obscene jokes that SOUND like it's saying those things, but are purely for laughs, not serious. And understandably sometimes it can be hard for people to tell the two apart. I for example tell racist jokes all the time, hell I tell sexist jokes against women myself, but because I am a woman I tend to think it's fairly obvious it's just a joke).

It's a tricky line to draw and define. If I thought that trumps comments were simply off color remarks that aren't serious,I wouldn't have a problem with it, in fact id defend him. The problem is, when taken in context of so many other things he's said in other contexts ,and various other revelations that seem to come out one after the other. And when you out it all together. It sounds like he really does reside on the wrong side of the line here. And I will not tolerate people who don't respect women. I'm a fan of pushing the boundaries in jokes and comedy, and saying rude or obscene stuff for laughs. For example I've made piles of jokes about Michael Jackson being a kiddy rapist. But the thing is, I make those jokes because I actually DON'T think he touched those kids. I think he was innocent and I think he was a good man. If I thought he was guilty I wouldn't joke about it, it wouldn't be funny anymore.

So while saying those kinds of things about women aren't amusing to ME, I can understand it as being just humorous banter between buddies. You have to know your audience for these kinds of comments and remarks. Like family guy. I love family guy. Now family guy have made jokes about subjects that I have not found funny, that I've found upsetting. But I've also laughed like crazy at piles of jokes they've made that wouldn't be funny to someone else. I hear people say how family guy shouldn't joke about rape and how it's not funny etc etc. I'm a victim of childhood abuse and rape and I've found some if family guys content unfunny for that reason. But I'm not a hypocrite. I get that in this genre of humor, one I really enjoy, you have to accept that sometimes there will be things you don't find funny. Just skip those episodes, and enjoy the rest. That's what I do. And I don't agree with people who think shows like family guy or south park should censor themselves for my benefit or protection. Because if they do it for me, they have to do it for everything and everyone else. And then there will be nothing left.

The reason I bring this up is to explain that if trumps comments really are just locker room banter and don't reflect the man himself, I could believe that, and not only would I not hold it against him, I wouldn't even think he should be made to apologize either.

But that's the thing,it doesn't seem to be JUST locker room banter as he calls it. Even if this one particular example we're talking about IS. It's looking more and more like the allegations of his sexual conduct are true. And that is not ok. That is outright unacceptable and criminal. No matter how rich he is he has no right to do even the mildest of the accusations that have been thrown at him.

And unfortunately, I believe they're true. That is what I care about. Not the so called locker room banter.

But anyhow,thank you for your story and insight droppers, I appreciate it. Putting trump aside, I am curious how true it is or isnt that some groups of grown, mature, adult men talk like that. And to what degree it's just talk, and doesn't reflect how they treat women in real life.

I'd love to hear more thoughts by other men here if anyone can spare the time to provide more stories or opinions or insight into my question.
I see your concerns, completely. When I listened to that i didn't hear that, but I can say that what he said approached a line. My head scratcher is how does the person, largely the media has characterized, have such strong- smart women all around him. Ivanca is clearly her fathers daughter. Do you think she could secretly despise him??
Look you are taking the bait. We have a candidate that said bad things while the other is a 30 year career criminal that wants to continue to do the same things the last two presidents have done. Like further eroding civil liberties, further dividing the class/electorate, giving into globalist demand, and so much more. Hilary's speeches to wallstreet tell you all this and more.

In trump you have the last chance at putting a person relatively outside of the political elite class to shake things up. Look at how badly both sides do not want him in there. And don't give me anything about other republicans being alter boys or altruistic lol. I personally think the man is terrible for the job, but the lesser of two evils. At the least he gets nothing done in four years and at the best he burns the office down so we rebuild with a completely different system.
There are already rumblings of the gop going to a superdelegate system. Much like the one that helped screw Bernie.
Jess it is hard, but you have to look big picture. You have to be at least slightly questioning why the media is in melt down mode and 247 attack. I bet if you turn it on CNN right now they are ripping apart trump.
 
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