gatinho is common in portuguese language, it means like a cute cat in a figurative sense.. I like being called like that (men and women) I feel like a protector, it is my responsibility to protect my partners, providing drugs, doing private security, you know, we live in Brazil, that's sometimes can be a hell, and then, embedded from this feeling of protection, they turn out to be more and more passive, the protector is the same who penetrates, it is the same the gives pleasure, it is a mixture of desire and admiration and respect... that's when passivity arises at its most