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⫸Trans and LGBTQIA+ Discussion⫷

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DeathIndustrial88 said:
I don't think your average gay dude gets enough representation when it comes to LGBTQ matters.
We're basically the "straight white males" of the LGBTQ crowd.

Most of the gay guys I've met in my life were similar to me & just regular dudes. But you still see the flamboyant or trans type gay guys represented more than the others. And often they become the "spokesperson" for the entire LGBTQ crowd. I think if we had guys like me out there speaking, it would show "the other side" that gay people are also just every day people. We aren't all trans or flamboyant or anything. It was somewhat like this too before the whole trans thing came to the forefront.

So with that & the whole gender issue (i'm not even sure what the mainstream consensus is anymore. Is there no such thing as gender? Or is there?) Would it make me transphobic if i didn't wanna be with a trans male who use to be a woman? Or is it still okay these days that I prefer biological males? Cause I've been called transphobic for thinking that way, but if that's true, in that sense it's "erasing" my gayness because I'm expected to be attracted to both genders now. Which I obviously have no control over that. lol I'm attracted to men who look like men, not men who look like women or women who look like men. I don't see anything wrong with that either because that's what being gay is.

I do think there is a spectrum when it comes to sexuality & gender fluidity. Like I said earlier, we assign a lot of regular human traits to genders. Like being emotional makes you "feminine" or "weaker", when in reality it's okay for a man to be emotional & still be a man.

There's just so much to unpack & process that I think society will be still talking about these issues years from now.
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DeathIndustrial88 said:
Some trans/queer people say there is no such thing as genders.
And then some say there are 2++ genders. So that's really confusing.

I think there's male, female, intersex/hermaphrodites & trans people.

If there were no such thing as gender though, then "gay" couldn't exist either, because being gay relies on some one being attracted to the same sex/gender.

I also worry about the push to get kids to transition. I went through a flamboyant stage as a kid (my favorite band was TLC in the early 90's, I loved dressing like T-Boz & Left-eye lol), but it was just a phase & I grew out of it. Once I hit puberty, I got hairy & started becoming more masculine. And I'm completely happy with being a male/man today. But I wonder how many kids out there are gonna be like me, just gay & going through phases & then they transition & it ruins their life.

So there's a lot I don't understand. I'll support trans & queer people no matter what though. Cause in the end, it's a human rights issue.

Hell, I could say I have some feminine qualities still (I'm pretty sensitive, in touch with my emotions, maybe a bit neurotic) but those are just human qualities to me. Doesn't make me a girl or make me any less of a man because I have more feelings than the average cold hearted douche. lol
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The badly kept secret is that the majority of trans people really hate gay and bisexual men and women, heterosexual people, and anyone who is not trans. It is not only on social media but in real life as well. They are very homophobic and biphobic, and get super angry and hateful when we LGB people achieve rights we have fought decades for. Despite what the TRA/trans agenda claims with false revisionist history trans women were not involved at or involved in the Stonewall demonstrations. I know multiple gay and bisexual men and women who were at the Stonewall demonstrations and trans people were not there and not involved, and did nothing to help fight for LGB rights. The vast majority or almost everyone involved at the Stonewall demonstrations was European/white and not "of color".

Trans people want to erase or destroy gay/homosexual men and women, bisexual men and women, and now have to identify as pansexual-which is another term for being bisexual, or the homophobic/biphobic slur 'queer'.

Trans people get triggered and angry that we will not fuck/date/marry them.

In reality we are being honest and nobody should be forced to have sex, date anyone. If I do not want to fuck or date a man or woman or anyone for any reason that is my right.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
The badly kept secret is that

The badly kept secret is that the majority of trans people really hate gay and bisexual men and women, heterosexual people, and anyone who is not trans. It is not only on social media but in real life as well. They are very homophobic and biphobic, and get super angry and hateful when we LGB people achieve rights we have fought decades for. Despite what the TRA/trans agenda claims with false revisionist history trans women were not involved at or involved in the Stonewall demonstrations. I know multiple gay and bisexual men and women who were at the Stonewall demonstrations and trans people were not there and not involved, and did nothing to help fight for LGB rights. The vast majority or almost everyone involved at the Stonewall demonstrations was European/white and not "of color".

Trans people want to erase or destroy gay/homosexual men and women, bisexual men and women, and now have to identify as pansexual-which is another term for being bisexual, or the homophobic/biphobic slur 'queer'.

Trans people get triggered and angry that we will not fuck/date/marry them.

In reality we are being honest and nobody should be forced to have sex, date anyone. If I do not want to fuck or date a man or woman or anyone for any reason that is my right.
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I can't disagree with any of that,
It was white, "CIS" men at stonewall who fought for gay rights.

I haven't met enough trans people in my day to day life to really have an opinion of them though.

I've talked to a few who seemed really genuine & sweet, but yeah.

This whole trans thing is taking everything people fought for (before I was even born) and going backwards with it.

I've also noticed that some heterosexual men with a fetish for dressing in women's clothes are also jumping on the trans train.
But a fetish is just that, a fetish & it should be kept at home in your bedroom.

I dunno, there's just so much wrong with the world today regarding sexuality & race. Especially in the US anyways.
And it feels like we made a lot of progress just 10 years ago or so. Sure, there will always be white supremacists & extremists out there but for the most part society got a long for awhile. And now all of that is being undone with all this "woke" shit. And it's not just the woke stuff but the reactions by "conservatives" that are having an effect, You got people on the "right" calling the "left" snowflakes, but then they flip out over a beer can. lol It's just ridiculous & it seems like people are extremely brainwashed & dropping IQ points every other week.
 
Pretty sure there were like 5 more comments after Krinks.

Cause I said something else about how I'd rather hang out with a trans person than a Christian. lol

I'm thinking either a glitch, I offended somebody, or I've finally lost touch with reality.
Pretty sure sunday.bird put a "idc" react on the comment I made this morning too. Hmm.
 
I read something the other day about how most mothers of young "trans" children have borderline personality disorder

I'll see if I can find it again so I can post it here
 
Electrum1 said:
I read something the other day about how most mothers of young "trans" children have borderline personality disorder

I'll see if I can find it again so I can post it here
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Is,this it? It is not surprising. Mamy trans people are Autistic. No not all people with Autism/Aspbergers/on AS are trans.

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Mothers of boys with gender identity disorder: a comparison of matched controls - PubMed

This pilot study compared mothers of boys with gender identity disorder (GID) with mothers of normal boys to determine whether differences in psychopathology and child-rearing attitudes and practices could be identified. Results of the Diagnostic Interview for Borderlines and the Beck Depression...
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
 
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