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Your Hair (and Other Things You Pick)

aveoturbo

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You dont have to be 100% perfect, you just have to
Am I the only one who likes to just pick at shtuff on their body? For example, I am 25 y.o. with blond hair but I have noticed lately that I am starting to grow some gray hairs! I had a wtf! moment when I first discovered this and had to pull it out. Then I discovered more gray hairs as I went through the rest of my head of hair and had to pull those as well. Then I discovered I have black hairs growing on my head too and they were more numerous but I pulled a bunch of those out too.

As well, I have to pop every pimple on my body and like to peel off scabs. I know its not what your supposed to do as it could lead to infections, but I do it anyway.

Its not that I am vain and feel like I have to look perfect all the time. Its just something I do and I am wondering if there are others out there who do the same thing.

Peace!
 
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My hair is thin and usually experience hair fall. I think its not health as it has dandruff and difficult to manage.
 
Nothing wrong with a bit of vanity.

I think it's bullshit that some people try to make those who care about their appearance feel guilty for doing so. I have a friend who doesn't give a shit about his appearance and frankly, he looks a god damn mess - unkempt longish hair, overgrown messy facial hair and wears whatever. I have no issue with that, as i'm not a retard - He can do what he likes.
I respect his lack of care for himself (lulz). However, he feels this enables him some kind of authority to slag me off whenever I check myself out in the mirror, when I do my hair and whatnot. Trying to say that somebody is vain just because they enjoy taking care of their appearance is fucking bullshit. What, just because I don't want to look a mess and prefer to feel confident about my appearance means I must be shallow? Fuck off.
(3 cheers for getting worked up and angry at people in your head).

So my good man, pick away, pull that hair, do whatever the hell you want to do if you feel it makes you look better and thus makes you feel better about yourself

I too have blonde hair, and blue eyes. Are you of the Aryan blessing also? I used to get a shitload of dandruff and my hair was pretty thin, but since I stopped using shampoo and started cold showering, my hair is MUCH thicker and I have no dandruff whatsoever.

Are you stressed? Do you see any more hair turning grey? I have plenty of friends your age and younger who have found a grey hair or three, and it never amounted to anything.
 
nothing wrong with looking after yourself. theres a difference between vanity and keeping yourself preened
 
Nothing wrong with a bit of vanity.

I think it's bullshit that some people try to make those who care about their appearance feel guilty for doing so. I have a friend who doesn't give a shit about his appearance and frankly, he looks a god damn mess - unkempt longish hair, overgrown messy facial hair and wears whatever. I have no issue with that, as i'm not a retard - He can do what he likes.
I respect his lack of care for himself (lulz). However, he feels this enables him some kind of authority to slag me off whenever I check myself out in the mirror, when I do my hair and whatnot. Trying to say that somebody is vain just because they enjoy taking care of their appearance is fucking bullshit. What, just because I don't want to look a mess and prefer to feel confident about my appearance means I must be shallow? Fuck off.
(3 cheers for getting worked up and angry at people in your head).

So my good man, pick away, pull that hair, do whatever the hell you want to do if you feel it makes you look better and thus makes you feel better about yourself

I too have blonde hair, and blue eyes. Are you of the Aryan blessing also? I used to get a shitload of dandruff and my hair was pretty thin, but since I stopped using shampoo and started cold showering, my hair is MUCH thicker and I have no dandruff whatsoever.

Are you stressed? Do you see any more hair turning grey? I have plenty of friends your age and younger who have found a grey hair or three, and it never amounted to anything.

Im always stressed out. My wife has more gray hair than I do tho and she is 25 as well 0.o

What I meant tho is that I can literally spend 1.5-2 hours just picking thru the hair on my head looking for those odd hairs that dont fit in. Sometimes it makes my eyes hurt from having to look up for that long and occasionally I get a headache from it. Also, I will pull out hairs on my face. Like on my cheeks I get a rogue facial hair that will be high on my cheek so I pluck it cus it looks weird all by itself. But I dont consider it weird because who wants a rogue hair on their face? LOL

Anyway, the other night I spent about an hour and a half in the bathroom pulling black hairs from my head and I had a pretty nice pile in the sink when I was done and I sort of felt shamed that I wasted all that time plucking out hair from my head that you cant really notice unless your looking for them. Then I spent the rest of the night trying to think about why a blond hair/blue eyed fella has black hair on his head. That seems weird too but in a diff way. A way that doesnt make sense.
And yes, I am Aryan. Half of my fam is also from Germany as well and the other half is Jewish. If this were 70 years ago and we all lived in Germany, it would be an interesting time for my family.
 
I like to pick rogue eyebrow hairs so my eyebrows are identical. Shave unaesthetic hairs on my body. Maintain as clean of a haircut as I can and look my best every time I go into public.

I guess I'm either a homosexual or a douchebag for worrying about my appearance as a guy.
 
Im always stressed out. My wife has more gray hair than I do tho and she is 25 as well 0.o

What I meant tho is that I can literally spend 1.5-2 hours just picking thru the hair on my head looking for those odd hairs that dont fit in. Sometimes it makes my eyes hurt from having to look up for that long and occasionally I get a headache from it. Also, I will pull out hairs on my face. Like on my cheeks I get a rogue facial hair that will be high on my cheek so I pluck it cus it looks weird all by itself. But I dont consider it weird because who wants a rogue hair on their face? LOL

Anyway, the other night I spent about an hour and a half in the bathroom pulling black hairs from my head and I had a pretty nice pile in the sink when I was done and I sort of felt shamed that I wasted all that time plucking out hair from my head that you cant really notice unless your looking for them. Then I spent the rest of the night trying to think about why a blond hair/blue eyed fella has black hair on his head. That seems weird too but in a diff way. A way that doesnt make sense.
And yes, I am Aryan. Half of my fam is also from Germany as well and the other half is Jewish. If this were 70 years ago and we all lived in Germany, it would be an interesting time for my family.

Man, I hear where you're coming from and I used to be really meticulous about my looks too, but it's honestly just not practical to try and strive for the perfect features.

This is where so many people go wrong - they constantly chase the elusive "perfect hair" or "flawless skin" but at the end of the day, we are but animals. You get what you're given and get on with life without spending 1 and a half hours pulling inevitable hairs from your head.

I honestly know exactly how you feel, but it seriously leads nowhere but to agitation and frustration! Aye, pull out the odd grey hair and whatnot if it;s bugging you, but spending so much of your life trying to irreproachably perfect your features just isn't healthy! Where will it end?! Won't somebody think of the children?!
 
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