Well I agree there too, some parents dont mature. Me and my ex-gf had two kids, when we decided to have our first I was 18, she was 24, after he was 3 months she wanted to go out party, I had straightened up a lot, I was always high, and I stopped that, so I was always staying home taking care of our son. Then a year later we wanted a another kid and had our daughter, I thought my ex was actually maturing finally, she even said she didnt want to party through the baby years again, but at 3 months old, she wanted to go out again, I got mad. Yes, I think she should have a life. I was 19 and wanted a life too, but I didnt want to party just have a little time to myself since I was always the stay at home mom, or even just sit at a friends house. She didnt like that though, only she should be able to go out, but she would get wasted and not come home for days.
I remember once I just wanted to go tanning, buy a book and see a friend, after a hour she called me saying she cant handle taking care of them, where was I and could I come home. I was pissed, all I asked for was 3 hours alone. She worked all day 5-6 days a week, so she never taken care of our kids. And she wouldnt even try. I later found out she was also talking to her boss, and she wasnt really working late some times, she was out drinking with him. I did everything for our kids, I was the one they saw when they would wake up in the middle of the night, morning, I fed them, gave them a bath, cleaned house, made dinner for me and my ex so she would have a hot meal after work. I got no respect. Even if I just went to the store I took one or both kids with m, since she would throw a fit if I left them.
I was done with it, I love my kids, but I couldnt take her any more, so i moved back home. I still call and check on my kids though, shes still not taking care of them, they are now living with her aunt. Shes a unfit mom.
But not everyone is like that. A lot of my young friends have kids and are great with them.
