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I'm not a jealous person but I think this is pretty shit. It's not just about what you're doing, but that you've lied about it (lying by omission is still lying). That doesn't show a lot of respect for your partner. I think there's a good chance this will spell the end of your r/ship, and for good reason too.
 
Joeof1 said:
Nobody asked the question of how serious are you with your boyfriend.

Do you live together? Does he actually provide support for you, or you for him? Otherwise it's your body, and your life. You don't owe him and explanation for the choices you make if it does not put him at risk for anything.
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So it's not her body or her life if she's living with her boyfriend?
No, it's always her body and her life.
Does that make sleeping with someone else okay? It depends on your morals. For swingers, it's okay!

The point is, out of respect for your boyfriend, you should tell him. It is something that he may have an issue with. If he does, you should talk it out with him and reach an agreement. He doesn't own you, of course not. But you are dating him and, if he is worried about something in the relationships or something with you, he should tell you. Like let's say you smoked and he was against smoking. You guys should have a talk about it, right?

.... I really want to see how this turned out though!
 
I haven't seen webcam girl reply in awhile she must be killing it in web cam world :-P. Hey, I see alot of people saying, " i wouldn't mind as long as shes making money" what a joke. Shes on there because shes not happy with her sex life, so go ahead and say I wouldnt mind. I think web cam sex would be hard to compete against 1 woman 100's of guys plus money.
 
tapuout101 said:
I Shes on there because shes not happy with her sex life, so go ahead and say I wouldnt mind. I think web cam sex would be hard to compete against 1 woman 100's of guys plus money.
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what does that got to do with her sex life? she's doing it as a job.
Webcam is more about showing your body and talking dirty..

It's not up there as strippers and prostitution, since those two are in contact with client. WebCam is more of a modern sex phone hot line.. which means you in contact with nobody, you're just sitting in your home naked. And these days there's so much hardcore porn out there, that sitting naked is not a big deal. I'm guessing its only top-less, I've never really done web cam so im not sure.

the reason some guys might not like it, it's because what it tells you about the girl, the average good girl type would not do it, it's mostly the bad type girl whose addicted to drugs, etc who does it..

also your average BL guy is more open-minded, that's why most don't mind here. I'm pretty sure outside here they will care.

So it really depends on what type of a person ur bf is..
 
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I think it has alot to do with unhappy sex life. You stated that it is not up there with strippers and prostitution, but at the same time you say," they get naked, get paid and a type of modern sex. I think that would classify as prostitution. I believe its more sexually stimulating than what her and her bf is doing. I think its a form of masterbation with elements of voyourism and exhibitionism. The ones I see is 2 girls putting on shows and they are correrced to do more. From what I see about 95% of woman have no interest in guys they are just into each other. Which makes it nice for heterosexual people to find anyone let alone anyone decent.
 
tapuout101 said:
The ones I see is 2 girls putting on shows and they are correrced to do more. From what I see about 95% of woman have no interest in guys they are just into each other. Which makes it nice for heterosexual people to find anyone let alone anyone decent.
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your saying that 95% of the girls on webcam are into other women only??
Where did u get that from??

Im sure theres a lot of different webcam, girl on girl, etc. It’s a big money industry, whatever makes the viewers pay more, most likely it will be provided by whatever company.

But brining another person in the webcam with u is another topic, which takes it to the next level.

Im sure the OP is only doing regular web cam with no other person, just herself.

I really don't see a big deal in it, plus these things are temporary, you can't do them forever, once you become older (probably 33-35 depending how well you keep yourself) and lose your look, its finish..
these jobs you try to make as much money in short time as possible.
 
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tapuout101 said:
I think it has alot to do with unhappy sex life. You stated that it is not up there with strippers and prostitution, but at the same time you say," they get naked, get paid and a type of modern sex. I think that would classify as prostitution. I believe its more sexually stimulating than what her and her bf is doing. I think its a form of masterbation with elements of voyourism and exhibitionism.
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it really doesn't qualify as prostitution, prostitution actually involves sexual contact, here there is no contact at all. they're not even in the same room like strippers are.. Its more of a sex phone with camera, nothing more, I don't know where ur getting voyourism and exhibitionism from.



But theres still stigma to it, since the OP is even using anonymous post, meaning shes not that comfortable about it or for people to know..
 
prost. def-
-a woman who engages in sexual acts for money.
-a person who willingly uses his or her talent or ability in a base and unworthy way, usually for money.

voy. def.-
-A person who derives sexual gratification from observing the naked bodies or sexual acts of others, especially from a secret vantage point.
-An obsessive observer of sordid or sensational subjects.

ehib. def
- The act or practice of deliberately behaving so as to attract attention.
- Psychiatry A psychosexual disorder marked by the compulsive exposure of the genitals in public


Heres the definition's of the words from a dictionary they seem to fit. The poster hasn't replied in like 2 week I think they are MIA.
 
i think it's great honey, i've watched these webcams myself. and some of the girls on it are really hot. i don't mind watching plain girls either, but if your enjoying it and making money. good for you, you don't know if they do web cams with blokes in it do you. because i wouldn't mind stripping off myself for the women, and earning some money myself. what's the pay like honey.
 
I personally wouldnt care if it doesnt involve anyone you know. That and seeing a big check would help things i think.
 
P n P/Big Shit Poppin'

A FWB turned me on to the webcam stuff the other night, and I gotta say, the pnp section is happening. Not only do you watch people get off, you watch 'em get high before they get off. There is truly something for everyone on the Net. =D
 
I I'm a guy and I too have too trolled around on a couple of different live sex chat rooms. I enjoyed going throw the room one by one looking for the perfect girl and getting her to try different things that she may or may not have done before. I speak as a guy when I say I wouldn't wait till you get a check before telling him that your doing these cam shows. I would tell him that you signed up with the Idea of doing it together as a couple and see what he says. I also don't know what type of personality your BoyFriend has but I know I would feel better about make the decision together instead of you just doing on your own. That's cause I have a little bit of an ego and always want play that knight and shining armor to protect that always going to be there to protect you. Besides I've heard that the couple Shows pay more and as a costumer I liked the couples shows better. I also think even if shy type guy and says no that he dose want to do the couples shows that he would fell better about make the decision to let you doing it on your own knowing that he was the one who said no in the first place. As far as the most appropriate time to tell him goes I would wait by the front door in you sexiest alfit when he comes home from work. Then if I was you I would attack him and get him all hot and bothered before he can asks you what got you all turn on. Then once he dose ask you tell him about the cam shows and Show them what there like and guys are always more excepting when they think it's going to get them laided more offend
 
Shit, can I do webcams if I'm a guy? This thread gives me ideas.... I could make loads according to my encounters with gay males....
 
I dated a Stripper and I have to say it did turn me on at first know that I was going home with a girl that every guy in the club wanted. After about a week though that novelty wore off and started thing about her safety so I laid out a few ground rule for her. Nothing big at first just stuff like I had to be the one who dropped off at the Club and I had to be the one who picked up from the Club and I was all ways take different route back to may house in case someone was fallowing us pure paranoia. I even started make my self feel sick to my stomach over it. I do agree with you on this cause even though the girls a showing more of them selves on these web cams at least there doing so from the privacy to there own homes.
 
I don't think sticking labels on a type of behaviour helps much.
As a cam girl you are not likely to be exposed to infection, violence, or prosecution.
Although you could be opening yourself to blackmail, recognition and possible stalking
I think your BF should know about it though.
He might feel betrayed should he find out. Suppose one of his friends saw you on cam?
What would you do?
And if you are making good money with this try and save it for those times when the money will not come so easy.
 
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